GIRLS - What kind of guy do you like?
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pokute wrote:I only date women who sit around in their underwear watching dorama all day, so go ahead and PM me.
pokute wrote:Damn, no PM's... yet.
pokute wrote:Hmmm... I PM'd myself, so I know it's working...
pokute wrote:Or I am not smart and funny enough in the right way? I need to do what Bille does:
"Ah, what's that under your nose?"
"POINK! Haha, I fooled you, haha!"
Girls really go for that kinda humor, huh? I guess I just don't have what it takes. Shoot.
pokute wrote:I just got a very sweet PM from one of the girls here, so nyah nyah nyah!
pokute u so funny roflol ahahahahahahaha so how many pms u get from the girls by now??diablonhn wrote:are you sure it's from a girl?
Seriously i think girls will fall for a guy for his personality. Everyone have a dream.. wishes is different from reality. Im sure all girls dream to have boyfriend who have the looks intelligent yet funny, healthy and wealthy. My dream guy would be someone like that. In reality we dont always date people like that (i doubted they really exist hahaha). Funny is good but money is important, i'm not saying girls only want to date wealthy guys.. what i mean is we would like to date someone who have financial security.. at least got a job to support his family or at least plan for the future (not just dreaming).
By the way i dont think asian man look like gay at all hahaha...
[img]http://para.boo.jp/image/men/kattun/kattun008.jpg[/img]
This is my dream guy.. my boyfriend look totally the opposite hehe... but i love him for who he is ..
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Tall, handsome and smart. I want someone that really looks like an adult and acts like one.
Men that are short are strange. I'm over-short myself so when I normally watch a man, I'm like "whoah, my neck is dead". I don't want to not feel that *crack* when I watch my boyfriend. xD
Men that are always sugar-high makes me want to hit them hard.
Men that doesn't have any brains should be shot (sorry for every man that aren't that smart. :p).
Men that are cute are nice to watch only for a while [and they makes anyone feel funny (like in you're-goddamn-molestable -way)]. Though if I were to love one, damn. x3 Then I just would have to ignore their cuteness.
Men that are short are strange. I'm over-short myself so when I normally watch a man, I'm like "whoah, my neck is dead". I don't want to not feel that *crack* when I watch my boyfriend. xD
Men that are always sugar-high makes me want to hit them hard.
Men that doesn't have any brains should be shot (sorry for every man that aren't that smart. :p).
Men that are cute are nice to watch only for a while [and they makes anyone feel funny (like in you're-goddamn-molestable -way)]. Though if I were to love one, damn. x3 Then I just would have to ignore their cuteness.
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Personally, I don't care about looks. He can be short or whatever. He don't have to be super rich.
I prefer men that:
1) Know what to do when the time comes
2) Have wisdom and able to console whoever needs advise
3) Less egoist, but open minded and don't mind if a girl is more successful
4) Able to go through hardship together
5) Practical, smart, generous, logical and loyal
These are all the qualities I can think now.
I prefer men that:
1) Know what to do when the time comes
2) Have wisdom and able to console whoever needs advise
3) Less egoist, but open minded and don't mind if a girl is more successful
4) Able to go through hardship together
5) Practical, smart, generous, logical and loyal
These are all the qualities I can think now.
Guys, don't judge yourself at all what ever any of the girls say here ^^, they don't really know what they want. Usually its the romantic, smart, sensible, handsome hot guy. Kinda like Rain eh? lol. Oh, but when the jerk comes by who's mediocre they'll be singing a different tune.
Big difference between what you want as a friend and what you want as a boyfriend. HAH!
Big difference between what you want as a friend and what you want as a boyfriend. HAH!
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smart B-boy?MinaPi wrote:SMART B-BOY WITH BIG BAGGY PANTS
BIG EYES AND LONG EYELASHES
FUNNY TO DEATH
AGRESSIVE
SEXAY
... um yeah, good luck with that. That's like asking for a cool A-boy. However, if you want a dumb B-boy who begs for money come to union square park on 14th street and broadway in NYC, you always see them there practicing. they don't wear baggy pants anymore though.
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whats a b-boy?kotaeshiranaihito wrote:smart B-boy?MinaPi wrote:SMART B-BOY WITH BIG BAGGY PANTS
BIG EYES AND LONG EYELASHES
FUNNY TO DEATH
AGRESSIVE
SEXAY
... um yeah, good luck with that. That's like asking for a cool A-boy. However, if you want a dumb B-boy who begs for money come to union square park on 14th street and broadway in NYC, you always see them there practicing. they don't wear baggy pants anymore though.
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breakdance boy or break boy. Like the guys in that dumb movie "you got served".whisperss_57 wrote: whats a b-boy?
They usually have no jobs, don't study, have absolutely no future, and just waste their time break dancing and begging for money in the parks. As opposed to someone who just likes to breakdance as a hobby, these people are more like breakdance otaku.
