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SINGLES RANTING THREAD (Dating Advice)

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 12:23
by Cloud James Lionheart
Hi im new to this forum thing, but after watching densha otoko i was really inspired and i really want to meet new people and get to know them, help them out and just generally talk bout life and things ^_^ well i hope i get some posts here, i'd be really greatfull yours trully
Oliver Jianoran

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 12:29
by ladym
Well Hi! OLiver :D
if u want to talk i'm more then pleas to answer and ask u questions :P :mrgreen: :w00t: :D

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 14:25
by Cloud James Lionheart
hi ladym you alright? ah gosh, this thread seems lonly :-( hmm dyu know anyway to get people to start chatting here, lol. where are you from and stuff by the way. ^_^

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 14:32
by ladym
Hi!
I'm from Romania :P u?
well ya is a little lonely but wait i bet in 2 or 3 day is going to be populated :mrgreen: :lol

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 14:36
by Cloud James Lionheart
hehe well i hope it does , im from london by the way, were both eurapian :lol haha hmm so hows everythign in life? my lifes gone a lil bit brighter coz i starter college recently hehe.

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 15:14
by ladym
I'm happy for u :D :lol ...my is a little bit sad :-( now bacause i can't find jod :P
i need one fast ...i'm very broke :P :mrgreen: but i can steel smile :D :lol

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 16:51
by [oa.NET]Youkai
i dont think we can find someone like densha who needs help THIS badly :mrgreen: :roll

PS.
3.rd european ;) ( germany )

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 17:01
by ladym
Ya ...... :P :D :mrgreen: ME!!!!!!!!!!!
Btw wellcome... :D :mrgreen: :w00t:

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 18:44
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
haha kool.... a singles thread.. i wonder if sumone like Densha Would Actually show up on sumtin like this? hahaha... hopefully? yes?

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 18:49
by ladym
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:haha kool.... a singles thread.. i wonder if sumone like Densha Would Actually show up on sumtin like this? hahaha... hopefully? yes?


I don't want to sound stupid :P but who is Densha? :scratch:

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 18:56
by Caspian
:lol Suckers, *huggles girlfriend*

Actually, hm, like. If you guys still want to talk to me on MSN or something, , I always am asking for help about something there. =p

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 18:59
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
ladym wrote:
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:haha kool.... a singles thread.. i wonder if sumone like Densha Would Actually show up on sumtin like this? hahaha... hopefully? yes?


I don't want to sound stupid :P but who is Densha? :scratch:

haha Search up Densha Otoko in the Torrent Section.. its a funny yet romantic JDrama.. lol u should watch it.. :D

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 19:05
by ladym
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:
ladym wrote:
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:haha kool.... a singles thread.. i wonder if sumone like Densha Would Actually show up on sumtin like this? hahaha... hopefully? yes?


I don't want to sound stupid :P but who is Densha? :scratch:

haha Search up Densha Otoko in the Torrent Section.. its a funny yet romantic JDrama.. lol u should watch it.. :D

arigatogozaimasu....i don't know if write it good

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 19:06
by Lowest
ladym wrote:
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:haha kool.... a singles thread.. i wonder if sumone like Densha Would Actually show up on sumtin like this? hahaha... hopefully? yes?


I don't want to sound stupid :P but who is Densha? :scratch:
   ⊂⌒~⊃。Д。)⊃

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 19:08
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
ladym wrote:
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:
ladym wrote:

I don't want to sound stupid :P but who is Densha? :scratch:

haha Search up Densha Otoko in the Torrent Section.. its a funny yet romantic JDrama.. lol u should watch it.. :D

arigatogozaimasu....i don't know if write it good
haha no problem... i thought it was spaced out not sure.. hehe :P
but yea it should be a good jdrama for u.. i just finished it and im sad to stop watchin it... :(

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 19:13
by ladym
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:
ladym wrote:
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:

haha Search up Densha Otoko in the Torrent Section.. its a funny yet romantic JDrama.. lol u should watch it.. :D

arigatogozaimasu....i don't know if write it good
haha no problem... i thought it was spaced out not sure.. hehe :P






but yea it should be a good jdrama for u.. i just finished it and im sad to stop watchin it... :(


May i ask why it will be a good drama for me? :mrgreen: :D :P

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 19:16
by ladym
i always do mistakes... :blink this time i forgot the "j"
ex :jdrama :pale:

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 19:21
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
ladym wrote:i always do mistakes... :blink this time i forgot the "j"
ex :jdrama :pale:

hrm.. well its a comedy romance.. most people usually like sumtin that gets them out of their seats.. and this jDrama sure did... made me wanna yell at the guy! lol and beat him up lol.. and yea... its like u can relate to him in a way... :D thats y i think it would be a gud one

