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Post by shoomonkey2 » Nov 24th, '06, 22:12

when i find that the person is a porno freak and had a lot of kissing experience..
like.... i like virgin guys.... lol... so if i find that they're not abstinate.. then i'd really freak.

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Post by Densha Otoko » Jan 16th, '07, 23:21

Girls in general, once I get to know them/they get to know me.

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Post by ruisu » Jan 16th, '07, 23:29

big feet/man-hands

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Post by kobe23 » Jan 17th, '07, 03:00

^agree with that. I like my women feminine, so small feet/hands are a must!

But the biggest turn off has to be girls who dont look after themselves.

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Post by ruisu » Jan 17th, '07, 03:21

don't get me wrong though. i can get over stuff like that...there are very many, much worse, turn-offs that have nothing to do with looks.

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Post by MatsuJunlover » Jan 21st, '07, 05:31

I don't like guys who constantly ask you sexual questions...it's annoying...there are other things to ask a person and talk about.

I also don't like guys who are arrogant or full of themselves, some confidence is great, but when they're more interested in themselves than trying to get to know me...so annoying!

I don't like guys who are gamers...i mean like die hard gamers...like as in spend most of their waking hours in front of the computer...a girl should never have to fight for affection with a computer.

I don't like guys who think of the girl their with/like as perfect...no one is perfect and well there are beauty in flaws.

I also don't like guys who complain about everything...the last guy I dated...he hated any movie that wasn't Jackie Chan, Kung Fu Hustle, or Shaolin Soccer....those are great movies...don't get me wrong, but expand your interests a little...the Jackie Chan film fest had me wanting to claw my eyes out.

Another thing...just because you've gone to school for something specific or you know a lot about a certain thing...that doesn't mean you know EVERY thing about it!

Really when you think about it...there are a lot of things that can put you off of a person. Everyone has different quirks that can annoy the hell out of you, but if you really like the person you can overlook some of them.

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Post by phramc » Jan 22nd, '07, 03:01

^^I agree.

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Post by luvergurl » Jan 22nd, '07, 03:12

sweetsamurai wrote:Arrogance!!!!! :crazy:
Selfishness :crazy:
Men who are sexist towards women :crazy:
Men who fart in front of me!! I don't do it, so please don't o it back. Though - I have been lucky and have never been with a guy who has farted in front of me :D
Hairy chests - sorry - but I must wax you if I am to touch your chest :D I'll make it worth it though :D
I can't think of anything else...yet :scratch:

p.s. I can't cook :-):
i agree with u there

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Post by Pekana » Jan 22nd, '07, 15:46

My biggest turn-off right now would have to be guys that are too introverted and can't hold a normal conversation. I'm pretty shy myself, but if a guy on a date asks me something I try to come up with more than monosyllabic answers. When the responsibility of keeping the conversation going is entirely on your end then it just sucks you dry of any energy.

I also don't like guys who easily badmouth other people, other cultures, lifestyles as well as those who think they have the right to order me around and impose their opinions upon me.

Other than that I guess basic turn-offs like no hygiene and an ego the size of Russia apply as well.

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Post by MatsuJunlover » Jan 23rd, '07, 04:46

Oh I so agree....nothing bothers me more than silence when your out on a date. I understand guys aren't massive talkers for the most part...but well anything is better than silence. It's horrid when you feel you're doing all the talking and then you think you're talking too much...when yeah...you are, but then they're giving you no choice unless you want the massive awkwardness.

I don't like people who are closed minded either. I'm pretty open minded and well there are some things guys have said around me before that just make me cringe...like actually cringe. I once dated a guy who called all things Japanese 'Japcrap' and it drove me nuts....just because they don't share the same cultural interests as you...it doesn't give them the right to slam it.

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Post by xKyandi » Jul 9th, '07, 05:44

when they talk about other guys :/

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hi

Post by TLC5566 » Jul 13th, '07, 01:54

Liar , betrayal ....

