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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:27

But you guys are making it sound like a date.
A walk together? That sounds kinda romantic.
Thats what I'm thinking, you want to hold off on that first, why not ask her for her e-mail address or something, that way you can talk to her and if you dont like her then stop :D

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:27

no dont worry a walking is completly fine, trust me, are you telling me you would be more comfortable with her sitting next to you for and hour or so...? when you walk things happen, and you can compliment and talk about things around you am i right?

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:28

Valid point again :D But you want to take it a bit slower, suss out the situation first :-)

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:30

having a walk is the better way to know her... Maybe, you'll see that she's really the girl of your dreams... Or not. You know what I mean?

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:30

i know, why dont you ask her to go somewhere to eat, but no fancy restaurants, something like mc.d's like you said you know 2 malls right? well theres gt to be a good fast food place around there, and it wont sound awkward because everyone has to eat sometime

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:30

I still think that can be done a better way though, Im still sticking with the "get her e-mail"

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:31

yea actually im with Gib, walking is the best way to get to know someone, looks like ill be doing the same tomorrow, gambatte neh mina!!! hehe everyone has given me courage, arigatou gouzaimasu!!

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:31

i know, why dont you ask her to go somewhere to eat, but no fancy restaurants, something like mc.d's like you said you know 2 malls right? well theres gt to be a good fast food place around there, and it wont sound awkward because everyone has to eat sometime
Yeah, and if worst comes to worst and you dont like her then concentrate on your big mac instead :lol

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:32

but you can get her email whilst you are walking and getting to know her, hmm lets wait to see how dspr feels about our ideas.
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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:33

Yeah lol, were kind of just spouting off ideas :D

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:33

Ramen89 wrote:I still think that can be done a better way though, Im still sticking with the "get her e-mail"
yep, good idea!! It's a good way to start knowing each other!!

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:34

Because that way you dont really feel uncomfortable, and when you meet her you'll have a rapour with her from the e-mail conversations

(I cant believe Im giving advice even though im completely hopeless with this kind of stuff myself :D)

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Post by equang » Sep 28th, '05, 21:35

Maybe find a nice open cafe that you can 'accidentally' wander over to while you window shop and sit down with a couple of coffees/teas? You can talk for hours that way :D

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:35

hmm wait wait wait! if we combine our ideas, why doesnt he walk to the mall or something, whilst getting to know her, then ask if she wants to eat, and you'll be doing well, just be polite and nice and youll get anywhere in life.

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:36

Cloud James Lionheart wrote:yea actually im with Gib, walking is the best way to get to know someone, looks like ill be doing the same tomorrow, gambatte neh mina!!! hehe everyone has given me courage, arigatou gouzaimasu!!
You're welcome :lol All right, maybe I have to cheer me up too and concentrate on living... Love... I miss it !! Yooooosh !!! I'm on it XD

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:37

just be polite and nice and youll get anywhere in life.
Yep good advice

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:38

Hum... dspr isn't here anymore? :-(

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:38

YOOOSH!! Love is in the air and we just have to find it and take a DEEP breath, everyone try there best to find it! YOSH im prepared for tomorrow!!! :D arigatou mina!!!

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:38

Doesnt look like it :cry:

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:39

im prepared for tomorrow!!!
Good luck with that by the way :-) 8)

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Post by dspR » Sep 28th, '05, 21:39

I should try looking for places, but I can't just jump in and ask her to hang out somewhere without knowing her well.
I knew people for months and I've never really hung out with them anywhere.
Maybe it's better to talk to her during school? I mean, it's the first place we go to in the morning and the place we go to the most.
Going somewhere would be my next step..