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 19:29
by ladym
This is only because of Naoko from TRICK.... :P :D :lol
every time i like someone or somethink without knowing i'm take somethink from him or her :mrgreen:
so untill now i have been Ueda Jiro and Naoko Yamada...
i even have her smile too :w00t: :P :D :lol :mrgreen:
Ok u can call me nuts :crazy:

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 19:37
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
ladym wrote:This is only because of Naoko from TRICK.... :P :D :lol
every time i like someone or somethink without knowing i'm take somethink from him or her :mrgreen:
so untill now i have been Ueda Jiro and Naoko Yamada...
i even have her smile too :w00t: :P :D :lol :mrgreen:
Ok u can call me nuts :crazy:


wah... its the same girl from Gokusen... and TRICK...
hrm.. are those ur pics? or hers? lol because u say u smile alike.. u might also Look Alike?!?! :crazy: :crazy:

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 19:50
by ladym
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:
ladym wrote:This is only because of Naoko from TRICK.... :P :D :lol
every time i like someone or somethink without knowing i'm take somethink from him or her :mrgreen:
so untill now i have been Ueda Jiro and Naoko Yamada...
i even have her smile too :w00t: :P :D :lol :mrgreen:
Ok u can call me nuts :crazy:


wah... its the same girl from Gokusen... and TRICK...
hrm.. are those ur pics? or hers? lol because u say u smile alike.. u might also Look Alike?!?! :crazy: :crazy:


unfortunately i'm not :cry:
but i look even more enteresting then her :P :blink

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 19:54
by equang
WHAT DORKS, JEEZ.

JK, I'm just as much of a dork XD

Is it sad that my friends from Japanese class call me Denwa Otoko? Denwa (telephone) is part of our vocabulary and sounds like my last name when you say it in Japanese, and they know how much I love this show XD so now that's my name. "Denwa-san this" and "Denwa-san that" XD I always tell them to shut up but in the end I like it :D

Since this is a single's thread, I'll tell you my story. I'm transgendered (female-to-male) and pre-op so I can't go out with normal girls. I have to pretend I'm just a lesbian to get any action at all. None of my relationships have ever lasted more than a month. I spend all my time on the internet and I love anime and dorama. Because I'm trans, I have really low self esteem and confidence (note: confidence is boosted by dim rooms and loud music).

Anybody else have a FUN story?

~Denwa

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 20:11
by ladym
Ok here is my ..storry i have 23 walking for 24 ....i'm leaving in a town where no one can suffer me because i'm having to much fun than they r... :P
i'm laugh to much i always find somethink fun in every situation.. :D :lol :mrgreen:
so i choose to change town :w00t: :mrgreen: and country to disturb others too.. :P
OOHH...And i'm leastening loud music...practicing martial arts in my suit ...etc...etc... :P

That is me folks :w00t:

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 20:19
by Jin-Ha
huh? i dont get the sense of the topic.. single as standalone person opr single in fact of having no relationship? :blink

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 20:30
by ladym
Jin-Ha wrote:huh? i dont get the sense of the topic.. single as standalone person opr single in fact of having no relationship? :blink
having no relationship...i think....not sure...maybe...should i continue :P

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 20:33
by Jin-Ha
Ok in that case we should introduce each other? :blink

well then continue ^^ i will do the same after you :lol

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 20:36
by ladym
Jin-Ha wrote:Ok in that case we should introduce each other? :blink

well then continue ^^ i will do the same after you :lol
U :w00t: first PLEAS 8)

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 20:52
by Jin-Ha
ladym wrote:
Jin-Ha wrote:Ok in that case we should introduce each other? :blink

well then continue ^^ i will do the same after you :lol
U :w00t: first PLEAS 8)
:roll well then

how should i start hmm maybe with the

i am tom 23 yrs old from cologne in germany ( thats where the world youth day was) *g*
sorry for having none picture of me yet so i describe myself a bit.. i am 1.98m tall brown eyes dark brown hair /sometimes black ( yes i color them myself) .. to my job i am working as an apprentice for mediadesign for print/non-print .. it takes me 3 years to finish that apprentice ship.. maybe i study after that or directly go abroad to somewhere else cause i dont like my country that much .. bad economy, bad politics , bad climate...

why am i here.. cause i am a big fan of asian movies espacially korean ones.. thats the fault of my first girlfriend who was korean.. .. myself is a multinational .. born in germany but indochine ancestors .. wich means my grandma is vietnamese, my grandpa is french .. only my dad is german so thats why i dont have any asian touch .. i look 97% european.. thats no prob 4 me.

well in case that i like asian movies, i listen to asian music a lot, most korean but sometimes vietnamese folk or chinese pop.. but i like also finnish bands like apocalyptica, him, nightwish, etc.. i dont push myself in just one direction or genre of music..

