heheh thats okay... but you haven't answered me yet -Cloud James Lionheart wrote:i still think contacts, well it depends what you look like with out them, sometimes its good and sometimes its bad, but it would be a big change and she might notice you and compliment you,and thanks for the advice freshsay, sorry it took me so long to reply.
Hi Oni, thanks for your comments.(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:Wonny wrote:Hey everyone,
I just registered specifically for this thread (although I have been with D-Addicts for quite some time). I want to let you know I have been following along all this time and finally decided to "ENTER" this thread...
Cloud, you are doing well. Good luck to you. I really think you have matured a lot in a short amount of time and I believe your positive attitude had a lot to do with it.
As for me, I just don't understand girls. For example, if anyone can explain to me why they seem to run away from me after I first meet them, I would be very grateful. [By run away I mean the following: I try to get to know a girl in my class, and then she stops coming to class. Or a girl I meet in a usual spot, stops going to that spot...etc] It's been happening to me all the time. I never knew what it meant and have since, never took any actions around girls because I was afraid it made me look stalkerish etc. Whether I am overthinking it, I do not know.But if you feel my experiences, please fill me in.
It is great to see this Densha Otoko-inspired thread thrive. I really enjoyed watching it since I was able to relate to it somewhat, but in the end I have been left with an eerie feeling about my personality (Otaku out of the closet) and actually lost a bit of my own confidence from the manifestation of my sad reality.
There is much more to my story, but I will leave it at that for now...
just saying grats on Reg-on-Addicts... and welcome to the Singles Thread...
hrmmm i think i might be able to help u out a lilbit.. 1 of the many reasons why that might be happening.. is either ur giving them an uncomfortable feeling around u... as in may-b u might be pressuring them or... unknowingly forcing them into sumtin.. and or ur comming on too strongly girls are very sensative and usually the slightest mistake can mean sumthing big to a girl... hence why arguments happen in most relationships.. but anyways.....
one thing is.. its prob that u come on strongly like if at first they are talkin to u and their actually meeting with u.. than ur starting personality is gud.. just the part when they get to u... u might just be commin on to strong thats bout it :S
.. wat do u guys think?...cmge wrote:wow 31 pages... last time i checked there was only 10... o_O
n e whoo... hiya fellow single pplz...
the most serious relationship i had ended last year... a long distance relationship for 3 yrs... o_O .. pretty crazy so my friends say... been out of the game for too long and now something has caught my eye... story time...
few months ago i went to a friends party... hanging out and chatting... the usual... soon after one fo the girls i was chatting with started msging me via MSN... she use to be good friends with my ex (the one mentioned above)... so yeah we started talking and talking more and more for the next few days... then started to c movies and hanging out more... its odd coz shes been on my MSN for years now and we never really did chat..
fast forward to last month.. i was talking to her about a yearly family gathering and she wanted to go... so she went and had lots of fun... then i mentioned her about an anime con i was goin to and she wanted and she decided to tag along.. mind you not for the con but for shopping while i was at the con.. stayed at cousins place and my cousin had a vibe that she realy liked me...
more fast forwarding... just recently she threw me a surpise bday party out of no where... heart shaped cake and even invited my a good friend of mine (he has a diff crowd)... good times... so i asked y she threw me a party... she said i totally deserved it and that it was the least she can do for me?... then she says "see... nice guys dont always finish last"... and then thanked me for hooking her up with Densha Otoko since i was telling her about it (note: shes not the type to read subtitles nor watch asian shows/movies)...
errr im really not good at reading signs from the opposite sex and everyone that i know seems to think that she likes me...
wat should i do??.. im soo clueless about this these days...
inishi wrote:and girls!!
.. my mistake... gomenesai the thing thats kinda keeping me away from doing anything is that every now and again she will mention about her ex (currently living in japan)... and it kinda make me wonder... does she still have feelings for her ex... 
I think you shouldn't ask her why, but you should just smile at her...Cloud James Lionheart wrote:owh yea i forgot to mention this about today at college coz i was upset that i didnt see that girl, well theres another asian girl in my class, and well she started taking pictures of me in lesson and then i noticed, i then asked her why she was taking photos and she stay quiet and then said "souvanir" ..? then during the day she started to be mean to me, like when i said something she would say something bad about it and when we were walking home to the train station, they had to take the bus and when we were parting i said goodbye, and well she didnt reply and turned the other way... =s do you think that means anything, than her just disliking me...?
cloud-kun
THIS IS A KEY IDEA. It has my votesteven1973sg wrote:I think you shouldn't ask her why, but you should just smile at her...Cloud James Lionheart wrote:owh yea i forgot to mention this about today at college coz i was upset that i didnt see that girl, well theres another asian girl in my class, and well she started taking pictures of me in lesson and then i noticed, i then asked her why she was taking photos and she stay quiet and then said "souvanir" ..? then during the day she started to be mean to me, like when i said something she would say something bad about it and when we were walking home to the train station, they had to take the bus and when we were parting i said goodbye, and well she didnt reply and turned the other way... =s do you think that means anything, than her just disliking me...?
cloud-kun
Just be careful not to seduce all the ladies~
just started watching densha otoko last nite Well funny I never thought I might come across a real life densha otoko style hehe well any way interesting stuff going arnd in this thread got me addicted. n it sux at uni grrr...yea its pretty good wat we have at the moment... so thats y im kinda iffy about making the move and graduate...KupidKilla wrote:Not to sound like I'm pigeon holding women but they do tend to do that... mention things about their ex boyfriend... kinda like a test. She might want to see your reaction to her saying things like that. But then again... she may just find you as someone she can open up to.
