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Post by kendrew » Oct 16th, '05, 17:48

wish i could but she has a bf now (which is why im regretting it)

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Oct 16th, '05, 18:26

Ko-ni-chi-wa mina san =] hehe how is everyone, well all i can say is go for it :D

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Post by ~Adam~ » Oct 16th, '05, 19:07

Well I found out exactly what happened, she said " Her girlfriend's boyfriend was looking at hentai and was crying again" So she went to see her. Its not the first time that has happened either.

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Post by kendrew » Oct 16th, '05, 23:10

Adam: theres a chance for you :D


oh man, this weekend is boring, and so much hmk. :P

apparently us people (dont wanna name too long list) on this forum have little problems with our love life which means we come here to get help :)

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Oct 16th, '05, 23:18

hey everyone, hmm i was thinking about what i should say to msdream girl tomo, i thought i should go up to her and try to start a conversation, then say " owh isit alright if you give me your number again, because i deleted it by accident?" i know i shouldnt lie, but this is a white lie isnt it?

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Post by Akiramenai » Oct 16th, '05, 23:26

Cloud James Lionheart wrote:hey everyone, hmm i was thinking about what i should say to msdream girl tomo, i thought i should go up to her and try to start a conversation, then say " owh isit alright if you give me your number again, because i deleted it by accident?" i know i shouldnt lie, but this is a white lie isnt it?
Yeah, I think that's a great idea. Just go up to her and tell her you lost her number, and ask her if she can give it again. When your dating her later, you probably can tell her and laugh about it. Good luck tomorrow, akiramenai!
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Post by kendrew » Oct 17th, '05, 03:32

just go do it... and laugh at it later.

i know i would do it haha

be happy now :D

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 17th, '05, 07:23

Cloud James Lionheart wrote:hey everyone, hmm i was thinking about what i should say to msdream girl tomo, i thought i should go up to her and try to start a conversation, then say " owh isit alright if you give me your number again, because i deleted it by accident?" i know i shouldnt lie, but this is a white lie isnt it?
Go Cloud, you're ahead of us hehe!!

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Post by Valcun » Oct 17th, '05, 07:42

Cloud James Lionheart wrote:hey everyone, hmm i was thinking about what i should say to msdream girl tomo, i thought i should go up to her and try to start a conversation, then say " owh isit alright if you give me your number again, because i deleted it by accident?" i know i shouldnt lie, but this is a white lie isnt it?
Its OK Cloud, I know how you feel. I'm only 17 and I am also in college. But to tell you the truth, most people are surprised of my age because I act like I am in my early 20's. But let me give you some advice that has been working for me since I saw Bus Hermes. I been practicing real hard with any girl so that when I see her back on the bus, I know what to say.

When your first go up to her, bring up something funny but that will totally surprise her and catch her off guard. First you need to call her a name, preferably dork. They like that a lot. Play games with her, like when I walk with a girl I try to slowly push her in to the wall and do it spontaneously. Also, you need to show your masculine side. Don't get caught to much in your emotions. What I do is think more of having fun with the conversation than go with the number. Next tell interesting stories, the only way to have interesting stories is to be a interesting person! :-P. Be **** funny. Then go for the EMAIL first, ask her for it. While she is writing it say these exact words, "Hey, why don't you put your number too." I usually go for e-mail because its easier to get than numbers.

Its been a week and a half since I've seen Bus Hermes, I don't think I'll ever see her again. But I learned all these skills to help me be successful in having fun and establishing conversations with women. You can do it to. Remember my post cloud? http://www.d-addicts.com/forum/viewtopi ... &start=690

I know you've probably heard this a millions times, but this is truly from my heart. "You can do it!" If it helps, when I'm talking with really stunning girls, I think to my self "Giggidy Giggidy.... alright!!!" helps me calm down :)

-Valcun

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 17th, '05, 10:06

Valcun our "BUS OTOKO" is BACK!!! How thing is going Valcun? Hope you're doing fine!!

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Post by equang » Oct 17th, '05, 14:04

I support Vulcan's advice :D I shove [read: gently push] girls into walls all the time :D It brings out their playful side. Another thing I do, though mostly with girls I'm already friends with, is when we're walking 3 or 4 people in a row and she's in the middle and I'm on the outside, I walk into her until she's forced to walk into the other people XP In high school, a female friend of mine would have a hit-and-run relationship. We'd always be smashing each other into lockers XP

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Post by grifter0x » Oct 17th, '05, 14:26

amrayu wrote:
grifter0x wrote:
amrayu wrote:
You have to dig around a bit to find these geeky girls. Usually, those attractive geeky girls are in-the-closet geeks.
DigitalLife?! Some of my co-workers are in NYC right now to attend that. :lol Oh! Maybe you'll see one of my co-workers, she is cute and an in-the-closet geek!

Trondog: Your appearance is not bad at all. You're a very decent looking guy in fact!
Good luck with that girl you're eating lunch with...but I feel wary since she's on the rebound. Having a relationship with someone on the rebound sucks. :pale:

amrayu:
Why do you have say something like that, one of your co-workers will be there. Every cute girl I see there I will be wondering in the back of my mind if thats her.