when i am not at work , i am here or practicing martial arts and streetstyle ( thats dancing like in the us movie "You got served" ) i am not that good already ^^

well why dont i have a girlfriend.. its easy .. 1st less time, 2nd i prefer east european girls or asian.. .. german girls are boring to me .. they often dont understand my love to asia.. and well i just find them boring and most of them act like eehm i dont have any english word for this .. in german i would say Tussi.. its an overdressed horrible girl wich behaves like she is the queen of the world .. everything must belongto her she is the best the beauties.. well that sucks on girls..

so i decided to be alone for some a while.. if any other girl knocks on my door .. i would have a look ^^ but they must accept that i leave my country

well i think i wrot enough for the first

...so ladym its your turn :lol

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 20:52
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
ladym wrote:
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:
ladym wrote:This is only because of Naoko from TRICK.... :P :D :lol
every time i like someone or somethink without knowing i'm take somethink from him or her :mrgreen:
so untill now i have been Ueda Jiro and Naoko Yamada...
i even have her smile too :w00t: :P :D :lol :mrgreen:
Ok u can call me nuts :crazy:


wah... its the same girl from Gokusen... and TRICK...
hrm.. are those ur pics? or hers? lol because u say u smile alike.. u might also Look Alike?!?! :crazy: :crazy:


unfortunately i'm not :cry:
but i look even more enteresting then her :P :blink

hrm.. too bad i couldnt meet u in person :P would be interesting :D

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 21:11
by ladym
Jin-Ha wrote:
ladym wrote:
Jin-Ha wrote:Ok in that case we should introduce each other? :blink

well then continue ^^ i will do the same after you :lol
U :w00t: first PLEAS 8)
:roll well then

how should i start hmm maybe with the

i am tom 23 yrs old from cologne in germany ( thats where the world youth day was) *g*
sorry for having none picture of me yet so i describe myself a bit.. i am 1.98m tall brown eyes dark brown hair /sometimes black ( yes i color them myself) .. to my job i am working as an apprentice for mediadesign for print/non-print .. it takes me 3 years to finish that apprentice ship.. maybe i study after that or directly go abroad to somewhere else cause i dont like my country that much .. bad economy, bad politics , bad climate...

why am i here.. cause i am a big fan of asian movies espacially korean ones.. thats the fault of my first girlfriend who was korean.. .. myself is a multinational .. born in germany but indochine ancestors .. wich means my grandma is vietnamese, my grandpa is french .. only my dad is german so thats why i dont have any asian touch .. i look 97% european.. thats no prob 4 me.

well in case that i like asian movies, i listen to asian music a lot, most korean but sometimes vietnamese folk or chinese pop.. but i like also finnish bands like apocalyptica, him, nightwish, etc.. i dont push myself in just one direction or genre of music..

when i am not at work , i am here or practicing martial arts and streetstyle ( thats dancing like in the us movie "You got served" ) i am not that good already ^^

well why dont i have a girlfriend.. its easy .. 1st less time, 2nd i prefer east european girls or asian.. .. german girls are boring to me .. they often dont understand my love to asia.. and well i just find them boring and most of them act like eehm i dont have any english word for this .. in german i would say Tussi.. its an overdressed horrible girl wich behaves like she is the queen of the world .. everything must belongto her she is the best the beauties.. well that sucks on girls..

so i decided to be alone for some a while.. if any other girl knocks on my door .. i would have a look ^^ but they must accept that i leave my country

well i think i wrot enough for the first

...so ladym its your turn :lol


Well since u saw me is not important to tell u how i look....I have 173cm..i study martial arts my self..i don't have any job yet but i will as soon as i leave my country..i did'n date to much because i my self like asian men and europen but not the one from my country :P
They don't understand why i refuse to dress like all the other girls(i love to dress more like a boy)the pic u saw is the only time i try it...i love jeans and a shirt or sweater ..i fill more sexy like that :P :mrgreen: plus they r very rude too..
I love to travel ...see new places ... But what i wish the most is to became a actrice.. :w00t:

I don't know what to tell u any more... :mrgreen: :D :lol

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 21:13
by ladym
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:
ladym wrote:
(-Oni-Kazuki-) wrote:


wah... its the same girl from Gokusen... and TRICK...
hrm.. are those ur pics? or hers? lol because u say u smile alike.. u might also Look Alike?!?! :crazy: :crazy:


unfortunately i'm not :cry:
but i look even more enteresting then her :P :blink

hrm.. too bad i couldnt meet u in person :P would be interesting :D

Well i will take a pic of mine when i'm laughing like her :mrgreen: :D :lol :P

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 21:16
by Jin-Ha
ladym wrote:
Jin-Ha wrote:
ladym wrote:
U :w00t: first PLEAS 8)
:roll well then

how should i start hmm maybe with the

i am tom 23 yrs old from cologne in germany ( thats where the world youth day was) *g*
sorry for having none picture of me yet so i describe myself a bit.. i am 1.98m tall brown eyes dark brown hair /sometimes black ( yes i color them myself) .. to my job i am working as an apprentice for mediadesign for print/non-print .. it takes me 3 years to finish that apprentice ship.. maybe i study after that or directly go abroad to somewhere else cause i dont like my country that much .. bad economy, bad politics , bad climate...

why am i here.. cause i am a big fan of asian movies espacially korean ones.. thats the fault of my first girlfriend who was korean.. .. myself is a multinational .. born in germany but indochine ancestors .. wich means my grandma is vietnamese, my grandpa is french .. only my dad is german so thats why i dont have any asian touch .. i look 97% european.. thats no prob 4 me.

well in case that i like asian movies, i listen to asian music a lot, most korean but sometimes vietnamese folk or chinese pop.. but i like also finnish bands like apocalyptica, him, nightwish, etc.. i dont push myself in just one direction or genre of music..

when i am not at work , i am here or practicing martial arts and streetstyle ( thats dancing like in the us movie "You got served" ) i am not that good already ^^

well why dont i have a girlfriend.. its easy .. 1st less time, 2nd i prefer east european girls or asian.. .. german girls are boring to me .. they often dont understand my love to asia.. and well i just find them boring and most of them act like eehm i dont have any english word for this .. in german i would say Tussi.. its an overdressed horrible girl wich behaves like she is the queen of the world .. everything must belongto her she is the best the beauties.. well that sucks on girls..

so i decided to be alone for some a while.. if any other girl knocks on my door .. i would have a look ^^ but they must accept that i leave my country

well i think i wrot enough for the first

...so ladym its your turn :lol


Well since u saw me is not important to tell u how i look....I have 173cm..i study martial arts my self..i don't have any job yet but i will as soon as i leave my country..i did'n date to much because i my self like asian men and europen but not the one from my country :P
They don't understand why i refuse to dress like all the other girls(i love to dress more like a boy)the pic u saw is the only time i try it...i love jeans and a shirt or sweater ..i fill more sexy like that :P :mrgreen: plus they r very rude too..
I love to travel ...see new places ... But what i wish the most is to became a actrice.. :w00t:

I don't know what to tell u any more... :mrgreen: :D :lol
well your clothing style is good, why shouldnt women wear jeans and stuff ^^
any plans wich country you want to move?
actress? well do me a favour and dont do that in france ^^ its horrible there .. all those noseup girls .. ^^

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 21:22
by ladym
Jin-Ha wrote:
ladym wrote:
Jin-Ha wrote:
:roll well then

how should i start hmm maybe with the

i am tom 23 yrs old from cologne in germany ( thats where the world youth day was) *g*
sorry for having none picture of me yet so i describe myself a bit.. i am 1.98m tall brown eyes dark brown hair /sometimes black ( yes i color them myself) .. to my job i am working as an apprentice for mediadesign for print/non-print .. it takes me 3 years to finish that apprentice ship.. maybe i study after that or directly go abroad to somewhere else cause i dont like my country that much .. bad economy, bad politics , bad climate...

why am i here.. cause i am a big fan of asian movies espacially korean ones.. thats the fault of my first girlfriend who was korean.. .. myself is a multinational .. born in germany but indochine ancestors .. wich means my grandma is vietnamese, my grandpa is french .. only my dad is german so thats why i dont have any asian touch .. i look 97% european.. thats no prob 4 me.

well in case that i like asian movies, i listen to asian music a lot, most korean but sometimes vietnamese folk or chinese pop.. but i like also finnish bands like apocalyptica, him, nightwish, etc.. i dont push myself in just one direction or genre of music..

when i am not at work , i am here or practicing martial arts and streetstyle ( thats dancing like in the us movie "You got served" ) i am not that good already ^^

well why dont i have a girlfriend.. its easy .. 1st less time, 2nd i prefer east european girls or asian.. .. german girls are boring to me .. they often dont understand my love to asia.. and well i just find them boring and most of them act like eehm i dont have any english word for this .. in german i would say Tussi.. its an overdressed horrible girl wich behaves like she is the queen of the world .. everything must belongto her she is the best the beauties.. well that sucks on girls..