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Post by pk_18 » Jul 17th, '07, 01:11

rossier wrote:guys with a really long nostril or hair everywhere... eww eww eww
guys with a really long nostril, that actually made me laugh u joker

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Post by Li-Mei » Jul 17th, '07, 01:35

Things that turn me off include;
- not being open-minded
- being disrespectful
- sex obsessed
- bad personal hygiene
- not taking responsibility or being responsible
- spoiled and arrogant behavior
- looking down on others
- selfishness
- laziness (goes with not being responsible and spoiled)
- drinking alcohol just for the sake of getting drunk
- smoking (it's unhealthy)
- POSERS
- commenting on how I should act
- telling me what I should be
- inappropriate physical contact
- being egotistic
- gets angry or jealous too easily
- has no self-respect or value for oneself

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Post by wai_muna » Jul 17th, '07, 01:52

bad odor and rainy day

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Post by AfricanBean » Jul 17th, '07, 01:52

My top ten massive turnoffs. Sorted in order of severity.

10. People with special dietary needs.
*Yes, I think being a fruitarian/vegetarian/beanarian is really cute. But what? You think you're too good to eat what I eat? :glare:
9. People who breathe through their mouths.:cussing:
*Honestly, if your nose is stopped up, don't breathe at all.

8. People with hair longer than 9.4 inches.
*9.3 is fine, but 9.4 is completely unacceptable. :x

7. People who want to "talk things out".
*Look, if we're mad at each other over something, chances are I'm right anyway. Skip the talking, and start thinking of ways to apologize like you should be doing. :D

6. People who want to change you in a relationship.:scratch:
*You should have never gone out with me to begin with if you didn't like the way I was.

5. People who refuse to change for me in a relationship.
*I'm only asking you not to do this, and this, or be like this. It's not too much to ask for the sake of the relationship that you change several things about yourself for me. :glare:

4. People who don't agree with my musical tastes.
*I fail to see why you can't just like my music, it's so much better than what you like. :crazy:
3. Compromise. :argue:
*Why should I give up something I enjoy, just so that you can be happy?

2. People who have neurotic mental checklists they hold others to.
*Standards are great, but there's a person on the other end too. :roll

1. People who don't inform the other party when they've somehow failed said checklist.
*They won't know it's a turnoff unless you tell them. :whistling:

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Post by rinchan089 » Jul 17th, '07, 03:07

Arrogance is a huge turn off.

Especially when they're wrong.

Also, only talking about the physical attractiveness of women is a big turn off. I want a guy to respect me, not lust after me.

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Post by Gen Noka » Jul 30th, '07, 14:55

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Post by pumahmistress » Jul 30th, '07, 15:36

- When they smell really bad. I have a sensitive nose and bad smell makes me gag (the same with too much perfume)
- Bad hygine
- Arrogance
- Men that are too hairy ...I'm sorry but ewww.
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Post by supaxina » Aug 10th, '07, 07:04

I don't like guys with **** attitudes. This caused me to break up with my last bf. He just became a bit too full of himself and had too much pride. I hate it when guys talk too much about how great they are, thinking that it impresses girls when it doesn't.

Quiet guys are a turn off. Too quiet and reserved and no humor at all...

I also don't like guys with no common sense. If a guy is taking a girl on a date for the first time or ANY time at all, they should never make the girl pay for the meal. They can have the girl pay for her share, but they should never make the girl pay for the guy. wtf? Some guys really don't know how to be gentlemen.

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Post by haywon » Aug 10th, '07, 10:28

there's nothing wrong with quiet guys, they can be loud sometimes if they feel comfortable around you, you just need to let them know that there's nothing to be embarrased about.

I think smoking turns me off really bad. :crazy:

Guys who are full of themselves.

Bad Hygiene.

Breath stinks.

Don't have no manners.

Sweat.

Bad teeth lol
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Farts and burps.

Selfish.

And thats all i can think of, post more later.
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Post by dima » Aug 11th, '07, 09:25

the biggest turn off for me is if a girl in question reminds me of my mom (go Freud!), that is meek, has large bum or cheeks, speaks my mothertongue, gets angry or just uses proverbs...

more than two of these in one person and it's a total turn-off for me.

