craiglist and erotic service-why do the korean/jon girls do

[joewong]

hey has anyone noticed the craiglist and erotic service section.
are the korean/japanese girls doing those job to pay for their esl school when they come to vancouver-thats what my friend said. or what is the case.
i went their to check it out with a friend today to an apartment sicne hes gone to these places before, i declined, but the 3 girls i saw looked pretty decent and nice looking.

i wonder why they do it. is it for school, or drugs, or they just poor and need money to live and rather do erotic services than work for low wages at starbucks
everytime i walk down robson or dwtn vancouver i alwasy see the overseas students -they seem to dress all very nice. the girls and the guys
so whats the case-why do they do what they do. aren;t the gross out by having sex with a gross guy. i now i wouldnlt be able to do it

[popoycanton]

So you saw the menu, but did go for the cuisine. lol. You chickened out at the last minute and now trying to rationalize things, thats just sad..

[ethidda]

You know, I wasn't really serious when I suggested you use erotic services. That only works if you're going in with the proper mindset, not if you're looking for a girlfriend replacement.

However, I do have two solutions for you:

1. Become a piggy. You chickened out, but are apparently willing to consider the possibility. So, then you can pay for a slightly different kind of service. Of course, this only works if you enjoy that kind of thing, but your posts suggest that you're quite open to all possibilities.

2. Become a male escort. Assuming that you're fit and relatively young, you can learn to turn on the charm and how to make a woman happy. The best part about this is that not only do you not have to pay anything, you will be the one getting paid. Oh, and the women you meet... they will undoubtedly have sex on their minds.

[nankasento]

You should look around more in the world, you'll see all the crazy stuff people will do for money, having sex with an "ugly" person for money is pretty common.

[ethidda]

Well, if you're going to say that, you might as well say that some people just like being objectified and used, though I suppose that's not as common as for monetary reasons.

[aNToK]

I kind of miss getting objectified and used.....

[joewong]

i mean a girl or even anyone would go have sex with someone they don;t now or is totally stranger or not even attracted to them jsut for the sake of 150/hr. thats pretty despereate for money if you ask me

i'm a guy and it be hard for me to do a old old woman or some lady who i wasn;t attracted to at all. you ask me you got be forced or come from a extremmely poor family or poor person to do it.

i now ppl who donl;t have money and they just work at coffee shops, call centre and they budget.


scary thing is you never now if you next gf or the girl you like or picl up at grocery store, library, mall., is doingt these kind of erptic services. i mean if she tells you great and u decide to keep or end it. but what happens if she never told you or just tell you shes working at wal mart or does an office job .but really is doing erotuic services-------scary

my friend go a oral sex from the escort without a condom, i told him he was crazy. he said its fine.

[Puppet Princess]

I don't see why it's hard to understand why people prostitute themselves. That IS the reason they do it. MONEY. Prostitution is like the oldest profession ever. It's an easy way to make a lot of money fast when you have no actual skills. No girl thinks, "you know what, I want to be a hooker." It's a job that they get into because they are desperate or because they are forced and it's hard to get out of that job after that.

[joewong]

I don't see why it's hard to understand why people prostitute themselves. That IS the reason they do it. MONEY. Prostitution is like the oldest profession ever. It's an easy way to make a lot of money fast when you have no actual skills. No girl thinks, "you know what, I want to be a hooker." It's a job that they get into because they are desperate or because they are forced and it's hard to get out of that job after that.

how do they get desperate for it????examples

and how do they get forced into it? who forces them

the ones i seen when i went with my friend to teh apt they all look like normal kroean girls you wouldn;t be able to tell the differ between them and the ones in ur college

[lilswtangel]

^whether a girl prostitutes herself or not doesn't not make her a human. Of course she'll look like everyone else out there.

[ethidda]

Prostitution goes back to Biblical times (and even earlier than that), and in a way, it's no different than offering marriage for money, or going out with someone because they can be your sugar mommy/daddy. Marriage for love and free sex are very recent concepts, which is not to say that I think it's right or wrong. However, the fact is, trading sex for money has been the standard for thousands of years.

Besides, do you expect your girlfriend to have had no experience before you? (I should hope not, or you'd be quite the hypocrite considering how you expect her to have sex with you.) Is it any more okay if that experience is from an ex-boyfriend or a boy-toy or a one-night stand? If you love her, she is who she is and you should love her regardless. If not, than you're just using her too (but too cheap to give her anything back for it at all.) Basically, if somebody is physically healthy and not playing you, then I don't see what the problem is.

Also, physical appearance has only very little to do with if a girl finds a guy attractive. It's more about how you dress and how you carry yourself. Slouching vs. standing up straight makes a HUGE difference. Of course, once you're on more intimate terms... well, as they say, skill is more important than size.

To say that an escort cannot have a satisfactory relationship with her clients would be extremely close-minded. However, it's most certainly not the same as a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. But at the end, it's just a job, like telemarketing or being a car dealer or any other job that some people consider 'dishonest'.

p.s. I'm not for or against legalizing prostitution, but I don't think doing it makes the person a bad person.

[Calevera]

Prostitution goes back to Biblical times (and even earlier than that), and in a way, it's no different than offering marriage for money, or going out with someone because they can be your sugar mommy/daddy. Marriage for love and free sex are very recent concepts, which is not to say that I think it's right or wrong. However, the fact is, trading sex for money has been the standard for thousands of years.

Also, physical appearance has only very little to do with if a girl finds a guy attractive. It's more about how you dress and how you carry yourself. Slouching vs. standing up straight makes a HUGE difference. Of course, once you're on more intimate terms... well, as they say, skill is more important than size.

Wow, I am learning a lot from these forums!