Thats what I'm thinking, you want to hold off on that first, why not ask her for her e-mail address or something, that way you can talk to her and if you dont like her then stopBut you guys are making it sound like a date.
A walk together? That sounds kinda romantic.
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Yeah, and if worst comes to worst and you dont like her then concentrate on your big mac insteadi know, why dont you ask her to go somewhere to eat, but no fancy restaurants, something like mc.d's like you said you know 2 malls right? well theres gt to be a good fast food place around there, and it wont sound awkward because everyone has to eat sometime
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but you can get her email whilst you are walking and getting to know her, hmm lets wait to see how dspr feels about our ideas.
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You're welcome All right, maybe I have to cheer me up too and concentrate on living... Love... I miss it !! Yooooosh !!! I'm on itCloud James Lionheart wrote:yea actually im with Gib, walking is the best way to get to know someone, looks like ill be doing the same tomorrow, gambatte neh mina!!! hehe everyone has given me courage, arigatou gouzaimasu!!
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I should try looking for places, but I can't just jump in and ask her to hang out somewhere without knowing her well.
I knew people for months and I've never really hung out with them anywhere.
Maybe it's better to talk to her during school? I mean, it's the first place we go to in the morning and the place we go to the most.
Going somewhere would be my next step..
I knew people for months and I've never really hung out with them anywhere.
Maybe it's better to talk to her during school? I mean, it's the first place we go to in the morning and the place we go to the most.
Going somewhere would be my next step..
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Hum... well, in school, it's not a very good place... I mean, there are her friends, etc... And It's a little bit stressing for her... You know what I mean?dspR wrote:I should try looking for places, but I can't just jump in and ask her to hang out somewhere without knowing her well.
I knew people for months and I've never really hung out with them anywhere.
Maybe it's better to talk to her during school? I mean, it's the first place we go to in the morning and the place we go to the most.
Going somewhere would be my next step..
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All this tomorrow, but we're going beyond the steps that are closest to me.
I just want to attempt to be friends with her tomorrow, then maybe all the steps will come together the next week or maybe the weekend?
But right now I have to somehow know what to speak to her about.
Should I just ask people she knows or just say something random.
I can't talk about environmental science or Japanese class all day with her.
It has to be different. I'm not good at starting conversations and continuing them either.
As you read from my previous posts.
I just want to attempt to be friends with her tomorrow, then maybe all the steps will come together the next week or maybe the weekend?
But right now I have to somehow know what to speak to her about.
Should I just ask people she knows or just say something random.
I can't talk about environmental science or Japanese class all day with her.
It has to be different. I'm not good at starting conversations and continuing them either.
As you read from my previous posts.
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What I like..
I can somewhat figure that out.
Television, but mostly shows that would bore most of the teenage population. (Ex: Discovery Channel, History Channel) If I talk about Adult Swim, it would reveal my otaku. I think she already knows my otaku. I remember my friend who moved asking for help on anime and I put a huge list and she put in like one or two.
Video games.
Music, but I don't know a lot of rock bands. Most of it is Asian music or soundtrack music that would interest a good population of the otakus like me.
I think I have more, but I don't know if I do.
I can somewhat figure that out.
Television, but mostly shows that would bore most of the teenage population. (Ex: Discovery Channel, History Channel) If I talk about Adult Swim, it would reveal my otaku. I think she already knows my otaku. I remember my friend who moved asking for help on anime and I put a huge list and she put in like one or two.
Video games.
Music, but I don't know a lot of rock bands. Most of it is Asian music or soundtrack music that would interest a good population of the otakus like me.
I think I have more, but I don't know if I do.
Ok... so... Try to talk to her about the news? Hum... the point it's to find a good way to start chatting... You'll be more confident after the first 10 mn.dspR wrote:What I like..
I can somewhat figure that out.
Television, but mostly shows that would bore most of the teenage population. (Ex: Discovery Channel, History Channel) If I talk about Adult Swim, it would reveal my otaku. I think she already knows my otaku. I remember my friend who moved asking for help on anime and I put a huge list and she put in like one or two.
Video games.
Music, but I don't know a lot of rock bands. Most of it is Asian music or soundtrack music that would interest a good population of the otakus like me.
I think I have more, but I don't know if I do.
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well everyones seen my picture, you pictures really nice gib =] hehe and dspr, asian music is kool, dont worry. but if you get into a conversation use things like, how was class, hows school, and maybe if she stumbles into somethihng you like youll have a good convo, but if she likes anime dont open up to much yea ;) hehe thats my advice
Current affairs? A person like her wouldn't be that interested in current affairs.
Even though I'm sort of into that, I think she's interested in other things.
About the commenting about what the teacher said, she talks to this other guy in class that sits behind her.
[first
seat ] [seat]
[ her ] [seat]
[other [seat]
guy]
[seat] [me t.t]
Even though I'm sort of into that, I think she's interested in other things.
About the commenting about what the teacher said, she talks to this other guy in class that sits behind her.