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Post by lunas » Aug 15th, '07, 02:10

For some reason, when someone ask "what country are you from?” just this question itself completely turn me off that I do not want to talk to that person at all. The 2nd thing is talking Asian related topic because I'm Asian. Can't we talk about the weather, celebrity gossip, work gossip, why Asian stuff? :P

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Post by YaGaMi82 » Aug 15th, '07, 14:14

Turn offs are people with HUGE lists and demands! :w000t:
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Post by lumanogin » Aug 22nd, '07, 22:27

- bad breath
- smoking
- dirty fingernails
- cussing
- airheads
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Post by asianblondgirl » Aug 23rd, '07, 07:09

Bad Hygiene

Gresie hair

Full of them selves

Selfish

Everyting revolves around it being fisicle...
*i dont mind but gee theirs other stuff i can offer too!*

Picky Eaters

And think they know eveything.

Im pretty flexible with what i like and dont, no ones perfect but its nice to have some one with a little uniqueness.

But Hygiene is #1

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Post by JhunMoon » Aug 26th, '07, 15:19

Woman who farts during the sex

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Post by Dreamfall » Aug 27th, '07, 12:43

So many answers that matches to my answer.I'll try to be unique: It turns me off when someone is not like me...which actualy includes most of the answers above :mrgreen:

...I hate when someone isn't tolerant.
If someone can't stand what I like or do or think...than I don't need that someone....

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Post by 4everU » Aug 27th, '07, 13:07

flynvballer wrote:ahhh im a picky arsehole haha lots of things turn me off.
this list is from pass experiences.

- when all of a suddent looking at her reminds me of my sister.... eww lol
- the weird smell of her strawberry lip balm. (what is that smell... oh its me .. u like?? um no ...)
- when i drop u off u better be out of my car in the next minute, no point in holding on to me and getting out slowly tryin to hold onto my finger until the very last second
- no need to call me all the time, i rather watch my drama than talk to u...wait til im done i'll call u to say good nite
- if u wanna date me u better be able to understand what im talking about! was having a convo about the washington "sniper" who killed 13 people or so 4 years ago. after the short convo, she goes, what is a "sniper?" yes apparently she's lived in canada for a long time but doesnt no a lot of vocabulary, but not only that, she doesnt have any idea of whats going on inthe world or locally.
- girls who always party, always go clubbing, its not a bad thing but i dunno, i get very turned off towards any girls who party a lot....ur not necessarily a slut par say but too bad ur a slut to me
- teeth, i know ppl cant help it, and i had really horrible teeth before but thats what braces are for... really, go get braces and fix ur teeth! no money? ... then too bad im already turned off.
- girls who dress sexy/slutty.... nice to look at, but not someone i'd introduce to the family .... or friends...

like i said, im an arsehole...


might as well start a thread about FlyNvballer's pet peeves....
Hey i totaly agree with you and I am a girl. I personally believe that someone who does not know what's happening around the world and are not in actual reality, really turns me off. :crazy:

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Post by 4everU » Aug 27th, '07, 13:18

Valcun wrote:I hate to say this girls, But I am a man with high standards.

1. Women who don't groom themselves f.e. Combs hair, SHAVES, etc.

2. FAT WOMEN!

3. Very Geeky, sickly looking women

4. Women who smokes, do drugs, drinks, etc.

5. Women who have Bad Teeth :P

6. Women who think to highly of themselves.

7. GOLD DIGGERS

8. Women who make stupid compliments on you a lot just because of your looks. F.e. OMG your so HOT!, omg i love how you do that. Do you have a girlfriend? Are you looking for one? -wink wink- ( there was actually a situation where this happened to me)

9. Totally Obessed women who call on you and STALK YOU

10. WOMEN who are INDECISIVE

11. Women who are just... plain weird.

12. Women who are DUMB ( I read an example of a girl who didn't know what a sniper was, geez I sure hope she survives in this world :( )

13. Women who lack sense of HUMOR

14. Women who are a b****

15. Women who aren't at least a 8 out of 10. Sorry all you decent girls, I'm only into attractive ones :P

16. Sexually Active Women

17. Women from the Philipines, Sorry.. Gomen. But you pinoy's love going after americans so you can jet out of that 3rd world country to immigrate to america. Most of my friends who were in the navy or the marines that went to the Philipines were being hit on constantly by the women there. Plus I have personal expeirence. No offense to any Flips reading this.