so i decided to be alone for some a while.. if any other girl knocks on my door .. i would have a look ^^ but they must accept that i leave my country

well i think i wrot enough for the first

...so ladym its your turn :lol


Well since u saw me is not important to tell u how i look....I have 173cm..i study martial arts my self..i don't have any job yet but i will as soon as i leave my country..i did'n date to much because i my self like asian men and europen but not the one from my country :P
They don't understand why i refuse to dress like all the other girls(i love to dress more like a boy)the pic u saw is the only time i try it...i love jeans and a shirt or sweater ..i fill more sexy like that :P :mrgreen: plus they r very rude too..
I love to travel ...see new places ... But what i wish the most is to became a actrice.. :w00t:

I don't know what to tell u any more... :mrgreen: :D :lol
well your clothing style is good, why shouldnt women wear jeans and stuff ^^
any plans wich country you want to move?
actress? well do me a favour and dont do that in france ^^ its horrible there .. all those noseup girls .. ^^
Yapp!!!! First L.A......then Japan ....Korea....China....
and i don't like france peuple..they named us romanian gypsis and beggars so i realy don't like them.. :P

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 22:30
by Jin-Ha
LA :blink ii dun like USA ^^
stay in seoul :lol

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 22:44
by ladym
Jin-Ha wrote:LA :blink ii dun like USA ^^
stay in seoul :lol

i love L.A.....specily that there i see my future :lol :D

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 23:32
by Cloud James Lionheart
wow ureshi! ^_^ im really happy that we actually got people here.. hmm well you never know hopefully we can find our own densha man, im kinda stuck in a problem myself, well theres a girl at college,shes really pretty and looks kind , but i dont really have the courage to talk to her, the thing is when i first went college she was alone and i had my chance but never took it =[ now when i see her with her frends/class mates its really hard for me to talk to her =[ its weird because i have had experience on approaching from my previous girlfrends, but i somehow stutter to get anywhere near her... does any one have any advice.. i really need it... i dont really want to lose another chance, so if it does pop up i need advice so my chance doesnt fade away..

oli aka oriba-kun

Posted: Sep 25th, '05, 23:56
by Jin-Ha
ladym wrote:
Jin-Ha wrote:LA :blink ii dun like USA ^^
stay in seoul :lol

i love L.A.....specily that there i see my future :lol :D
:crazy: f**ing hollywood with their horrible remakes of japanese horror movies like ringu or the newest one Dark Water

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:04
by BokuWaShinigami
PUHAHAHAHAHA why am I not surprised to see a thread like this here? =D Whoo hoo for Densha Otoko! XD :lol

Ah yes - and here comes the American bashing. ^^;; I'm American yes - but I see why people would be so mad at Hollywood yah. =) Other than a few things, I'd say the US is a pretty pleasant place to be! <3

Oh and to oriba-kun - I'm not very good with situations like the predicament you seem to be in, but hmmmm.....try practicing what you're going to say to her to try to minimize the stuttering.... Ohhhhhh...I'm no good at this. =(

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:04
by ladym
Jin-Ha wrote:
ladym wrote:
Jin-Ha wrote:LA :blink ii dun like USA ^^
stay in seoul :lol

i love L.A.....specily that there i see my future :lol :D
:crazy: f**ing hollywood with their horrible remakes of japanese horror movies like ringu or the newest one Dark Water
:P unfortunately..yap :P :blink but i can't play in japonese movie because i'm not japonese first of all and i don't know japonese....
unfortunately my great great grandparents were greeks from my mam part and amerindian from my dad part so i'm a mixt my self :mrgreen:
I wish to fill my land

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:14
by Cloud James Lionheart
lol funny enough i tryed doing that with my freind, and somehow it stayed in utter silance after 3 mins, hmm i seriously wish things could work out....
well thanks for the advice, maybe i should practice on my pillow :cry: ahh damn it, thats kinda stooping to a new low, lol, well like they say practise makes perfect. i hope none of my family will catch me chatting to my pillow, theyd probably send me to a mental institute haha :P does anyone else have advice?

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:21
by kendrew
Cloud James Lionheart wrote:wow ureshi! ^_^ im really happy that we actually got people here.. hmm well you never know hopefully we can find our own densha man, im kinda stuck in a problem myself, well theres a girl at college,shes really pretty and looks kind , but i dont really have the courage to talk to her, the thing is when i first went college she was alone and i had my chance but never took it =[ now when i see her with her frends/class mates its really hard for me to talk to her =[ its weird because i have had experience on approaching from my previous girlfrends, but i somehow stutter to get anywhere near her... does any one have any advice.. i really need it... i dont really want to lose another chance, so if it does pop up i need advice so my chance doesnt fade away..

oli aka oriba-kun
do something soon... dunno man dont take advice from crazy internet people that wish to be Densha.