All i have say is that we need more amrayu's in this world. This world would be much happier. O.K. I'll admit it, I would be much happier. :lol
http://www.1up.com/do/blogEntry?bId=587 ... Id=5546002

Here's a link to her blog post! She even blogged about Digital Life already. :P
Hint: She has her pic in her blog also. :lol
amrayu,

I looked and looked, couldn't find her. I did find the 1up.com table, it was really crowded. The highlight of the day was just seeing Rachael Hunter. We did see a kid holding a Carmen Electra picture autographed, my friends and I looked and looked but couldn't find her. Overall the show was so so.

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Oct 17th, '05, 15:18

KITAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! Mina mina minaaaa! :D hehe i talked to her again ( i still shake ), she said that she did recieve one of my texts =S, but she then apoligised and said she couldnt text back becausee she didnt have any credit. so i was kinda relieved, i then asked for her number again and told her i deleted it by accident, she gave me it and this time it was complete!! yata! hehe :D i then talked to her and i found out that, she lives in a flat with flat mates, and she is currently looking for a job. maybe i should help her find one.,.. theres one problem though... im not good on talking to girls on the phone, let alone just pushing the call button,...

Love and peace

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Post by Akiramenai » Oct 17th, '05, 15:34

Do you got a job yourself? If you haven't got one, why not tell her you are looking for a job too and ask her if she wants to go jobhunting with you. :thumright:

About calling: The best thing is to pick up the phone and just call. If you run short on words, just say goodbye.

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 17th, '05, 15:55

Cloud James Lionheart wrote:KITAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! Mina mina minaaaa! :D hehe i talked to her again ( i still shake ), she said that she did recieve one of my texts =S, but she then apoligised and said she couldnt text back becausee she didnt have any credit. so i was kinda relieved, i then asked for her number again and told her i deleted it by accident, she gave me it and this time it was complete!! yata! hehe :D i then talked to her and i found out that, she lives in a flat with flat mates, and she is currently looking for a job. maybe i should help her find one.,.. theres one problem though... im not good on talking to girls on the phone, let alone just pushing the call button,...

Love and peace

Cloud
Kitaa!! Cloud, I'm very proud of ya!! Keep it going mate!! As for me hehe, the trainer's daughter text me today!! I begin to like her too and feel bad about my girl training partner!

I found myself more at ease with the trainer's daughter since we share nearly same interest and she's so easy to talk with. On the other hand, the girl training partner, I don't know much about her because we didn't have much free time for a talk!

What am I going to do??

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Post by dspR » Oct 17th, '05, 16:04

Cloud, trust me. Talking on the phone is much easier than talking to the person face to face.
Besides, you can just read a list of things to talk about and go on from there.

Jeremiah, which girl are you more attracted to?
Whoever it is, just be friends with both of them. Who knows, you might get dumped and have to resort to the other one. :/
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Post by freshsay » Oct 17th, '05, 16:05

Cloud James Lionheart wrote:KITAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! Mina mina minaaaa! :D hehe i talked to her again ( i still shake ), she said that she did recieve one of my texts =S, but she then apoligised and said she couldnt text back becausee she didnt have any credit. so i was kinda relieved, i then asked for her number again and told her i deleted it by accident, she gave me it and this time it was complete!! yata! hehe :D i then talked to her and i found out that, she lives in a flat with flat mates, and she is currently looking for a job. maybe i should help her find one.,.. theres one problem though... im not good on talking to girls on the phone, let alone just pushing the call button,...

Love and peace

Cloud
You've gotten this far I say darn it and just call her. If you're nervous to do it on private no. so you're then able to hang up as she says hello without revealing your identity lol sly but hey!
Get to know her better , her interests etc etc. then you'll know if she really is the one for you.

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Post by freshsay » Oct 17th, '05, 16:08

and if you nervous about calling her you could always begin a conversation with :

Hey its Oliver (thats your name right I know its not really cloud lol) are you busy at the moment ? I'm just bored and thought I'd give you a ring, what are you up 2? bla bla ;] Take it from there. and from there you might be able to find out if she minds a romance with a person 4 years younger than her.

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Post by dspR » Oct 17th, '05, 16:19

I know Cloud can definitely do it.
Just keep up the good work.
Things will progress as long as you try.
So gambatte. I'll post here when I have time.

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Post by bugsie » Oct 17th, '05, 16:45

you can try jacking off before talking to her. so you'll feel a little numb. :lol

seriously, it's really hard to talk to a girl you like in person but i think if you really like her, you can overcome that. goodluck dude :-)

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Post by Orrieboi » Oct 17th, '05, 17:10

Hi everyone,

I also advise Cloud to call the girl, but before you call her, drink 2 or 3 beers. With just that little alcohol you'll be able to talk more spontaneous and you won't be so afraid to say dumb things. I'm not saying you gotta be drunk to talk to a girl but when you had a drink everthing just goes a little easier. Think of some things you are going to say in advance, but after a while just chat about anything that comes to your mind or what she starts to talk about.

Good Luck!