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ahhh thanks for that =)kotaeshiranaihito wrote:breakdance boy or break boy. Like the guys in that dumb movie "you got served".whisperss_57 wrote: whats a b-boy?
They usually have no jobs, don't study, have absolutely no future, and just waste their time break dancing and begging for money in the parks. As opposed to someone who just likes to breakdance as a hobby, these people are more like breakdance otaku.
well i dont want a b-boy lol
how bout "no-guy" not lesbian. Just that relationships are so much of a hassle -_-;;
But I like the "serious-funny-witty-tall-listening-talk when needed-sophisticated-childishly mature-contradictory-independent-adventurous-never clingy" type.
NatNat is correct. Guys can't be dumbed down to one type.
But I like the "serious-funny-witty-tall-listening-talk when needed-sophisticated-childishly mature-contradictory-independent-adventurous-never clingy" type.
NatNat is correct. Guys can't be dumbed down to one type.
I don´t think that all the b-boys are like this!
My boyfriend is a b-boy and he´s a job, he pays everything for me. And I think that the definition of a b-boy is not only being jobless, breakdance. A b-boy here in Germany is nothing more than a cool guy with tatoos, big baggy pants, great body and such agressive temper!
I don´t wanna those black b-boys!
My boyfriend is a b-boy and he´s a job, he pays everything for me. And I think that the definition of a b-boy is not only being jobless, breakdance. A b-boy here in Germany is nothing more than a cool guy with tatoos, big baggy pants, great body and such agressive temper!
I don´t wanna those black b-boys!
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every real life guy that I have had a crush on, either has gelled hair or glasses. I seem to have a thing for those with the smart look, but goofy personality^^. I find them cute and cool.
I also like guys that look like U-Know from TVXQ and Rain.
Guys that are shy, are cute but I can never get along with them because I am also shy
I also like guys that look like U-Know from TVXQ and Rain.
Guys that are shy, are cute but I can never get along with them because I am also shy
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If you are asking for what types of guys girls like well usually we would be answer someone that is perfect, (tall dark and handsome... etc) but i find it Funny somehow kuz most of my girl-friends surprised themselves to like someone that is totally different than wat they wanted.lols. so really it just depends on time and through time comes the chemistry that may grow between the two person. because even if some girls say they like some types of guys, but deep inside they probably have no clue themselves. =]
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hmm, never attracted to the tough wild guy at that age....was always attracted to the older ones; more mature and sophisticated, handsome looking guys....now, I still like my guy, he's the best ....scott12199 wrote:15-23 looking for tough wild guy
24-30 looking for guys that are ready to setlle down
31-40 successful goal oriented guy with a good shoulder to fall back on
i say this is about 70% correct
as the saying goes "nice boys finish last."
Lol... I'm not attracted to the wild guys... xD
I'm close to being 14 and I'm attracted to guys who are MATURE, SWEET, TALL, SMART, POLITE, CARING AND THOUGHTFUL guy who knows how to treat a girl. xDD That's my ideal guy! ... altho my boy is none of the above except tall and carin... i love him to death .
I'm close to being 14 and I'm attracted to guys who are MATURE, SWEET, TALL, SMART, POLITE, CARING AND THOUGHTFUL guy who knows how to treat a girl. xDD That's my ideal guy! ... altho my boy is none of the above except tall and carin... i love him to death .
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Hmm- I prefer the intelligent, sarcastic & insulting in that affectionate sort of way kind of guy. Not too sensitive or too nice, I think too nice means their lying about half the things they say to you. Posessiveness in nice too.
To shorten things up- Kind of like Ah Mon in Devil Beside You. <3 I swear, he's perfect. But his brother isn't bad either. ^^;;
To shorten things up- Kind of like Ah Mon in Devil Beside You. <3 I swear, he's perfect. But his brother isn't bad either. ^^;;
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You want to know what makes even less sense? Even after scientific evidence, social evidence, and personal experiences that pretty much prove that women don't want what they say they want, guys still listen to them, and still act like the nice guy ... and still keep getting used and rejected.gyuudon wrote:So far, it sounds like girls prefer the "nice" guys.
...But from what I've seen from a lot of relationships, it's always the "I want to get laid quick" bastards, "I'll shower you with gifts" guys or just the plain assholes.
I don't get it.
Honestly, in this situation (to me at least) guys make even less sense than girls. I mean, they act like wusses, see that it doesn't work, and then THEY ACT LIKE BIGGER WUSSES. I mean it's like if I'm trying to get to 68th street and I'm walking down 51st, then 50th, then 49th, and instead of turning around and going to right way, I continue going further down the exact same direction. If you see something doesn't work for you and other people, and something else works for a lot of others, then chances are: you're doing something wrong, and they're doing something right.