Haha yay I found this thread... more and more people are going to be coming soon, watch lol, its soo gonna be like densha. post up ur problems!!! like this dude.... haha :)

btw, im kendrew (real name - odd isnt it? ken+drew=kendrew). I'm 189 cm, chinese (tall for chinese man...) and I live in Toronto, canada, born there too, but I have dual citizen for hk. im obsessed with drama, seriously my computer is probably downloading non-stop, densha my favourite so far, oh yeah im uhh 16? almost 17, at the end of October (october 27th to be exact yay!) :) yes thats about it for me.... single all my life, never had gf... sigh... but then again ive never tried... lol

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:23
by ladym
Cloud James Lionheart wrote:lol funny enough i tryed doing that with my freind, and somehow it stayed in utter silance after 3 mins, hmm i seriously wish things could work out....
well thanks for the advice, maybe i should practice on my pillow :cry: ahh damn it, thats kinda stooping to a new low, lol, well like they say practise makes perfect. i hope none of my family will catch me chatting to my pillow, theyd probably send me to a mental institute haha :P does anyone else have advice?

First of all what r her reaction when she seeis u?
If she is looking with long gasse to u that means that she like 's u too..so u shoud have more courage...and plus what could happen 8) just go for it man 8) ...we girls like when a guy is shay (i dont know if is corect) :D :lol :mrgreen:

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:28
by Cloud James Lionheart
hey thanks for the reply, well i wish i could do something with that girl but i dont know what to do.. =[ yea im 16 soon going to be 17 next year..soo far away, ur very tall though. dont worry you'll find a girl soon, theres always someone somewhere , you just have to look. *sigh* im going to see her at college on tues.. owh man that sucks, i dont think ill be able to talk to her ... =[

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:28
by kendrew
lol guys really worry about what happens if they get rejected...

we wish the girl would come up to us.. basically... sigh.....

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:29
by P0KEY
if you want to chat, we have an IRC channel =)

it`s lots of fun =3


btw, girls are also afraid of rejection.. i like it better if the guy approached me, because it shows that they`re not shy, and aren`t afraid to go for what they want.

btw, i live in LA... reading your comments was very amusing to me :lol

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:35
by Cloud James Lionheart
yea i know... being rejected hurts alot... thats why i dont wanna mess this up... ive been rejected before.. adn it isnt the best feeling in the world..owh man i hope it doesnt happen to me again. =[

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:39
by Cloud James Lionheart
hi pokey whats the irc channel website? well your right about girls not liking rejection, but if you think abotu it if the boy does make the first move, which does usually happen, doesnt that mean he does have a big chance of getting rejected? and well theres alot of boys who are different in all way... someone who doesnt approach the girl can also be a really great person right?

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:42
by blueballoon
I've been reading the thread and I think it was an awesome idea. About your problem, I'm sure if you're a nice guy about it she won't reject you. If she does, then you should forget it because she's probably not a very nice person. Good luck :).

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:46
by Cloud James Lionheart
thank you :-) your right hehe but i still havnt talked to her at all.. let alone a hi.... :-( i seriously dont know what to say, i dont wanna ruin the chance if i get one.. any ideas?

oriba-kun aka oli

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:47
by Lipsofpoison
You know, from what I have seen, practice doesn't always work out, and you will wind up saying things that you didn't practice, and that's when you may have worse problems. It's always best to just be yourself without any speechs involved. Girls like it when guys approach them. What sucks on my part is that I have had guys like me without telling me until I was with someone in the future. I felt terrible because I never knew. It's always nice to know that there is someone who cares. Don't come on too strong and you probably wont get rejected. You might even make a friend and then once you get to know each other, more than that. It is important though that you remain attentive to her as well. It could benefit you in the future. ^_^ Well, that's my piece. I hope it works out for you. Now you just need to build up your courage. You have my support backing you up, now you just need to believe in yourself and not be so nervous.

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 00:51
by Cloud James Lionheart
arigatou, thank you for your advice and for backing me up. it really means alot to me thank you again :-) does anyone else have advice?

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 01:40
by equang
Maybe you should play on your shyness with her? Be the adorable shy kid :D Or be honest and joke (or something) about how you're only this shy with her. I have trouble talking to girls seriously myself D: I'm always afraid that I'm pushing too much of myself on them, or that they don't like it and I'm oblivious. I'm always worried about making her uncomfortable.