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 17th, '05, 17:16

dspR wrote:Cloud, trust me. Talking on the phone is much easier than talking to the person face to face.
Besides, you can just read a list of things to talk about and go on from there.

Jeremiah, which girl are you more attracted to?
Whoever it is, just be friends with both of them. Who knows, you might get dumped and have to resort to the other one. :/
I feel more attracted to my training partner but I'm begin to like the trainer's daughter too!

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Post by ladym » Oct 17th, '05, 17:31

Jeremiah wrote:
dspR wrote:Cloud, trust me. Talking on the phone is much easier than talking to the person face to face.
Besides, you can just read a list of things to talk about and go on from there.

Jeremiah, which girl are you more attracted to?
Whoever it is, just be friends with both of them. Who knows, you might get dumped and have to resort to the other one. :/
I feel more attracted to my training partner but I'm begin to like the trainer's daughter too!
sorry to say that ..but u guys are so intricate.. :P

i realy dont undestand ...why u allways have to play with girls...u want someone ..but after a whileu see someone alse and u like that one too.. :crazy:

but have u ever ask your salf what is in the heart of the first one? :-(

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Post by Akiramenai » Oct 17th, '05, 17:34

Orrieboi wrote:Hi everyone,

I also advise Cloud to call the girl, but before you call her, drink 2 or 3 beers. With just that little alcohol you'll be able to talk more spontaneous and you won't be so afraid to say dumb things. I'm not saying you gotta be drunk to talk to a girl but when you had a drink everthing just goes a little easier. Think of some things you are going to say in advance, but after a while just chat about anything that comes to your mind or what she starts to talk about.

Good Luck!
Yeah, works for me. Actually I have some guys in my class who drink dropshot and wodka from a bottle all the day. Just little nips, but it helps. They talk to lot of girls and make them laugh. Before calling her just drink three beers and you'll be fine!

Akiramenai! (Never give up!)

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Post by hksaznlibra » Oct 17th, '05, 17:38

Orrieboi wrote:Hi everyone,

I also advise Cloud to call the girl, but before you call her, drink 2 or 3 beers. With just that little alcohol you'll be able to talk more spontaneous and you won't be so afraid to say dumb things. I'm not saying you gotta be drunk to talk to a girl but when you had a drink everthing just goes a little easier. Think of some things you are going to say in advance, but after a while just chat about anything that comes to your mind or what she starts to talk about.

Good Luck!

THATS WHAT I BEEN SAYING THIS WHOLE DAMN TIME!!! DRINK UP.

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Post by ladym » Oct 17th, '05, 17:41

Akiramenai wrote:
Orrieboi wrote:Hi everyone,

I also advise Cloud to call the girl, but before you call her, drink 2 or 3 beers. With just that little alcohol you'll be able to talk more spontaneous and you won't be so afraid to say dumb things. I'm not saying you gotta be drunk to talk to a girl but when you had a drink everthing just goes a little easier. Think of some things you are going to say in advance, but after a while just chat about anything that comes to your mind or what she starts to talk about.

Good Luck!
Yeah, works for me. Actually I have some guys in my class who drink dropshot and wodka from a bottle all the day. Just little nips, but it helps. They talk to lot of girls and make them laugh. Before calling her just drink three beers and you'll be fine!

Akiramenai! (Never give up!)


MY GOD what kind of advice is this?

do u realise that those guys are probably alcohol addicts?


my advice do not drink at all ....alcohol is like every drog..u try once ..and then u cant stop .. :x

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Post by Akiramenai » Oct 17th, '05, 17:53

ladym wrote:
Akiramenai wrote:
Orrieboi wrote:Hi everyone,

I also advise Cloud to call the girl, but before you call her, drink 2 or 3 beers. With just that little alcohol you'll be able to talk more spontaneous and you won't be so afraid to say dumb things. I'm not saying you gotta be drunk to talk to a girl but when you had a drink everthing just goes a little easier. Think of some things you are going to say in advance, but after a while just chat about anything that comes to your mind or what she starts to talk about.

Good Luck!
Yeah, works for me. Actually I have some guys in my class who drink dropshot and wodka from a bottle all the day. Just little nips, but it helps. They talk to lot of girls and make them laugh. Before calling her just drink three beers and you'll be fine!

Akiramenai! (Never give up!)


MY GOD what kind of advice is this?

do u realise that those guys are probably alcohol addicts?


my advice do not drink at all ....alcohol is like every drog..u try once ..and then u cant stop .. :x
Well just wanted to mention it because I thought it was funny. Alcohol really isn't like every drug, when you go out and wanna be some looser you drink something, right? So why don't if you wanna talk to a girl you like. It is just to get in contact with her and start something up. Anyway, I don't advise Cloud to drink all the time. Just wanted to say it can help a lot if you're too stressed to call. Just drink something to help you relax a bit. She doesn't see you, she can't hit you, she probably like it that you called her up. :-)

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Post by ladym » Oct 17th, '05, 18:01

Well just wanted to mention it because I thought it was funny. Alcohol really isn't like every drug, when you go out and wanna be some looser you drink something, right? So why don't if you wanna talk to a girl you like. It is just to get in contact with her and start something up. Anyway, I don't advise Cloud to drink all the time. Just wanted to say it can help a lot if you're too stressed to call. Just drink something to help you relax a bit. She doesn't see you, she can't hit you, she probably like it that you called her up. :-)[/quote]

well ya i understand but to someone his age is difficult to know what alcohol means and when to use it ..any way i'm not aginst alcohol but i sow to many lifes distroit

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 17th, '05, 18:09

Agree with ladym here. Sorry guys, alcohol isn't the right solution here! Cloud just gather your courage like you always do but please do not prone to alcohol.

