

Go up to him, grab him by the nuts and say "Hi! How are you?"DMPA wrote:well, since we have the "how to approach a girl?" topic, I might as well ask how to approach a guy....A SHY QUIET kind of guy, who's kinda lonely... GIVE ME ALL advices that you have people!! all of em! lol
I disagree. The direct and honest approach is the best. If he can't handle it then he isn't ready to be with anyone. A girl might be not respond well to a direct approach but a guy should be able to step up to the plate. That's the whole point of being a guy.booniez wrote:Everyone seems to be on the right track, I think. Well, except for Yamcha. Although, I would have less of a problem with that now than when I was in high school.
The direct approach is definitely out. He might think you're teasing him or being otherwise insincere if you just approach him head on. Let him know you're an okay person first...
Your have one perspective, yes.Sometimes I talk to shy guys, not that I have a second interest or anything, but just talking, see what they have to say. So, while some begin to talk more, others just stick with the same quiet attitude.. Then Im not sure if they have a low self-esteem or if they really dont care..
Perhaps its me, but with some guys Im the one doing all the conversation, they like, smile back and answer politely... and thats when I think "Haha, ok, will be going now.. no more bothering you.." Feeling that I just said dumb things and made a fool out of myself could be a great feeling but wont approach again anytime soon..
Anyway, even if he is a shy guy, Im expecting a normal reaction to an approach.. otherwise he is just arrogant.. Sorry if this is off topic, but thought people should be aware that just talking wont do the trick... Or it depends on the girl talking, could be that
O_Oyamcha wrote:Go up to him, grab him by the nuts and say "Hi! How are you?"DMPA wrote::wub: well, since we have the "how to approach a girl?" topic, I might as well ask how to approach a guy....A SHY QUIET kind of guy, who's kinda lonely... GIVE ME ALL advices that you have people!! all of em! lol :mrgreen:
Hell, it's midnight, everyone's asleep, and you just made me laugh out loud. I should stop picturing such things. Lol.yamcha wrote:Go up to him, grab him by the nuts and say "Hi! How are you?"
mimmi wrote:walk up to him, smile at him, walk around him and pinch him hard on his tush then walk away
It more like "hi! lets go for a test drive" i promise you that will drive us crazy :pyamcha wrote:
Go up to him, grab him by the nuts and say "Hi! How are you?"
I could go on and on about what the idea of "being a guy" is, but I guess we can say that kind of thing about guys. I'd be skewered if I tried to so neatly box up the idea of "being a girl" is about.yamcha wrote:I disagree. The direct and honest approach is the best. If he can't handle it then he isn't ready to be with anyone. A girl might be not respond well to a direct approach but a guy should be able to step up to the plate. That's the whole point of being a guy.
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accisse wrote:Ehhh??? I thought it's the other way round as in girls have problems approaching guys. Or am I just weird?kobe23 wrote:I never knew girls had problems approaching guys - it's usually the other way around.
Should we pick up the cheque too since we're men? or open doors for women?(Aside to show a nice gesture). Stop the stereotypes! A girl should be able to step up to the plate too!yamcha wrote: I disagree. The direct and honest approach is the best. If he can't handle it then he isn't ready to be with anyone. A girl might be not respond well to a direct approach but a guy should be able to step up to the plate. That's the whole point of being a guy.
Maybe I've been around too many shy guys who are afraid of approaching girls, and the ones that are not shy usually go about it totally the wrong way.accisse wrote:Ehhh??? I thought it's the other way round as in girls have problems approaching guys. Or am I just weird?kobe23 wrote:I never knew girls had problems approaching guys - it's usually the other way around.
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