~Denwa

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 01:51
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
Cloud James Lionheart wrote:lol funny enough i tryed doing that with my freind, and somehow it stayed in utter silance after 3 mins, hmm i seriously wish things could work out....
well thanks for the advice, maybe i should practice on my pillow :cry: ahh damn it, thats kinda stooping to a new low, lol, well like they say practise makes perfect. i hope none of my family will catch me chatting to my pillow, theyd probably send me to a mental institute haha :P does anyone else have advice?

first of all the practice ur talkin about doesnt do anything.. lol i hate to say... practicing on a pillow does nothing cause its not talking back to u and not giving any facial expressions the best way to learn is through failure... might as well get rejected.. and build up courage to ask the next one that comes a long.. thats how i learnd...
i got rejected only once in my life cause well it was teh first time.. and i was really joking around cause a friend dared me too.... and i think she found out i unno.. but u know when u get that burning feeling in ur body and u cant stop smiling... and u dont know wut to say but u try to say sumtin anyways... and ur body gets really itchy kinda like.. omg... i got that twice.. after that it went away for the next girls i asked out.. it was kinda normal after that...

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 02:02
by lupus
Hey,
I wonder, where do people meet other people except for bars and/or clubs? If you're not in school you probably meet other people when you're at work or something. Hmh, I don't know.
At least I don't have to worry about that yet, I'm still going to school.
Honestly, apart from my mother, some chick at the store and a teacher, I haven't spoken to a female IRL for about 2 years. There are almost no females at school, especially in my classes. Well, doesn't matter, there are not any good enough reasons for someone like me to speak to them. :P

Cloud James Lionheart, sorry I can't help you, I have no experience at all. The only thing I can come up with is to simply tell her, but I guess that's not really a smooth way of dealing with it.

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 02:28
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
lupus wrote:Hey,
I wonder, where do people meet other people except for bars and/or clubs? If you're not in school you probably meet other people when you're at work or something. Hmh, I don't know.
At least I don't have to worry about that yet, I'm still going to school.
Honestly, apart from my mother, some chick at the store and a teacher, I haven't spoken to a female IRL for about 2 years. There are almost no females at school, especially in my classes. Well, doesn't matter, there are not any good enough reasons for someone like me to speak to them. :P

Cloud James Lionheart, sorry I can't help you, I have no experience at all. The only thing I can come up with is to simply tell her, but I guess that's not really a smooth way of dealing with it.

hrmm u can randomly meet people on campus? are u talking bout highschool or college? cause if its college... lots of possibilities... to meet girls.. u jsut gotta have the guts to approach them and also be within ur league... know the certain groups in ur school :P

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 02:32
by lupus
I'm not in college, eah. But I guess there are possibilities anyways... other people seem to handle it. All I need is courage I guess, and a person. :D

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 02:54
by equang
Lupus:
You're young so don't feel bad about it, you know? Half the people I know haven't dated at all yet and most of them are freshmen in college now. For now, let it come naturally. Or you need to put yourself in the company of women. Maybe try a new class that has girls in it? Or, to build your confidence, when you go to stores, if the cashier/floor person is female, ask her how her day was or her weekend, inane little questions, like "This is some weather we're having, huh?" And always be polite! I find that often makes a bigger impression on women (especially older ones). People who are polite stick out a lot these days, well, at least here in America (we are not all pigs, I promise). Well, anyway, get used to talking to girls that way :D

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 03:07
by muss69
I see girls try to approach me, but when I pick up courage and make a move, they ran away? Errr….i really don’t understand girls? I thought a guy should make the first move but I guess I’m no good at that… :unsure:

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 03:17
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
equang wrote:Lupus:
You're young so don't feel bad about it, you know? Half the people I know haven't dated at all yet and most of them are freshmen in college now. For now, let it come naturally. Or you need to put yourself in the company of women. Maybe try a new class that has girls in it? Or, to build your confidence, when you go to stores, if the cashier/floor person is female, ask her how her day was or her weekend, inane little questions, like "This is some weather we're having, huh?" And always be polite! I find that often makes a bigger impression on women (especially older ones). People who are polite stick out a lot these days, well, at least here in America (we are not all pigs, I promise). Well, anyway, get used to talking to girls that way :D


hrmmm how old are you? i have only heard the term "How's the weather today" when older men pick up older woman... its not sumtin a younger gen guy should use... sumtin along the lines of.. "hey wuts up, how was ur day" is sumtin usualy used today... and or... talk bout sumtin that happened in class... like asking "oh hey, do u happen to have "name of teacher" in your class? wut u think of him/her" is sumtin to use in school bring up good convo :P

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 03:40
by blueballoon
How about "accidentally" bumping into her a couple of times? After a while she'll notice you and you can finally talk to her saying how you guys always bump into eachother? I sounded cooler in my head. :-(

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 03:48
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
blueballoon wrote:How about "accidentally" bumping into her a couple of times? After a while she'll notice you and you can finally talk to her saying how you guys always bump into eachother? I sounded cooler in my head. :-(

hrm.. if u do that shes gunna think ur a stalker or sumtin or sumone really weird... cause everyone knows the difference between purposly bumping and accidental.. lol the facial expression is different.. and body movement.. its different especially the impact.. lol trust me on that one.. sum girls back in highschool who used to have crush's on me did that.. lol it was kinda obviouse so i just brushed it off...