@ladym, I'm not just playing with girls. It's only the fact that I'm attracted to my training partner (you could take it as a love at first sight) but I don't know anything about her yet, whereas the trainer's daughter we've been talking and texting lately and we are sharing some interests (it's more about personality here), and she's rather my age bracket...

So I don't know yet. I'm going to be friends with them first of all and then let time decide for me to whom my heart will lean toward. But I just hope that it won't turn into a commotion later on!!

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Post by ladym » Oct 17th, '05, 18:18

@ladym I'm not just playing with girls. It's only the fact that I'm attracted to my training partner (you could take it as a love at first sight) but I don't know anything about her yet, whereas the trainer's daughter we've been talking and texting lately and we are sharing some interests (it's more about personality here), and she's rather my age bracket...

So I don't know yet. I'm going to be friends with them first of all and then let time decide for me to whom my heart will lean toward. But I just hope that it won't turn into a commotion later on!![/quote]

@jeremiah ..than i apolagise ..i miss understand ..is very good to try to know them first..
but be careful not to think that is live and then to realise is just passion..or huge chemistry... :P

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 17th, '05, 18:34

ladym, it's okay, we all sometimes misunderstand things! :-) Yup agree with you, but who knows what may lie ahead of us

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Post by ladym » Oct 17th, '05, 18:41

Jeremiah wrote:ladym, it's okay, we all sometimes misunderstand things! :-) Yup agree with you, but who knows what may lie ahead of us
yap u are right :P

good luck :wub:

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Oct 17th, '05, 18:57

hey everyone, ahh i was staring at my phone, just looking at her number... it took me 20 minutes just to hit that green call button... i was really shaky, and my hand was also shaking, when suddenly, my phone said " sorry you have inssuficient funds" :sweat: hehe im really baka neh? i was going to run to the shop to uy credit, when i found out i had no money =[ none at all, my pay day was on friday, and i had just payed a bill recently, leaving me enough money just to live on .... [ sad voilin music in the background ] but i will be sure to borrow 10 pounds off my mother tomorrow :D hehe... i dont have college tomo, because our teacher got bit by a cat and is now in hospital for a rabies test :blink :unsure: my life sounds like one of those animes =P hehe..
but i want to thank everyone again for all there support and encouragement!
hontoni arigatou mina!
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Post by Xi@h » Oct 17th, '05, 19:12

Cloud James Lionheart wrote:hey everyone, ahh i was staring at my phone, just looking at her number... it took me 20 minutes just to hit that green call button... i was really shaky, and my hand was also shaking, when suddenly, my phone said " sorry you have inssuficient funds" :sweat: hehe im really baka neh? i was going to run to the shop to uy credit, when i found out i had no money =[ none at all, my pay day was on friday, and i had just payed a bill recently, leaving me enough money just to live on .... [ sad voilin music in the background ] but i will be sure to borrow 10 pounds off my mother tomorrow :D hehe... i dont have college tomo, because our teacher got bit by a cat and is now in hospital for a rabies test :blink :unsure: my life sounds like one of those animes =P hehe..
but i want to thank everyone again for all there support and encouragement!
hontoni arigatou mina!
cloud
You see what happen being a bad guy?? :P Joking mate!! Well, tomorrow just go ahead and call her and make her laugh!!

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Post by ~Adam~ » Oct 17th, '05, 19:28

So the chick from work Katie is having a birthday soon, its on halloween and no-one is gettting her anything like usual so I wanted to make her feel special so I said I would get her something. Now I need to get her a gift certificate to like borders or pier one imports or something to the likeness of that, cause she just moved into a apartment and doesn't have much so I though that would be nice. Or maybe some music or something like that.

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Post by ladym » Oct 17th, '05, 19:42

~Adam~ wrote:So the chick from work Katie is having a birthday soon, its on halloween and no-one is gettting her anything like usual so I wanted to make her feel special so I said I would get her something. Now I need to get her a gift certificate to like borders or pier one imports or something to the likeness of that, cause she just moved into a apartment and doesn't have much so I though that would be nice. Or maybe some music or something like that.
try to find out from her friends what she want ...try to do somethink very special ..even maked by u is realy good.. :D

try to do a cd with some songs that she loves...or if u know her favorite song at her party put that song and then do a dedication and ask her to dance :P

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Post by dspR » Oct 17th, '05, 20:01

Hey guys, if you want to know the situation over my side is doing OK.