18. Women who are INSECURE!!

19. Women who lack sense of Fashion

20. Women who are to religous and try to convert me. (Personal Expeirence)

21. Socially Poor Women ( Women with just no social skills :) )

22. Accents that no body can understand.

23. Women who use men to their advantage.

24. Women that have peircings in odd places.

25. Women with to many tatoo's

26. Women who can't trust other people

27. Women who are pyscho

28. Immature Women

29. Women who TALK ON THEIR CELL PHONE TOO MUCH!

30. I'll just put this again cause I like this one, Women who aren't at least a 8 out of 10

That's about it. If there is anymore I'll post a continuation :)

We should make a thread on turn on's too :) Should be Turn On's and then Turn off's
WOW man, you have high standards don't ya!!! LOL i am a girl and the thing in look for in a guy is respect, honesty, responsiblity,common sense, and a caring and kind person who can relate to others and not just think of himself. Sorry but guys who have high standers turn me off. don't worry I don't mean u, because another thing that turns me off is when someone judges someone before knowing them. For all i know u may be a very nice person...

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Post by 4everU » Aug 27th, '07, 13:22

halalsushi wrote:- Girls that think their goddesses.
- Fake lesbians/bisexuals.
(Those girls that make out or do other homoerotic acts in front of guys to get attention.)
- Unchaste and immoral.
- Atheistic, materialistic, hedonistic or nihlistic.
- Emo, obsessive and controlling, mentally-ill.
- Gossips and plays mind games.
- Close-minded; shallow.
- Doesn't know how to cook or raise children.
- Anorexic or obese.
LOL totally agree with u....(i am a girl)

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Post by 4everU » Aug 27th, '07, 13:31

lunas wrote:For some reason, when someone ask "what country are you from?” just this question itself completely turn me off that I do not want to talk to that person at all. The 2nd thing is talking Asian related topic because I'm Asian. Can't we talk about the weather, celebrity gossip, work gossip, why Asian stuff? :P
lol, i agree with u, however all my friends are asian, and talk to them about asian things like dramas, celebs and stuff like that because I myself am interested in it, not because my friend is asian, i have non asian friends and i talk about asian stuff, however they usually don't listen because they don't care......THIS is what TURNS ME OFF...when a person is only interested in their own things...like things only about their country, race, personal interests and culture, and don't allow them selves to experience other peoples culture and stuff that might be interesting as well....

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Post by mimmi » Aug 28th, '07, 20:41

Goodness interesting posts:
@ supaxina:....if the girl is the one who suggested to go out to eat; even on a first date, the girl better prepare to pay for both meals. It's her suggestions.....after the first date, still who ever is the one that suggest the fun, will be mostly responsible for the pills....ok that's my two cents

@ lunas:....maybe they ask about Asian things because they are interested in Asian things, but not just because your an Asian?

@ flynvballer:....hmm what can I say, except I have to agree with you :-)....yes, you are right, you sure are a very big harsehole....the girl just want to let you know how she feels, that's why she holds on to your finger and calls you....

@ valcun:...."accents that nobody can understands"....well, I have one thing to say to you: You're not just too intelligent enough to understand him/her; when that poor soul is doing her best to communicate to you, so it is you whom should be on shame....

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Post by lumanogin » Sep 3rd, '07, 10:48

mimmi wrote: @ valcun:...."accents that nobody can understands"....well, I have one thing to say to you: You're not just too intelligent enough to understand him/her; when that poor soul is doing her best to communicate to you, so it is you whom should be on shame....
I totally agree with this one. The other person is trying their best and it's sad when you're that close minded. This isn't just for heavy accents but for people with speaking handicaps too.

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Post by wndestiny » Sep 3rd, '07, 11:00

it ticks me off... jus when you wanna spend time wit her... yet all you get is a "i dunno kno" when you ask her where she wanna go... or what she wanna do.... every single time....

also... just when she likes to get things complicated on herself.. or the situation...
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Post by happigo_lucky » Sep 3rd, '07, 11:23

this is such a fun forum!

Turns me off list

When people take a long time to answer a question that you ask them and then (if they didn't answer you) they half ass an answer and just guess (this is not including test and what not)

When people take credit for the good deed other's did, but blames them later if it turns out bad (REALLY pisses me off!)

When people expect you to listen to them ut won't listen to your side of the story! (more focused on bad parents and bad friends)

Another is when parents are to cling-ing to you and want to know EVERYTHING (and i mean everything not just the 'how's your day' thing either) and won't sop bugging, talking, or leaving you alone(mom and aunt does that almost everyday and i get so pissed off!!!)