[first
seat ] [seat]
[ her ] [seat]
[other [seat]
guy]
[seat] [me t.t]
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that alright, it doesnt matter where you sit, but all i can say right now is gambatte!! and have faith in yourself, everyone else is rooting for you, dont worry. we'll be able to support you if anything happens, thats why were here =] well gib,mike,dspr and everyone else, thanks for everthing, but cloud has to get some sleep so he doesnt have big eye bags for college tomorrow, take care everyone, and thanks for making this thread a freindly, fun, place to be in.. just slow down on the messages, or we get a little messed up,confused and lost lol
peace
Cloud-kun
peace
Cloud-kun
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Hmm..
Before my environmental science class:
She does stand in the hallway and leans on the wall.
Most of the time quiet and kinda alone.
After class:
I leave first most of the time, but her shoes are distinguishable from the crowd.
Her shoes make the heel sounds, even though they have like short circle-ish heels on them.
I always turn and see that it is her with those shoes on.
She takes the same route from a long hall, to a turn right, to a turn left, up a staircase, then we separate at the 2nd floor. Left to right.
Before Japanese class:
She comes in a couple seconds before the bell rings.
While I'm waiting for the door to open or I'm sitting in my chair waiting.
After:
She sits in the opposite side of the classroom and takes the other door.
Sometimes she walks out before me or after if the bell rings suddenly.
We walk the same long hall and then separate left to right.
However, she sits behind me in Japanese class.
Before the bell rings, she goes to the other side of the classroom where the 2nd door is.
My teacher usually pair us into groups.
Our first group assignment, I worked with her, but bored her because I was so quiet.
Before my environmental science class:
She does stand in the hallway and leans on the wall.
Most of the time quiet and kinda alone.
After class:
I leave first most of the time, but her shoes are distinguishable from the crowd.
Her shoes make the heel sounds, even though they have like short circle-ish heels on them.
I always turn and see that it is her with those shoes on.
She takes the same route from a long hall, to a turn right, to a turn left, up a staircase, then we separate at the 2nd floor. Left to right.
Before Japanese class:
She comes in a couple seconds before the bell rings.
While I'm waiting for the door to open or I'm sitting in my chair waiting.
After:
She sits in the opposite side of the classroom and takes the other door.
Sometimes she walks out before me or after if the bell rings suddenly.
We walk the same long hall and then separate left to right.
However, she sits behind me in Japanese class.
Before the bell rings, she goes to the other side of the classroom where the 2nd door is.
My teacher usually pair us into groups.
Our first group assignment, I worked with her, but bored her because I was so quiet.
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I like some of the suggestions I've seen but I mean don't force yourself to be something you are not. What do you plan on saying when you talk to her tomorrow? Are you gonna go in alone? with a friend? gonna ask her out or just gonna spring a conversation? Does your school have dances? events that might be fun for two people to go to? I'd say start off slow and just see where it goes. You seem to have a warriors spirit so go down fighting who knows maybe you guys might even have a mutal friend, fight have grown up around each other. Good luck with things tomorrow and if its ment to be its ment to be.
Poor gibonite, Even I was naive growing up and still am pretty naive today. I don't like to believe men can be users because I myself could never do that to someone. I did stop seeing a girl like 5 years ago before it could come to that point. There are men and if you read ''letting someone go... easy?'' you would see that she did end up becoming used by a bunch of guys. Right now I am searching for someone who I can truely love. I never say I love you to someone unless I mean it, not everyone does though. I guess the way you can tell is how they act when they are with you and act towards you. If someone is using you for meat they might act for the moment to care till they get what they want. Just keep seeing them and not putting yourself in those bad situations and the people who really love you will be there for you will not pressure you to have sex. The ones that really don't love you will get bored and leave before you ever get hurt.
Poor gibonite, Even I was naive growing up and still am pretty naive today. I don't like to believe men can be users because I myself could never do that to someone. I did stop seeing a girl like 5 years ago before it could come to that point. There are men and if you read ''letting someone go... easy?'' you would see that she did end up becoming used by a bunch of guys. Right now I am searching for someone who I can truely love. I never say I love you to someone unless I mean it, not everyone does though. I guess the way you can tell is how they act when they are with you and act towards you. If someone is using you for meat they might act for the moment to care till they get what they want. Just keep seeing them and not putting yourself in those bad situations and the people who really love you will be there for you will not pressure you to have sex. The ones that really don't love you will get bored and leave before you ever get hurt.
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She sits behind me in Japanese class.
I don't know what to say tomorrow. I don't know what her interests are.
I think I'll stick with a friend she knows or used to know. I hope that makes her come towards us.
Asking her out is too much for me. I've never been on a date before. A conversation would be nice.
My school has dances. The only thing that's big is a junior prom.
I don't know about events for two people.
We're not having classes tomorrow because it's some break for us juniors and seniors for one day.
I think we go to the auditorium, then go around for a bit.
We get lectures that we don't have to know learn about, but I guess I have to find out where she will go to.
The only thing I'm worried about is her friends and my words I should say to her.
I don't know what to say tomorrow. I don't know what her interests are.
I think I'll stick with a friend she knows or used to know. I hope that makes her come towards us.
Asking her out is too much for me. I've never been on a date before. A conversation would be nice.
My school has dances. The only thing that's big is a junior prom.
I don't know about events for two people.
We're not having classes tomorrow because it's some break for us juniors and seniors for one day.
I think we go to the auditorium, then go around for a bit.
We get lectures that we don't have to know learn about, but I guess I have to find out where she will go to.
The only thing I'm worried about is her friends and my words I should say to her.
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