Today, I was going to talk to her, but out of nowhere she calls my name.
She was interested about me calling her friend, the one I talk to the most, on Friday.. because she was at her house that day!
I didn't know why we talked about me calling for a minute, but I guess that means she's interested in getting to know me. Man, I didn't know friends could be so helpful. I felt even more confident after that. It was like a surge of energy that instantaneously changed me. I wasn't the person that I was before. It may sound corny, but I felt it.

I know definitely this week I WILL be her friend. I know I can do it.
Even if it doesn't happen, I have back-up.
I have an old friend that I used to talk to in freshmen year, that is currently in my Japanese class and she knows her.
She even talks to her after class. So of course I have a chance at this.
After this, I don't know what will happen from our starting friendship.

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Post by bugsie » Oct 17th, '05, 20:03

i guess any gift will do. but make sure you the first one to greet her happy birthday. at exactly 12:01am of that day, you should greet her. it will show your sincerity and the time you are willing to give up for her. :P

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Post by ladym » Oct 17th, '05, 20:29

dspR wrote:Hey guys, if you want to know the situation over my side is doing OK.

Today, I was going to talk to her, but out of nowhere she calls my name.
She was interested about me calling her friend, the one I talk to the most, on Friday.. because she was at her house that day!
I didn't know why we talked about me calling for a minute, but I guess that means she's interested in getting to know me. Man, I didn't know friends could be so helpful. I felt even more confident after that. It was like a surge of energy that instantaneously changed me. I wasn't the person that I was before. It may sound corny, but I felt it.

I know definitely this week I WILL be her friend. I know I can do it.
Even if it doesn't happen, I have back-up.
I have an old friend that I used to talk to in freshmen year, that is currently in my Japanese class and she knows her.
She even talks to her after class. So of course I have a chance at this.
After this, I don't know what will happen from our starting friendship.
good luck...i'm sore that u'll maked happen ..u just have to belive in u and your dreams ..

:mrgreen: :lol :D

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Oct 17th, '05, 21:26

KITAAA!! looks like everyone is doing well =] hehe Good werk ^_^
congrats dspr, we'll be with you all the way! ^_^

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Post by kendrew » Oct 17th, '05, 22:43

hmmm i have a question for girls, if you get rejected do u immediatly go after another guy? or is it just that my friend is crazy... you see about a week ago, she kept asking me if i liked her and well i didnt answer her (this was all happened in like a span of like 30 minutes... pretty weird moment all on msn, man why does everything go impersonal now). and she told me she liked me (very few girls do that... sucks..) and then i missed 3 days of school for cross country and then weekend, (i had like a 2 day week).

I come back and find out she has a bf... sooo i'll just assume shes a player or something and my whole like image of her is like crap now, like everytime she tries to talk to me, its like o man. and yes i did like her, but i didnt want to tell her over msn.

yes... thats basically whats going on in my life, and now im so like wtf to everything...

edit: wow in 3 weeks 1090 posts... crazyy

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Post by pwner4once » Oct 18th, '05, 00:56

Cloud James Lionheart wrote:hey everyone, ahh i was staring at my phone, just looking at her number... it took me 20 minutes just to hit that green call button... i was really shaky, and my hand was also shaking, when suddenly, my phone said " sorry you have inssuficient funds" :sweat: hehe im really baka neh? i was going to run to the shop to uy credit, when i found out i had no money =[ none at all, my pay day was on friday, and i had just payed a bill recently, leaving me enough money just to live on .... [ sad voilin music in the background ] but i will be sure to borrow 10 pounds off my mother tomorrow :D hehe... i dont have college tomo, because our teacher got bit by a cat and is now in hospital for a rabies test :blink :unsure: my life sounds like one of those animes =P hehe..
but i want to thank everyone again for all there support and encouragement!
hontoni arigatou mina!
cloud
LOL!!! that somehow reminded me of Densha Otoko on top of the roof trying to make the phone call; when he finally gathered up the courage to do so. Battery goes dead ! :lol :lol :P

btw i haven't left his forum yet. it's just it's really time consuming to spend 20min of my time each day to catch up with u guys. sry

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 18th, '05, 05:19

dspR Keep it going mate!

Seems that everyone is doing fine now and will soon graduate from this thread.

Adam, you're right about making her feel special.. Just do something really really special to her, why don't you do something handmade by yourself, she'll surely like it.

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Post by Valcun » Oct 18th, '05, 09:22

Well guys, I'm glad to be back. I only spent 20 mins a day like dspr checking up on things to keep up to date, hehe :). I know I don't post a lot in this forum, but this is the situation I am in.

Here is a little flash back of what happen.