Then there's the people who make fun of you about something or makes a bad comment about something you have, finds out its popular and copies you! (i hate those the most!)

Lastly there are the people who copy your every move, besides mimes ofcourse (though they copy you, they stop after you've had enough) seriously, 4 years ago there was this girl who i decided to be friends with, she started to follow me EVERYWHERE, do EVERYTHING I did (at the same time!), and even take the SAME classes as i was taking! Call me sycho but this girl really needed to get a life instead of following me around.

Those are the things that REALLY turn me off, other wise there's a whole bunch more. you could say i'm picky when it comes to people around me, (that's what my mom told me before i went to sleep) hahaha!

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Post by Noale » Sep 3rd, '07, 11:47

wndestiny wrote:it ticks me off... jus when you wanna spend time wit her... yet all you get is a "i dunno kno" when you ask her where she wanna go... or what she wanna do.... every single time....

also... just when she likes to get things complicated on herself.. or the situation...
Agreed. I hate it when people do that! Or when they say that they don't care about what we should do, that everything's "okay" with them, when it's really not. AARGH, it's so annoying. They should show some initiative too.
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Post by jemoonette » Nov 29th, '07, 04:31

GRR I hate **** guys, no matter HOW hot they are. I hate the dumb ones too. I hate the shallow ones that easily fall in love with girls just 'cause they're "hot". I hate guys who don't respect their parents, guys who don't respect women, guys who talk "gangsta" (VERY common in my school), and guys who smell bad. There are probably more things that I hate in guys, but these are all I can think of for now.

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Post by aimztan » Nov 30th, '07, 07:08

Hmm i like this i'll just say things that otally turned me off that i had confronted thepeople doing it

1. when someone who's in a better position picks on someone helpless
e.g. bullying the class nerd who can't fight back

2. Arrogance...there is a difference between confidence in your abilities and just absolute bull****. If you are around each other all the time and every time that person opens their mouth the only thing you hear is "I'm great!" It will get to you.

3. Annoying people who can't take hints...i have a sense of humor but there is a time and place for everything you should be perceptive regarding the situation

3. Anything unhygienic bothers me...I mean I'll let occasional mishaps slide but persistent grooming problems i mean make yourself presentable coz the people around you is sharing that same courtesy...

That's the only thing I can think of right now but obviously think of all the negative adjectives you know then insert it here...there are things you can let slide...things that won't bother you as much but that's different for everyone

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Post by swit_thng » Nov 30th, '07, 07:35

smokers...guy who is not gentleman..has no future. hahaha.
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Post by albertoavena » Nov 30th, '07, 07:42

Wow...people have such HUGE lists..! People must have pretty high standards, i guess. But at least they're reasonable (for the most part)

Heh, I guess people want that perfect guy/girl they see in dramas... :lol
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Post by Chabasse » Dec 2nd, '07, 00:21

when a girl is playing with me and other guys >< no two timing

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Post by wujou_mao » Dec 2nd, '07, 00:59

lunas wrote:For some reason, when someone ask "what country are you from?” just this question itself completely turn me off that I do not want to talk to that person at all. The 2nd thing is talking Asian related topic because I'm Asian. Can't we talk about the weather, celebrity gossip, work gossip, why Asian stuff? :P
this question doesnt put me off, just only being addressed if i'm american in the winy voice 'hay maan' is enough to put me in a bad mood for most of the day.

as for what else you say, these forums are mostly asian people living aboard in other countrys with the odd exception of white people [me]

so what else put me off? girls using me as a walking ATM or getting in a bad mood and telling me its my fault, but i have to guess why as if i should know why :unsure:

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Post by OneMore » Jan 7th, '08, 00:54

AfricanBean wrote:My top ten massive turnoffs. Sorted in order of severity.

8. People with hair longer than 9.4 inches.
*9.3 is fine, but 9.4 is completely unacceptable. :x

7. People who want to "talk things out".
*Look, if we're mad at each other over something, chances are I'm right anyway. Skip the talking, and start thinking of ways to apologize like you should be doing. :D

6. People who want to change you in a relationship.:scratch:
*You should have never gone out with me to begin with if you didn't like the way I was.