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:40

Cloud James Lionheart wrote:YOOOSH!! Love is in the air and we just have to find it and take a DEEP breath, everyone try there best to find it! YOSH im prepared for tomorrow!!! :D arigatou mina!!!
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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:40

Then I would suggest asking for her e-mail address, talk to her a bit then ask her

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:41

owh yea.. looks like all of us got a head of ourselves, hmm well talk to her at school, see how it goes, dont worry were all cheering you on! hehe =]

cloud-kun

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:42

dspR wrote:I should try looking for places, but I can't just jump in and ask her to hang out somewhere without knowing her well.
I knew people for months and I've never really hung out with them anywhere.
Maybe it's better to talk to her during school? I mean, it's the first place we go to in the morning and the place we go to the most.
Going somewhere would be my next step..
Hum... well, in school, it's not a very good place... I mean, there are her friends, etc... And It's a little bit stressing for her... You know what I mean?

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:42

owh yea.. looks like all of us got a head of ourselves, hmm well talk to her at school, see how it goes, dont worry were all cheering you on! hehe =]
Yeah we got excited :lol

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:43

Hum... well, in school, it's not a very good place... I mean, there are her friends, etc... And It's a little bit stressing for her... You know what I mean?
Yeah but where else is he going to do it, thats the thing.

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:43

not really, if your lucky as i hope i will be, she'll be alone! finger cross everyone ^_^

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Post by dspR » Sep 28th, '05, 21:44

All this tomorrow, but we're going beyond the steps that are closest to me.
I just want to attempt to be friends with her tomorrow, then maybe all the steps will come together the next week or maybe the weekend?
But right now I have to somehow know what to speak to her about.
Should I just ask people she knows or just say something random.
I can't talk about environmental science or Japanese class all day with her.
It has to be different. I'm not good at starting conversations and continuing them either.
As you read from my previous posts.
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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:45

yep.. I see... but friends can be very dangerous... :-(

All right, just ask for her mail. But, try to find a good reason for it... Ask her her mail maybe for work etc...

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:45

Good point, hmm *thinking*

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:45

finger cross XD

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Post by dspR » Sep 28th, '05, 21:46

I would look kind of strange asking for her e-mail.
Nobody asks for e-mail in my school.

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:47

Yeah good point actually, well im stumped as to what you should talk to her about, anyone have any ideas?

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:47

ok dpsr!!! Just tell her about what you like, but no "otaku-like" conversation... Maybe she'll like the same things... It would be easier to talk.

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:47

Yeah, you dont want to scare her off

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:48

yup email is good. i agree, but one thing, if you are really good talking about things on net, dont be different in person, okai? hmm maybe i should do the same thing?

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:49

Defenetly you should Cloud-kun!
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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:49

Yep you should, I think its the best way for everyone really, you just have to be yourself on the e-mails.

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:49

yea, like i have been told a hundred times and now it will be said to you, "BE YOUSELF" :P

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:50

Lol

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Post by dspR » Sep 28th, '05, 21:51

What I like..
I can somewhat figure that out.

Television, but mostly shows that would bore most of the teenage population. (Ex: Discovery Channel, History Channel) If I talk about Adult Swim, it would reveal my otaku. I think she already knows my otaku. I remember my friend who moved asking for help on anime and I put a huge list and she put in like one or two.
Video games.
Music, but I don't know a lot of rock bands. Most of it is Asian music or soundtrack music that would interest a good population of the otakus like me.

I think I have more, but I don't know if I do.

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:51

The best way to make someone feel uneasy is to try to act differently

Ho! Maybe who wanna see me in photo?
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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:52

Lol you sound exactly like me

Are you still single? :D

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Post by dspR » Sep 28th, '05, 21:53

Act differently.
I posted about that previously.
I either got sick of it or I didn't want to keep updated with things I didn't really like.

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:53

dspR wrote:What I like..
I can somewhat figure that out.

Television, but mostly shows that would bore most of the teenage population. (Ex: Discovery Channel, History Channel) If I talk about Adult Swim, it would reveal my otaku. I think she already knows my otaku. I remember my friend who moved asking for help on anime and I put a huge list and she put in like one or two.
Video games.
Music, but I don't know a lot of rock bands. Most of it is Asian music or soundtrack music that would interest a good population of the otakus like me.