The First Sight:
http://www.d-addicts.com/forum/viewtopi ... &start=600

Day one, The Search:
http://www.d-addicts.com/forum/viewtopi ... &start=630

Day Two, Withdrawal:
http://www.d-addicts.com/forum/viewtopi ... &start=690

Day Three, Abandonment:
http://www.d-addicts.com/forums/viewtop ... start=720]

But now I am back. When I saw Bus Hermes, It was October 5th on a Wednesday. Ironically my birthday is tommorrow on the 19th on a Wednesday. I'll be turning 18!!!! What should I wish for? and please be reasonable on your comments :-P

PS: you did good kid (( Cloud )), Jeremiah thank you for your support (( I'd take both of trainer and daughter!!! haha, just joking :P ))

-Valcun

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Post by ladym » Oct 18th, '05, 13:35

kendrew wrote:hmmm i have a question for girls, if you get rejected do u immediatly go after another guy? or is it just that my friend is crazy... you see about a week ago, she kept asking me if i liked her and well i didnt answer her (this was all happened in like a span of like 30 minutes... pretty weird moment all on msn, man why does everything go impersonal now). and she told me she liked me (very few girls do that... sucks..) and then i missed 3 days of school for cross country and then weekend, (i had like a 2 day week).

I come back and find out she has a bf... sooo i'll just assume shes a player or something and my whole like image of her is like crap now, like everytime she tries to talk to me, its like o man. and yes i did like her, but i didnt want to tell her over msn.

yes... thats basically whats going on in my life, and now im so like wtf to everything...

edit: wow in 3 weeks 1090 posts... crazyy

no she is not a player she was heart ...probably she went home and she cryed a lot

so i ..like if i was in the same situation...i will need someone to caress me and hold me

so probably u weren't the only one who liked her ...

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 18th, '05, 15:01

Hello everyone, just get back from training and I'm so disappointed. She didn't come today either, I guess because she has exams!! But.. the trainer's daughter texted me for some help, so I've given some examples of my old projects to his dad. I hope that she'll be happy about that.

Valcun, I'm glad you're back!!

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Post by athrunjustice » Oct 18th, '05, 15:23

oi what does jian ren means in english??

okay so i had the chance to ask this gurl out for the nite just to show her around the city b4 she heads home, to my suprise she kept on ignoring me lookin the other way when i was talkin toher or she was talkin in chinese to the other person ignoring me, or not takin me seriously, she must have felt insecure when shes around me, i didnt know what todo so i went straight home to study for the next exams the next day.

So the next day i went to the exams, at the end didnt bother to stay back to ask hows she doin with her exams and marks for assignments, i just cbf with it, if im goin to get no response, so i went straight home again and watch kdorama :D:D:D feels good after i had my fix :D haha

Well today is the 2nd last day....keep u guys updated see if i pull this off.

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Post by pwner4once » Oct 18th, '05, 21:44

jian ren means meet people or **** in chinese, but if u put it in phrase it can mean either bad or good things.
the meaning can be differentiated by tone. if the jian or a goes down and ren's tone kind goes up, then it means ****. other wise, means meet people
You better watch out when people calls u that. it can be very insulting

sometime chinese girl tends to be arrogant, i met this girl at a research group. she's not pretty at all, but she acts like she is totally hot. so there goes a comparison, if u like her. well get use to it or ask her about it. don't just rest it. if you do, things will be kind blurry and that's not good for a relationship. :-) :blink

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Post by akagi » Oct 18th, '05, 22:25

yes, that happened to me as well...i met this chinese girl in my class and i really like her, i wanted to ask her out after a week or so (9 days to be exact) and she agreed to it. Then on that day, she told me she was tired and wished to go home after. After the weekend, she saw me in class and didn't even say "hi", and by the time class ended, she just left...so cold... what the hell is going on>??

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Post by furious » Oct 19th, '05, 00:02

maybe she don't like you ?

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Oct 19th, '05, 00:31

hey how is everyone? i wasnt able to credit today, but i have news, one of her senpais, ( a guy a year above her) called me today, hes an alright freind, he looks kool on the outside but hes a real otaku. he told me about a anime convention in london that i never knew about :crazy: but yea he called me today and said that he talked to my "ms dreamgirl" when we were at college he said that he didnt like her in that way.. but when he was talking to me today... it was like he had an interest.. i remember before we were joking around and he asked me, so whos your rival going to be..? and now i think i know who my rival is =[ ahhh... what do you lot think?

cloud

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Post by kendrew » Oct 19th, '05, 02:44

ahhh this is sounding more and more like densha otoko... watch her want to find you and ur at the convention all dressed up otaku style.

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Post by akagi » Oct 19th, '05, 03:03

furious wrote:maybe she don't like you ?
i'm confused.... :crazy: i mean, i spent good times with her,...we talked a lot too...all of sudden, BANG....
well, i guess i could wait couple of days to observe....lol
to cloud:
well, i guess you DO have a rival...but no fear, just go with your true self.

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Post by pwner4once » Oct 19th, '05, 03:20

kendrew wrote:ahhh this is sounding more and more like densha otoko... watch her want to find you and ur at the convention all dressed up otaku style.
maybe reality tend to repeat itself :lol :lol

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Post by draco » Oct 19th, '05, 10:05

hey Cloud your story and your style is like Densha Otoko... or is it just me :P :glare:

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 19th, '05, 11:37

Cloud, seems that you have a serious rival (Sakurai-san) here!!

As for me, after some reflection, guess that I'll stick to my day to day otaku life until I really find that special someone that'll make me happy and that will grow old with me.