5. People who refuse to change for me in a relationship.
*I'm only asking you not to do this, and this, or be like this. It's not too much to ask for the sake of the relationship that you change several things about yourself for me. :glare:

1. People who don't inform the other party when they've somehow failed said checklist.
*They won't know it's a turnoff unless you tell them. :whistling:
8 - So do you get out your ruler if there is a borderline case? If the most perfect partner in the world with <9.4 hair length grows it longer what is the protocol? Immediate Break up?

6&5 - so which is it? change or no change allowed? You allowed but they not pretty much. In your own words, you should have never gone out with them in the first place then.

7&1 - again, which is it? communication or no communication?

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Post by r3ika » Jan 24th, '08, 03:07

4everU wrote:
halalsushi wrote:- Girls that think their goddesses.
- Fake lesbians/bisexuals.
(Those girls that make out or do other homoerotic acts in front of guys to get attention.)
- Unchaste and immoral.
- Atheistic, materialistic, hedonistic or nihlistic.
- Emo, obsessive and controlling, mentally-ill.
- Gossips and plays mind games.
- Close-minded; shallow.
- Doesn't know how to cook or raise children.
- Anorexic or obese.
LOL totally agree with u....(i am a girl)
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Post by ayachan2007 » Jan 24th, '08, 03:46

Can't believe I found this thread. This is interesting.

Things that pisses me off:
- Guys who aren't honest with people.
- Guys who lies about themselves (it happened to me in my first and only relationship, my ex lying about who he was. this really turned me off)
- Guys who has no respect for women and think of them as things.
- People who thinks they are better that anyone else and all they talk about is about themselves.
- People who play with my feelings or someone else's feelings.
- People who think negatively about life and themselves.
- People who gossip about what others are doing and criticize them behind their back.
- Being used by people.
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Post by yieebo » Jan 29th, '08, 15:00

bad people, evil... life is very simple, bad people make it overly complex with lies and manipulations, selfish desires.

egomaniacal Darwinian nightmares.

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Post by Gen Noka » Jan 30th, '08, 21:04

things that turn me off

-thug-looking guys

-behaves improperly (being disrepectful to the elderly, swears just to show off how a man should be. Guys like that look plain stupid)

-smells bad

-dresses badly

-is a big-mouth

-when they don't keep their words without a good reason

-weak (mentally and physically)


I'm not sure if this counts as a turnoff but I hate guys who think they are the king of the unniverse. Well not just guys, girls as well.
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Post by pumahmistress » Feb 6th, '08, 10:14

- People that smell bad.
- People who think too highly of themselves.
- People without humor.
- People with bad personal hygine.
- People with no manners whatsoever.
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Post by knuts » Feb 6th, '08, 12:08

yieebo wrote:bad people, evil... life is very simple, bad people make it overly complex with lies and manipulations, selfish desires.
yes!!

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yieebo wrote:egomaniacal Darwinian nightmares.
not sure what you mean by this
will try to figure it out

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Post by jagoan` » Feb 6th, '08, 12:36

I find people who are overconfident is a turn off...err and ppl who think they're cool and cute (both guys and gals) but they're actually not...and they ignore it even though they're told...yeah they are also a turn off lolz

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Post by Trisix » Feb 6th, '08, 12:47

I've got a few major turn off(s) for men. >_>

I hate those who:

- can't differentiate the real world and their fantasy world
- plans a lot just to harm somebody who truly loves them
- can't dress properly: Unkempt hair, T-shirt& Bermudas & Slippers when you're out with him on a date
- one who thinks highly of themselves
- spoilt brats : men with female brains
- lastly : MCP

Minor ones would probably be those which is already mentioned.

I just had this super ridiculous experience of a relationship with this -man- who can't think straight 1 year back, the planning of how he's going die in XXX days. Apparently almost one year plus has passed and he's still alive kickin'. Haha, and now he's with a new gf who just undergone operation because of a tumour. Perfect. His brain is totally screwd and rotten.
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Post by jagoan` » Feb 6th, '08, 12:53

Trisix wrote:I've got a few major turn off(s) for men. >_>

I hate those who:

- can't differentiate the real world and their fantasy world
- plans a lot just to harm somebody who truly loves them
- can't dress properly: Unkempt hair, T-shirt& Bermudas & Slippers when you're out with him on a date
- one who thinks highly of themselves
- spoilt brats : men with female brains
- lastly : MCP

Minor ones would probably be those which is already mentioned.