I think I have more, but I don't know if I do.
Ok... so... Try to talk to her about the news? Hum... the point it's to find a good way to start chatting... You'll be more confident after the first 10 mn.

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:54

Ramen89 wrote:Lol you sound exactly like me

Are you still single? :D
You're talking to me?

If so yep, I'am.

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:54

Yeah current affairs possible, or if your in a class and the teacher says something, comment about what he/she said, crack a joke, it should break the ice

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:55

good idea ramen-kun!! :lol

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:55

You're talking to me?

If so yep, I'am.
Jeez how!

I feel so inadequate, everyone is so attractive apart from me :D

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:57

Hum... As you could understand, I don't find myself attractive... Like everyone here I suppose...

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 21:57

well everyones seen my picture, you pictures really nice gib =] hehe and dspr, asian music is kool, dont worry. but if you get into a conversation use things like, how was class, hows school, and maybe if she stumbles into somethihng you like youll have a good convo, but if she likes anime dont open up to much yea ;) hehe thats my advice

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Post by dspR » Sep 28th, '05, 21:58

Current affairs? A person like her wouldn't be that interested in current affairs.
Even though I'm sort of into that, I think she's interested in other things.

About the commenting about what the teacher said, she talks to this other guy in class that sits behind her.

[first
seat ] [seat]

[ her ] [seat]

[other [seat]
guy]

[seat] [me t.t]

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 21:58

Hum... As you could understand, I don't find myself attractive... Like everyone here I suppose...
Well you must be crazy thats all I'm saying, and believe me my inadequacy towards myself isnt just what I think :D You can see it in my track record of Girlfriends - 0 lol

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 21:59

I got 2 boyfriend... Only... I'm too shy, and I'm too... scared to be so sad again... yeah... Difficult for me too.

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 22:00

[first
seat ] [seat]

[ her ] [seat]

[other [seat]
guy]

[seat] [me t.t]
Well thats quite difficult I guess, maybe before/after class?

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 22:01

Difficult for me too.
Thats why were here I guess. :-)

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 22:01

Just tekken punch the other guy :stress:

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 22:02

Heh, better yet hadouken him out of his seat and sit there!

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Post by Cloud James Lionheart » Sep 28th, '05, 22:02

that alright, it doesnt matter where you sit, but all i can say right now is gambatte!! and have faith in yourself, everyone else is rooting for you, dont worry. we'll be able to support you if anything happens, thats why were here =] well gib,mike,dspr and everyone else, thanks for everthing, but cloud has to get some sleep so he doesnt have big eye bags for college tomorrow, take care everyone, and thanks for making this thread a freindly, fun, place to be in.. just slow down on the messages, or we get a little messed up,confused and lost lol

peace

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 22:03

Ok guys: just tell me something; what do you wanna do with those girls? Having sex or felling love?

You'll probably think that I'm to rude, but I don't really believe guys who say that they love me...

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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 22:04

Lol too right, Im afraid I must also go to sleep because I'm knackered, I wish everyone the best, tomorow Im going to attempt to job hunt more and I'll report back

Nighty night!

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Post by dspR » Sep 28th, '05, 22:04

Hmm..
Before my environmental science class:
She does stand in the hallway and leans on the wall.
Most of the time quiet and kinda alone.
After class:
I leave first most of the time, but her shoes are distinguishable from the crowd.
Her shoes make the heel sounds, even though they have like short circle-ish heels on them.
I always turn and see that it is her with those shoes on.
She takes the same route from a long hall, to a turn right, to a turn left, up a staircase, then we separate at the 2nd floor. Left to right.

Before Japanese class:
She comes in a couple seconds before the bell rings.
While I'm waiting for the door to open or I'm sitting in my chair waiting.
After:
She sits in the opposite side of the classroom and takes the other door.
Sometimes she walks out before me or after if the bell rings suddenly.
We walk the same long hall and then separate left to right.