If I'm lucky or unlucky, it's okay to me!!

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Post by athrunjustice » Oct 19th, '05, 11:42

OKay so i had my last exam today, she was very well dress too since she be out all nite etc. Damn i felt like a retard not talkin to her since there are girls around her who always stare at me in class dont know why, but maybe they have a crush on me, sometimes i take notice and give them a smile :D, i really like the attention i get but im not interested in them.

So i finish the last exam, and just went straight home :(:( didnt bother with the opportunity to say goodbye to her or anything.....then i had the gutz to call her when i was at home, asking how it was and enjoy her trip home etc...even though i didnt get any love back, i was happy that i knew a girl like her, as long shes happy im happy, i didnt wanna force the subject any further...

Okay back to the girls that i think have an interest in me, well they look like high maitenence girls with there designer clothes and i cant afford that, hell i only spend like 10 bucks for 2 days at uni, buy lunch eat and walk home. I dont even spend that much on meself, and i dont see myself spending that much on a girl. Anyway i mite tease those girls next semester :D:D

f*** JIAN REN, i though ren means person or ppl cose i did a google on it, now i know what jian rens....so they been teasing me in chinese while i talk in english to them, just fuckn great!!!

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Post by dspR » Oct 19th, '05, 15:52

Cloud, it's sorta like Densha, but this time..
It's otaku v. otaku.
Win her heart over by talking to her every chance you get.
So be a step over another otaku trying to take her spot reserved for the lucky person, and that's you.

And I'm annoyed at the fact that some guy who thinks he knows a lot about computers, took the seat of the computer that I put Firefox and all my applications that I need to work on for next week.
When he doesn't know how to install FF or get past the school's restrictions.
Total nubface, imo. But that's all.

And I can't wait to talk to her in Japanese class next period.

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Post by pwner4once » Oct 19th, '05, 23:08

lmao
it seems like everybody is finally getting back to their life. it's probably a good thing since i can actually catch up with u guys.

for the one who asked about jian ren, i think they are just teasing u. i think ushould embarasse them sometimes. just so to warn them you are not the one to mess with, but to love with. it can be prett hard though since mself don't see a way of going about it. but u might have varies ways.

i thinkthis is it for today. later guys

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Post by kendrew » Oct 19th, '05, 23:15

yeah the threads starting to die down... not as much "zing" as when it first started, but nonetheless we still want to know how its going... :D

otaku vs otaku... cloud do your best!

dspr, good luck to you too :D

and to the rest =D to you too

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Post by pwner4once » Oct 20th, '05, 00:04

kendrew wrote:yeah the threads starting to die down... not as much "zing" as when it first started, but nonetheless we still want to know how its going... :D

otaku vs otaku... cloud do your best!

dspr, good luck to you too :D

and to the rest =D to you too
i really agree with that. first it seem to me that everybody was just spending too much on this thread. i mean jesus... when i was online, the repsonse time is so freaking short. at first, i thought it's just some bots. but it's actually true. Actually it's just as true as how everything is in Densha Otoko. well since things had died down abit, i hope everybody is doing fine and finding their own gold and pursuing for their own future.

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Post by fartyman » Oct 20th, '05, 01:25

what are you guys aiming for?
Are you a white guy looking for an Asian girlfriend? (Chinese/Japanese/Korean)
Or maybe you're an Asian guy looking for a white girlfriend?
I missed the major part of the thread, and, 70+ pages, that's a lot to go through.

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 20th, '05, 05:42

We are all pursuing our future but we take some times to report back. As for me, I'm trying hard to change things but when you've lived your life like this for years, it won't change day at the following day.

Talking about Densha Otoko, I think we're all of some sort of otakus and we need to share our experiences to live up to the expectancy of life. Though this thread is gradually going down, it'll be still around as some will always be looking for advices. Don't forget that this is a single ranting thread :P

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Post by teknikalshiznitz » Oct 20th, '05, 08:28

oh man...its been hella long since i checked out this thread but dang....looks like everyone is actually alot more closer to their goal which is really cool

so congrats and good luck to all that are close to finding someone!!!

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Post by athrunjustice » Oct 20th, '05, 08:41

time for me to take the booze out :):)

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Post by dspR » Oct 20th, '05, 16:12

Everything is going fine.. so far.
I'm not an official friend yet, but I know she's interested because we had a little side conversations here and there.
Her friend that I talk to in the morning and after school really wants me to talk to her, even though the previous day she said that we're total opposites.
I dunno if opposites attract or it's just me who's hiding who I really am, even though I think I'm this or that person confidently.. I'm still not sure.

Her friend saying that she's the opposite of me made me think, is it really possible?
Even though I have a one-half belief of true love, it's all up to me.
She might be a totally different person when I actually get to know her.
And I noticed my chances are equal in both classes.
I just have to remain calm and composed. Then I can really do it.