I just had this super ridiculous experience of a relationship with this -man- who can't think straight 1 year back, the planning of how he's going die in XXX days. Apparently almost one year plus has passed and he's still alive kickin'. Haha, and now he's with a new gf who just undergone operation because of a tumour. Perfect. His brain is totally screwd and rotten.
Pardon me but what's MCP? lol sounds interesting and yes I do hate spoiled brats too, I find them too easy to trick lolz, but it's fun sometimes T_T

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Post by Trisix » Feb 6th, '08, 13:05

jagoan` wrote:
Trisix wrote:I've got a few major turn off(s) for men. >_>

I hate those who:

- can't differentiate the real world and their fantasy world
- plans a lot just to harm somebody who truly loves them
- can't dress properly: Unkempt hair, T-shirt& Bermudas & Slippers when you're out with him on a date
- one who thinks highly of themselves
- spoilt brats : men with female brains
- lastly : MCP

Minor ones would probably be those which is already mentioned.

I just had this super ridiculous experience of a relationship with this -man- who can't think straight 1 year back, the planning of how he's going die in XXX days. Apparently almost one year plus has passed and he's still alive kickin'. Haha, and now he's with a new gf who just undergone operation because of a tumour. Perfect. His brain is totally screwd and rotten.
Pardon me but what's MCP? lol sounds interesting and yes I do hate spoiled brats too, I find them too easy to trick lolz, but it's fun sometimes T_T
MCP stands for male chauvinist pigs <- similar to men who thinks highly to themselves but I find this more serious than that. -_-; one who forces their "girl" to dress what they think they look good in and make themselves feel "happy". Sounds sick yeah. =/

And ya, spoiled brats never fails to make me laugh because I'll end up laughing at their immaturity. :3
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Post by jagoan` » Feb 6th, '08, 13:11

hmmm...sounds cruell bt I like it...imma introduce that to my groups ahhahahaah...(is it widely used though) what about guys who dresses in tight jeans? (and showing like half their boxers too), I find it tempting to just pull their pants and throw it in the middle of busy road

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Post by Trisix » Feb 6th, '08, 13:18

Hahahaha! I'm okay with that, at least they bother to "dress" up just that they had this weird sense of fashion. I sometimes too imagined myself walking behind them and pull their jeans down and then they fall and slip~! HAHAHA. *evil*
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Post by jagoan` » Feb 6th, '08, 13:25

oh oh oh how bout this people who always says they can do everything but when the do it they'll use their favourite line..."Well you see I haven't done this for a while..."

for example...this friend of mine rite he thinks he's so good playing the guitar, and when I gave him my guitar he was like oh can I see the tab for this song, i haven't played guitar for a while...

Inside I was like...-.-" big time....

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Post by Trisix » Feb 6th, '08, 13:29

HAHAHAHA, I haven't met such people who uses that excuse yet.
I only met people who literally express that phrase by their actions.
Someone like they're frigging ambitious and turns out they only knew nuts. =/ Kinda irritating but usually I don't hang out with them much. =3
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Post by jagoan` » Feb 6th, '08, 22:47

[quote="Trisix"]HAHAHAHA, I haven't met such people who uses that excuse yet.
I only met people who literally express that phrase by their actions.
Someone like they're frigging ambitious and turns out they only knew nuts. =/ Kinda irritating but usually I don't hang out with them much. =3[/quote

lolz just noticed you're singaporean, happy chinese new year yeh ahhahaha i use to study back in Penang Malaysia, but i often went to singapore...I miss the food sooooo much lolz is there any thread about food in this forum hahahah

anywayz happy chinese new year, and I hope you don't meet those ppl that turns you off today *psst just ask for as many red pocket money as possible*

i'm in sydney atm and yes, no one cares about chinese new year T_T that turns me offffffff!!! argghhhh]

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Post by Trisix » Feb 7th, '08, 02:31

Thanks. XD

But I don't get to celebrate much. :3 Because all my relatives are in HK and friends are too busy visiting their own relatives, probably no red packets to get anymore. =(

Happy Chinese New Year too~ ^^
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Post by untitledmelody » Feb 10th, '08, 16:53

jagoan`: Hi there, I'm a Penangite too and guess what, I'm studying in Aus (too? Guess you're a student there right?) BUT in Melbourne. :D
I'm back here now, but going back Down Under in two weeks. The Chinatown's pretty big in Syd right? No celebrations? I heard that there was just a CNY parade in Melb today.
Happy Chinese New Year

Gosh sorry :offtopic:

Trisix: Your ex-boyf is sad. I'm glad you broke up with him. It's the worst when you're with people who get you DOWN=extremely negative people. My ex ages ago was something like that too, though not as extreme.