Oh well, it makes no difference to me, less competition.
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true as this is, the only 2 girls in my life who really mattered (one before and the girl i married) to me were girls i got by being nice. NOT PASSIVE WUSSY NICE mind you, but nice. no games.kotaeshiranaihito wrote:You want to know what makes even less sense? Even after scientific evidence, social evidence, and personal experiences that pretty much prove that women don't want what they say they want, guys still listen to them, and still act like the nice guy ... and still keep getting used and rejected.gyuudon wrote:So far, it sounds like girls prefer the "nice" guys.
...But from what I've seen from a lot of relationships, it's always the "I want to get laid quick" bastards, "I'll shower you with gifts" guys or just the plain assholes.
I don't get it.
Honestly, in this situation (to me at least) guys make even less sense than girls. I mean, they act like wusses, see that it doesn't work, and then THEY ACT LIKE BIGGER WUSSES. I mean it's like if I'm trying to get to 68th street and I'm walking down 51st, then 50th, then 49th, and instead of turning around and going to right way, I continue going further down the exact same direction. If you see something doesn't work for you and other people, and something else works for a lot of others, then chances are: you're doing something wrong, and they're doing something right.
Oh well, it makes no difference to me, less competition.
Nice is ok.
Passive is NOT. Actually in live passivity rarely if anything accomplishes anything when i think about it.
I think that's a really good point. Treating a girl right and being nice towards her is different from being really shy. Problem is that it's a fine line between being a bit of a seductionist...nikochanr3 wrote:NOT PASSIVE WUSSY NICE mind you, but nice. no games.
I just think, I might as well just act like I normally would anyway. I don't really see it as trying to "get" a girl. After all, if it works out presumably I would be spending the rest of my life with that person, which is a long time to pretend for.
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Rofl@ -" the Lynx effect just doesn't work I'm afraid"mojo-chan wrote:Funny how they all smell... the Lynx effect just doesn't work I'm afraid. Personally, I prefer a girl to smell fresh, like lemon soap or something. Clean. Not flowery though, I get hayfeversweetsamurai wrote:yeh but your a pompous git and you smell!
I get hayfever too!! I also like to smell of oranges and lemons - and rub my face with them
quite interesting as to see so many different responses.
well looking at it.. most of the girls in here like the nice, mature sorta guys because the girls who likes bad boys are out(with them) and not sitting down on the comp =P
although this thread is for the girls, i find it interesting to read what girls like in us guys =]
well looking at it.. most of the girls in here like the nice, mature sorta guys because the girls who likes bad boys are out(with them) and not sitting down on the comp =P
although this thread is for the girls, i find it interesting to read what girls like in us guys =]
Does anyone else find that Lynx ad creepy? For those not in the UK, this nerdy guy basically sprays himself with Lynx and suddenly hundreds of attractive* women are all over him, apparently driven out of their mind by the allegedly sexy smell of his foul perfume.
To me, the smell of Lynx says "I don't wash enough, and was too cheap to buy anything better than this crap."
But imagine if someone did invent something that really worked like that. They would have to ban it, or women would have to carry cattle prods just in case. Someone should invent anti-Lynx, which normally is odourless but when mixed with normal Lynx smells like a sewage works...
To me, the smell of Lynx says "I don't wash enough, and was too cheap to buy anything better than this crap."
But imagine if someone did invent something that really worked like that. They would have to ban it, or women would have to carry cattle prods just in case. Someone should invent anti-Lynx, which normally is odourless but when mixed with normal Lynx smells like a sewage works...
mmm..definately funny, fun and smart types who are confident (but not overconfident...-_-)~
guys w/o brains or confidence and stress out too much are a bit of a turn off...
but one thing I find really cute is when a confident guy has those moments when they can't help but be shy or insecure for some reason...
guys w/o brains or confidence and stress out too much are a bit of a turn off...
but one thing I find really cute is when a confident guy has those moments when they can't help but be shy or insecure for some reason...
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yeah that ad is creepy. Esp. since I feel the need to barf when I smell Lynx...esp when it's used excessively..mojo-chan wrote:Does anyone else find that Lynx ad creepy? For those not in the UK, this nerdy guy basically sprays himself with Lynx and suddenly hundreds of attractive* women are all over him, apparently driven out of their mind by the allegedly sexy smell of his foul perfume.
To me, the smell of Lynx says "I don't wash enough, and was too cheap to buy anything better than this crap."
But imagine if someone did invent something that really worked like that. They would have to ban it, or women would have to carry cattle prods just in case. Someone should invent anti-Lynx, which normally is odourless but when mixed with normal Lynx smells like a sewage works...
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haha, well, i like guys who is a little shy, funny, ineresting, good looking, good taste in stuff, similar interest, kind, caring, loving, honest, a little be romantic, sweet, taller then me, not too fat and understanding =] well, i might sound a bit too much but guys like that are attractive and hawwwt!! He is Perfect guy for me =D though it is so hard to find one.