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 03:49
by P0KEY
Cloud James Lionheart wrote:hi pokey whats the irc channel website? well your right about girls not liking rejection, but if you think abotu it if the boy does make the first move, which does usually happen, doesnt that mean he does have a big chance of getting rejected? and well theres alot of boys who are different in all way... someone who doesnt approach the girl can also be a really great person right?
the channel is #d-addicts @ irc.rizon.net

=)

and even if he gets rejected, he can still hold his head up high. then i would respect him.

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 03:56
by equang
I'm only 18 XD I don't actually use that line when I'm picking someone up... only when I'm making conversation, you know? I only suggested it in the case that he tried that approach and couldn't think of anything to say! There's nothing worse than putting yourself into someone else's bubble and then being awkward about it.
How about "accidentally" bumping into her a couple of times?
If you approach her, even for this, approach from where she can see you coming! Or else it might look like you are stalking her, to come out of nowhere so suddenly. But that is a good technique. Another one you could try is everytime you see her, as in are passing each other, say hi like you know each other and keep going. After a while of doing this, she'll eventually approach you trying to figure out how she's supposed to know you.

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 04:02
by GTOnizuka
cloud,
I would say in your scenario Id just go with the flow. dont think. If you think too much you hesitate. That always happens in my situation. I look at a girl and think I m gonna talk to her. then I think of the consequences and hesistate and lose my chance. So I just go and dont think.

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 04:40
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
equang wrote:Another one you could try is everytime you see her, as in are passing each other, say hi like you know each other and keep going. After a while of doing this, she'll eventually approach you trying to figure out how she's supposed to know you.

hrm... ur approach is right but saying hi.. just makes u seem like ur desperate to get her attention... best way to do it when passing by.. is just to make eye contact and give a short smile.. not too long or she'll think ur a weirdo and not to quick or she'll think ur a weirdo too.. give a smile.. and while smiling look away...and thenafter u pass her u can stop.... that usually catch's their attention u just gotta know how to play it cool..


P.S. dont use a smile where u show teeth.. its kinda creepy if u smile like that to a stranger just a simple closed mouth smile.. works.. :D = no :)= yes

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 04:43
by Dodbos
GTOnizuka wrote:cloud,
I would say in your scenario Id just go with the flow. dont think. If you think too much you hesitate. That always happens in my situation. I look at a girl and think I m gonna talk to her. then I think of the consequences and hesistate and lose my chance. So I just go and dont think.
I've been in those situations, but some people can't just go with the flow. sometimes if you don't think about what you'd do or say then you just might blank out and create an uncomfortable situation. but then again going with the flow works for some. i guess the only way to know is to try it.

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 04:50
by (-Oni-Kazuki-)
Dodbos wrote:
GTOnizuka wrote:cloud,
I would say in your scenario Id just go with the flow. dont think. If you think too much you hesitate. That always happens in my situation. I look at a girl and think I m gonna talk to her. then I think of the consequences and hesistate and lose my chance. So I just go and dont think.
I've been in those situations, but some people can't just go with the flow. sometimes if you don't think about what you'd do or say then you just might blank out and create an uncomfortable situation. but then again going with the flow works for some. i guess the only way to know is to try it.


finally sumone who gets the idea.. lol i agree wit this guy... u never know until u try :D

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 09:28
by Cloud James Lionheart
hey cloud here, i wanna really say thank you for everyone putting there thoughts up and advices, really made me smile =] i think after i read all these posts, all i have to do is build up my courage to talk to her.. but i think thats a really hard thing to do.. im going to see her at college on wednesday.. owh man =[

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 18:26
by Cloud James Lionheart
hey how is everyone here?

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 18:30
by ladym
Cloud James Lionheart wrote:hey how is everyone here?
Well for now is quiet ....did u met her today at school? :P

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 18:37
by Cloud James Lionheart
nope, i didnt have college today, wish i did though, so i could try every1s advice, hehe but i will be seeing her at college on wednesday... im pretty nervous...=[

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 18:40
by steven1973sg
Maybe we should all add each other on MSN or something then we can chat easier :-)

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 18:42
by ladym
steven1973sg wrote:Maybe we should all add each other on MSN or something then we can chat easier :-)
hey that a great idee ...how?

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 19:04
by kendrew
but if we all add each other on MSN, htis thread would dieee.... and no more input from other random people


the smile thing sounds cool... and its actually what i do ><"

Posted: Sep 26th, '05, 20:35
by equang
I don't have an MSN account :\ AIM?