What turns me off:
Let's start with the physical.
- sweaty, smelly body odour (there's no way I can get close with somebody like that!)
- bad breath (yeah I know there's something about me and smells >.<)
- shorter than me
- unshaven facial hair (I prefer the clean-cut look)

And the rest:
- Overly sensitive and whiny (what's the difference between that and a girl friend?! I can't even stand girl friends who whine too much already...)
- Needy, dependant types (I don't want to be a living rescue float)
- Unfocused, no ambition, totally confused over what they want types
- Those who try to get too close (physically) too soon
- Smokers (though I'm not really that sure about this)
- Pessimistic, wallowing in self-pity types (I don't want it to rub off on me)

... Am I putting up overly-high expectations??
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Post by 143dOrKy » Feb 10th, '08, 17:22

my is pretty simple

1. Personal Hygiene - please stay at least ten feet from me if you haven't shower!!!
2. someone who doesnt have any self confidence in themselves!

that all i can think about now! :p

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Post by jagoan` » Feb 11th, '08, 07:59

To untitlemelody:

hehehae so sorry I probably wasn't very clear, i'm actually Indonesian, but i studied in penang for 4 years and yes I LOVED it ahahaha wish i can go back there and eat all the beautifully cheap food there lol, yep i'm in Sydney currently doing my degree heeheh how's Melbourne, I went there once and i loved it too lolz, and did you know Melbourne has got the most Indonesian out of all the states in Aus lolz

anywayz nice meeting you heheh

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Post by untitledmelody » Feb 24th, '08, 16:12

Hey jagoan`. Haha yeah... Melbourne is crawling with Indonesians, in fact I have many Indonesian friends from college in Melbourne! Nice, friendly people. (: Too bad they only teach me the 'bad' words... Lemme try one... Excuse me... "Gonggok". LOL (sorry)
Melbourne is COLD here. >.< (It should be summer right...)

Anyway to stay on topic: 143dorky, I also don't really like those types who aren't confident... Oh gosh, I don't think I'll ever get married. -____-
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Post by xOxcinderellaxOx » Mar 15th, '08, 07:46

I get really turned off when guys start getting really immature. I mean, come on! I know all guys are immature but there has to be some times when they're serious! OOOHHH! Also when the guy starts to stalk me! That's creepy!

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Post by Karate-ka » Mar 15th, '08, 07:58

I hate people who are racist or laughs at people who are diffrent(example laughing at someone who is hadicap)
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Post by Star-Bolt » Mar 16th, '08, 14:43

I dont like people who use tatoos, or piercing. One time I remember I started chatting with a very beautifull girl but whjen I noticed her tatoo... my God! All her beautifulness disappeared in a second hehehe =P. I cant explain why is it like this. Maybe because I consider that things as an agression to the own body.

I also dont like people who smoke but I can tolerate this. But of course, I dont want a gf who smokes!
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Post by alcozar » Mar 17th, '08, 15:12

Smoking and girls that stink of bad body odour.

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Post by wlben » Mar 20th, '08, 16:31

someone who talks loud and impatient

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Post by ronnie » Mar 20th, '08, 16:40

Errr..my Ex..hehehe...jus kidding

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Post by teeheeman » Mar 23rd, '08, 21:32

Asians.

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Post by karin-chan » Mar 23rd, '08, 23:57

^^ FOUL!

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Post by karin-chan » Mar 23rd, '08, 23:59

guys who dont make any sense

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Post by akiko-chico » Apr 16th, '08, 04:17

Stinky breath, smelly ppl and smokers

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Post by N-chan » Apr 16th, '08, 11:28

I hate people who thinks they are the one who are always right while the rest of the poeple are always wrong

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