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I think it's most important that they aren't a ho so that they don't give you STDs once you're in an intimate relationship. Other than that it's all about if the personalities and goals mix well. Is this person going to get pissed at me every time I say something they don't agree with? Are they going to be overbearing and restrictive or will they make me feel like they don't care that much about me? Are they going to be a bad parent if my goal is to have a family with them?
It's awesome to find someone with a sense of humor, but a lot of times the funniest people are using that to cover up insecurities and feelings of anger so it's important not to just fall for the first guy that cracks a joke. I knew this guy who would make a joke about all the problems he saw in other people and now no one really wants to spend time with him because they feel like he's a jerk but they can't really retaliate without looking like they're uptight. At first it seemed kind of funny and like he was an enjoyable person to be around, but once you get past that and he keeps doing it you realize what's at the core of it and how tiring it can be.
Also, I think the most important thing is that you'd be able to be yourself and play around and enjoy life without getting scolded or ignored for it. They aren't any better than you so it's important they don't see themselves as being superior just because you feel like randomly picking some flowers, dancing around, or singing a silly song. Which has happened to me, and it's really hurtful and boring. You want someone who will more often than not join in on the silly things you feel like doing and go out to the weird new places you want to explore.
Yeah, so I think it's not so much being funny as it is being willing to have fun and laugh.
It's awesome to find someone with a sense of humor, but a lot of times the funniest people are using that to cover up insecurities and feelings of anger so it's important not to just fall for the first guy that cracks a joke. I knew this guy who would make a joke about all the problems he saw in other people and now no one really wants to spend time with him because they feel like he's a jerk but they can't really retaliate without looking like they're uptight. At first it seemed kind of funny and like he was an enjoyable person to be around, but once you get past that and he keeps doing it you realize what's at the core of it and how tiring it can be.
Also, I think the most important thing is that you'd be able to be yourself and play around and enjoy life without getting scolded or ignored for it. They aren't any better than you so it's important they don't see themselves as being superior just because you feel like randomly picking some flowers, dancing around, or singing a silly song. Which has happened to me, and it's really hurtful and boring. You want someone who will more often than not join in on the silly things you feel like doing and go out to the weird new places you want to explore.
Yeah, so I think it's not so much being funny as it is being willing to have fun and laugh.
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I like guys who are Goofy.
One that can make me smile at anytime.
And can use his Goofiness in a charming way.
I also like a creative&smart guy.
& Tall, I'm crazy about tall guys.
Clean. It's a plus when they use colagne that smells good.
Laid back too. ONe that could Talk about anything.
Since i'm a pretty random person.
Someone who could speak up for themselves.
& got something going for themselves.
Sometimes i could go for the guy who people see as bad boy who has all the bad qualities you know the REBEL, But if you get to know him you'll see quailties in him that make him a gentle, Sweet, and smart guy.
Wow i've been watching to many dramas, Guys like that probably only exist in movies and shows.
One that can make me smile at anytime.
And can use his Goofiness in a charming way.
I also like a creative&smart guy.
& Tall, I'm crazy about tall guys.
Clean. It's a plus when they use colagne that smells good.
Laid back too. ONe that could Talk about anything.
Since i'm a pretty random person.
Someone who could speak up for themselves.
& got something going for themselves.
Sometimes i could go for the guy who people see as bad boy who has all the bad qualities you know the REBEL, But if you get to know him you'll see quailties in him that make him a gentle, Sweet, and smart guy.
Wow i've been watching to many dramas, Guys like that probably only exist in movies and shows.
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hahahah
Hika.chan wrote:I like guys with future ! This doesn't mean that they have to be over succesful in their job. Just that they have dreams and things they want to achieve (like travelling, learning new things - always being curious about life). Haven't found someone like that, yet.
well, i fit all those categories, except I'm not interested in having a girlfriend, sorry lol
hello every1, i just saw the name of this thread and was lyk "wow", this looks intersting
hope u girls dont mind if i join too
i voted for the smart type but really, i wouldnt want a bf who was ONLY smart
- i lyk talented boys, smart and intellect type, and strives
- in terms of behaviour, i want a bf who is nice to me but funny
- i dont usually mind the looks but ill be sooo much more delighted if he looked good
- i think ive counted the main things, and if he has all those, i think ill reckon he is very cool as well
hope u girls dont mind if i join too
i voted for the smart type but really, i wouldnt want a bf who was ONLY smart
- i lyk talented boys, smart and intellect type, and strives
- in terms of behaviour, i want a bf who is nice to me but funny
- i dont usually mind the looks but ill be sooo much more delighted if he looked good
- i think ive counted the main things, and if he has all those, i think ill reckon he is very cool as well
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