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Post by Mythrel » Oct 20th, '05, 16:30

hey dspR i've read your inputs every now and than and I gotta say you are going about this wrong. I mean like your intentions are best but women won't stay avalible forever. You are gonna have to go for the kill :D If you think he has an intrest in her in the way than what are you waiting for? Are you giving up before the battle even started? I know it can change things like maybe you won't be able to be friends with her if she rejects you, but that is one possiblity. What if she says yes? Don't let opportunity slip by. You are just going to torture yourself by staying back trying to be the friend, holding back all your true emotions. While they grow on each other and fall more in love. I don't like that future and im sure you don't. Fight it! AJA AJA FIGHTING!

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 20th, '05, 17:31

dspR.. yeah don't forget what Yukie Nakama always say, FIGHT-OH!! :lol

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Oct 20th, '05, 19:47

hey everyone, doors are mysterious things arnt they, well of course they open and closed but, what ive realised is that, people are sometimes afraid on opening the door because they are scared on what is on the other side, i thought about it in my case... i think i was afraid to open the door ( take a next step ) towards ms dreeamgirl..because i didnt know what would happen if i did, but now i think ive come over that fear... and i will not hesistate to take the next steps =]

well me and my frend were outside college when,i then heard news that i wasnt ms dreamgirls type, and that she was worried about the age gap... but thats when one of my older frends said to me.. well maybe you can change that.. she then smiled and told me to try my best...surprisngly after she said that, ms dream girl walked out of college, my freind said go on then.. and smiled again...but mina san... umm i really need your help, well basically i was able to talk to ms dream girl properly today, at the start of the convo i was shaking but as its went on, we herd eachothers interest and things.. and well... thats when i asked her if she would like to go out sometime? and she said she would love to and that she would be waiting for my call... i have now just bought credit and her number is on my phone screen, umm if i call her, how should i ask her out..? because i dont want it to seem rude, or anything... and where should i go? i was thinking about treating her to a restaurant in china town, but i dunno...? ah my goodness ive gone to my nervous wreck again... :(

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Post by Mythrel » Oct 20th, '05, 20:07

looks like someone went for the kill :P good job cloud. Maybe she doesn't want to let on to her friends she likes you so by saying that kinda avoids the subject maybe? She was waiting for your call so that kinda says something I think. The age thing is only a minor thing. Its just stats really lol, you have to get to know the person to make a final judgement.

Just be yourself.... You could always even ask her if there is anywhere she would like to go? lol. Who knows instead of a nice dinner and movie she want's to go race your butt around the gokart track. I'd suggest finding something you both could enjoy. Hey its around halloween and im sure they are starting to play some scary movies. Could always take her to one of those :P

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Post by dspR » Oct 20th, '05, 20:15

Congrats, Cloud.
If you two are friends, she wouldn't mind hanging out with you.

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Post by Xi@h » Oct 20th, '05, 23:43

Cloud, don't forget Densha!! Why don't you use the same tactics to ask her out hehe? But be a good tactician and sail her to the moon! :D

"Is there anywhere you want to go? How about we meet somewhere and then we decide where we'll go?"

You meet her somewhere and you go on your date deciding where you'll go :thumright:

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Post by pwner4once » Oct 21st, '05, 01:18

haha it seems you guys' life is just getting better day by day. well i am happy for you guys. I am sorry to hear everything got quited down about Jeremiah. but im looking forward to hear things from you.
for me, my life is gettting worse day by day. being in spanish is almost like having somebody lecturing about your bad habit and etc which makes me perplexed and stressed out every day. well i guess u guys keep it out and FIGHT ON!!

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Post by kendrew » Oct 21st, '05, 01:26

Mythrel wrote:hey dspR i've read your inputs every now and than and I gotta say you are going about this wrong. I mean like your intentions are best but women won't stay avalible forever. You are gonna have to go for the kill :D If you think he has an intrest in her in the way than what are you waiting for? Are you giving up before the battle even started? I know it can change things like maybe you won't be able to be friends with her if she rejects you, but that is one possiblity. What if she says yes? Don't let opportunity slip by. You are just going to torture yourself by staying back trying to be the friend, holding back all your true emotions. While they grow on each other and fall more in love. I don't like that future and im sure you don't. Fight it! AJA AJA FIGHTING!
Mythrel is totally right, you must go for the kill.... I always go a little too late, when i finally decide on it, they're taken. Everytime it happens....

Good job cloud! Just go from there, and let things happen on its own. :D

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Post by ~Adam~ » Oct 21st, '05, 02:15

Okay so here is a update on my current situtation...

I am putting together a cd of stuff that katie the chick from work likes for her birthday, I am also gonna ask her out on a date for her birthday if I can get up enough courage.

Today I went down to check my hours for saterday, and katie was working she was going to go home so, I asked " what are you doing after work"? She said nothing, so I said " do u want to go to Borders book store with me"? She said "sure". So we walked around looking at books for a little while, and then we went to the cafe, and I offered to buy her something, so I bought her a iced coffee, and we went to sit down and talk, we talked and had a great convo for 2 hours or so during in which, she was playing with her hair I think that is body language meaning she likes me but I could be wrong,, and then she pulled over to my car and we talked some more in the parking lot before leaving while are cars heated up, I said I had a great time and enjoyed her company, she said she enjoyed my company also. So that is it.

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