Its not " gay" to want to keep a friendship... it seems you guys have a pretty good thing going right now. Sometimes its best just to keep things going as they are. Its best not to jump the gun and ask questions that migh frighten her off.
Maybe she was just teasing you . What do you think of her thoughCloud James Lionheart wrote:hey sorry fresh say, umm lemme think back...after she said that.... she turned around... and i said "huh" and walked back to my seat, thats it really... the weird thing is, that shes added me on msn latly and well... we were talking the other night, and when she was going to go sleep i said sweet dreams and then she said, "ill try not to dream about you" =S then logged off, im really worryed now though , because if she does like me, but then i get a chance to talk to the japanese girl i really like i wont know what to do.... =[ ah man.. owh yea ive nearly finished the website.. ill try launch it soon..
cloud
Even if you asked her if she liked you, she might just come out with no lol just as a friend... but just keep the truth of her REALLY liking you inside. Girls are like that.cmge wrote:inishi wrote:and girls!!
but anyways i know this is gonna sound so lame and potentially gay.. but i dont wanna ruin the friendship i have with her now... she never really did say she liked me she kinda plays around the topic...
hmm should i just ask out of the blue... *clears shaky voice* ummm... do u like me?... c the thing is im not even so sure myself if she does like me... maybe its just shes being nice to me???... errr i dunno. i was nver to good with these kind of things..
Well it looks to me that your assuming she likes you... don't be so sure about this she may not like you * like you* but maybe just as a friend. Maybe thats the way she is - maybe its her nature to charm people i.e you lol I don't know where I'm going with this but I hope you understand what I'm talking about.Cloud James Lionheart wrote:well i think of her as a great frends, and im actually able to talk with her...but the other girl gives me that feeling, where you get all nervous a stuff, and when you can just look at her from a distance and smile... ahhh i dunno, but i do get the feeling that my classmate likes me, but what do i do if i talk to the other girl and get to know her better =[ oowh man
woah for me personally its not about some1s ride that will get me noticing himCloud James Lionheart wrote:so does anyone know how to create a forum thing like the densha one, wow, your learning to drive, if you learn how to drive and then get a nice car, she'll notice you for sure.
Hows your love triangle Cloud? What are your feelings now. Its like one long story for me 
I AM TEH MASTER. What do you need? But ack I am too lateCloud James Lionheart wrote:hmm your right, she took it with her comaera phone by the way, yea i have the same problem, i can really eat infront of girls because i think that they might think that im fat and stuff.. owh yea, is anyone good with web design, im trying to make a site like the densha one but it isnt really working =[
I think you're single because you lost your shirt.Cloud James Lionheart wrote:Hi im new to this forum thing, but after watching densha otoko i was really inspired and i really want to meet new people and get to know them, help them out and just generally talk bout life and things ^_^ well i hope i get some posts here, i'd be really greatfull yours trully
Oliver Jianoran
. Like when any girl trys to get my attention to say something I would make eye contact for a split second and listen to what they are saying, it makes me nervous and to think how they feel when i seem to not be listening or paying attention. unpolite,disrespectful,discourti'es(misspelled?) They probably lose interest... I don't think this would work based solely on the principle that the dream girl NEVER SEES him with the girl from his class ever. It seems that he only sees her from afar, but they don't really have any contact. And also it would be cruel to the classmate (unless she was in on it *snerk*).itachi666 wrote:this might sound messed up but I think u should use your classmate to make the japanese girl jealous and if It looks like its not working stick with the classmate
Cloud James Lionheart wrote:hey everyone, just had a big fight with my mum =[ i feel really low right now.... now ive realised, i seriously need a girl, someone to lean on... i know i have you guys, but i think i need something more physical... im going to try my best tomoorow, even if i do make a big fool of myself.. i just want to thank everyone for being my guidance and freinds to talk to... ive realised i dont have alot of true freinds in the world, only my older brother and his girl, but now there moving on and im usually alone now adays... but i know ill always have you guys =] thanks everyone
cloud
I think cloud shouldn't bring the classmate into this. if she doesnt like him then it woudn't matter abt his japanese dream girl.equang wrote:I don't think this would work based solely on the principle that the dream girl NEVER SEES him with the girl from his class ever. It seems that he only sees her from afar, but they don't really have any contact. And also it would be cruel to the classmate (unless she was in on it *snerk*).itachi666 wrote:this might sound messed up but I think u should use your classmate to make the japanese girl jealous and if It looks like its not working stick with the classmate
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