However, she sits behind me in Japanese class.
Before the bell rings, she goes to the other side of the classroom where the 2nd door is.
My teacher usually pair us into groups.
Our first group assignment, I worked with her, but bored her because I was so quiet.
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Post by Ramen89 » Sep 28th, '05, 22:05

Thats the opening right there then, good luck!!!

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 22:07

Ho ho... midnight here... Better sleep... have faith Dspr!!!!! We are all with you!!! Hoyasumi nasai!!

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Post by dspR » Sep 28th, '05, 22:09

To correct you. Oyasumi nasai. Konbanwa.
Thanks for some of your help, but I will try to find my way around into starting a conversation with her tomorrow.

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Post by teknikalshiznitz » Sep 28th, '05, 22:10

i just registered just cuz i saw this thread

but im confused....so she sits where in japanese class?

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Post by gibonite » Sep 28th, '05, 22:10

oops! :P Ok just tell us toomorrow ok? gambatte!

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Post by Mythrel » Sep 28th, '05, 22:14

I like some of the suggestions I've seen but I mean don't force yourself to be something you are not. What do you plan on saying when you talk to her tomorrow? Are you gonna go in alone? with a friend? gonna ask her out or just gonna spring a conversation? Does your school have dances? events that might be fun for two people to go to? I'd say start off slow and just see where it goes. You seem to have a warriors spirit so go down fighting :lol who knows maybe you guys might even have a mutal friend, fight have grown up around each other. Good luck with things tomorrow and if its ment to be its ment to be.

Poor gibonite, Even I was naive growing up and still am pretty naive today. I don't like to believe men can be users because I myself could never do that to someone. I did stop seeing a girl like 5 years ago before it could come to that point. There are men and if you read ''letting someone go... easy?'' you would see that she did end up becoming used by a bunch of guys. Right now I am searching for someone who I can truely love. I never say I love you to someone unless I mean it, not everyone does though. I guess the way you can tell is how they act when they are with you and act towards you. If someone is using you for meat they might act for the moment to care till they get what they want. Just keep seeing them and not putting yourself in those bad situations and the people who really love you will be there for you will not pressure you to have sex. The ones that really don't love you will get bored and leave before you ever get hurt.
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Post by teknikalshiznitz » Sep 28th, '05, 22:17

YOU CAN DO IT!!!

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Post by dspR » Sep 28th, '05, 22:18

She sits behind me in Japanese class.

I don't know what to say tomorrow. I don't know what her interests are.
I think I'll stick with a friend she knows or used to know. I hope that makes her come towards us.
Asking her out is too much for me. I've never been on a date before. A conversation would be nice.
My school has dances. The only thing that's big is a junior prom.
I don't know about events for two people.

We're not having classes tomorrow because it's some break for us juniors and seniors for one day.
I think we go to the auditorium, then go around for a bit.
We get lectures that we don't have to know learn about, but I guess I have to find out where she will go to.
The only thing I'm worried about is her friends and my words I should say to her.

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Post by teknikalshiznitz » Sep 28th, '05, 22:22

well...you can just talk about the weather...talking about that is always a good way to start a conversation

but whatever you do....DON'T COMPLIMENT ANYTHING ABOUT HER...that just is not a good thing at all

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Post by dspR » Sep 28th, '05, 22:29

Even though I think that's an okay suggestion, do you see people talking about weather that is fine outside?
Other than talking about hurricanes or "Holy crap, it's raining hard outside."

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Post by teknikalshiznitz » Sep 28th, '05, 22:32

im sad to say....but i am one of those people that start conversations with the weather....especially when its a nice day...cuz here in the sf bay area....it is such a freaking cold day with fog almost every day....but right now...its our time to have summer instead of fall

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Post by EternalCalamari » Sep 28th, '05, 23:17

just do it the japanese way (while youre at it in japanese class ;)

kyou wa atsui da ne....
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