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by Ootori Kyouya
Dec 13th, '08, 18:04
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: My Love Situation...
Replies: 12
Views: 3599

*Sigh*...I wish people here can offer you some better advice to you because that's not going to help you. Those are not advices...it's more of a shallow words of encouragement. Here are some tips you should think over... 1. There is no such thing as Love in first sight - In this era, looks are very ...
by Ootori Kyouya
Dec 9th, '08, 06:50
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: What do you think?
Replies: 4
Views: 1658

Ah, now this is an interesting scenario. Usually, girls hate the fact that their boyfriends are hanging out with other girls and vice versa. The problem seems to be tolerance. Neither of them have it. Plain and simple. As for Tracy, I don't know what she defines as 'friends'...but being together for...
by Ootori Kyouya
Sep 14th, '08, 02:42
Forum: Korean Culture & Entertainment
Topic: .aigoo down!! myaigoo down!! >>(editX2)<<
Replies: 145
Views: 40827

This is bad news...it was actually one of my primary sources of getting k-drama. It's actually a bigger blow for my parents than myself. Does anyone have suggestions to alternative web sites that may provide similar service? If so, feel free to post.
by Ootori Kyouya
Aug 23rd, '08, 07:30
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: Conversation Starters
Replies: 10
Views: 4455

Before I reply, let's get something straight here. Don't tell me what I can and can not do. I call it as I see it. Now, I've done some research on you based on your previous threads which dates back to when you started the whole prom thing. The answer is simple. The reason why you are feeling the wa...
by Ootori Kyouya
Aug 22nd, '08, 20:20
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: Conversation Starters
Replies: 10
Views: 4455

Such a generic answer...

No different from any other answer you would hear or read from a textbook, counselor or a psychologist.
by Ootori Kyouya
Aug 10th, '08, 03:23
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: Conversation Starters
Replies: 10
Views: 4455

Very little information given. How can anyone help you with so little detail? Come back when you provide more information because at this rate, everyone just say BS or crap that has been repeated over and over.
by Ootori Kyouya
Aug 6th, '08, 00:34
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: Relationship = may not be the ultimate form of happiness
Replies: 25
Views: 7441

ah but u can't take responsibility for the happiness of other - beyiond helping where u can! What did I just say on my previous post? I said that the problem is widespread. People I care about is affected by this problem. If you eliminate or solve the problem, then the happiness is restored. It's T...
by Ootori Kyouya
Aug 4th, '08, 20:58
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: Relationship = may not be the ultimate form of happiness
Replies: 25
Views: 7441

I don't turn a blind eye to something that has happen to me. I never forget it. Ever. I remember it not because of revenge, but to make sure to never...ever....make the same mistake again. That's how we get through life....by learning our mistakes and correcting them. Unfortunately, some people make...
by Ootori Kyouya
Aug 1st, '08, 17:45
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: Relationship = may not be the ultimate form of happiness
Replies: 25
Views: 7441

Sorry to say this, but it's none of your concern.
by Ootori Kyouya
Aug 1st, '08, 05:58
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: Relationship = may not be the ultimate form of happiness
Replies: 25
Views: 7441

I know everything based on Christianity since that's what I believe in. However, after what God did to me on a certain day 10+ years ago that changed my life forever, I started lacking faith in him at 2008 since I did everything you listed for 10+ years without questioning him. As a result, nothing ...
by Ootori Kyouya
Jul 31st, '08, 06:16
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: Relationship = may not be the ultimate form of happiness
Replies: 25
Views: 7441

It seems people don't know how to answer a question properly. Only 1 person (mimimi) seems to get to the point. mimimi, thanks for the answer, but the answer itself does not help me. As for katzenjammin's comment on how it affects Maslow's theory, it's very flawed. Why should I see use a chart that ...
by Ootori Kyouya
Jul 31st, '08, 06:00
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: A bittersweet story, depending on which side you're on.
Replies: 2
Views: 1817

I hate to break this to you.. but the relationship was not based on love...it's infatuation. Guys can try to be all romantic by giving gifts, doing impressive things, driving 100 miles to see the girl, etc. At one point, they will think it's enough to do it all at once to sustain a relationship. Tha...
by Ootori Kyouya
Jul 31st, '08, 05:13
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: A Not So Interesting Story
Replies: 10
Views: 2907

I am appalled at what I am hearing from this topic. I'm not going to say something like 'I understand' because no one can fully understand what you are saying. It's impossible. Personal feelings are immeasurable. People can try to relate, but that's as much they can do. As for what you and everyone ...
by Ootori Kyouya
Jun 26th, '08, 21:29
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: Relationship = may not be the ultimate form of happiness
Replies: 25
Views: 7441

Relationship = may not be the ultimate form of happiness

I've been wondering for years on why people want to be in relationships. It can be for a variety reasons. Fear of being alone, wanting kids in the future, financial incentives, or just wanting to be loved and acknowledged. There is no right or wrong answer. But....is it the undisputed form of happin...
by Ootori Kyouya
Jun 8th, '08, 16:18
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: the rules: according to men
Replies: 9
Views: 5027

My goodness...the reasoning for that list is ludicrous. Here is my counter to that stupid moronic list. Men are not mind-readers = that's just a lame excuse saying you haven't been paying attention. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it...
by Ootori Kyouya
May 29th, '08, 04:24
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: How do you know if the other person is playing games?
Replies: 12
Views: 4456

I can offer several tips on how you can tell if a girl is playing games with you. 1. The speed of their speech - When girls tend to play games, they used scripted lines over and over. It's like a habit. It ranges between fast or above normal. The reason why people miss this is because men are blinde...
by Ootori Kyouya
May 28th, '08, 19:13
Forum: Life & Relationships
Topic: The cute girl in your class that you can never talk to...lol
Replies: 24
Views: 8589

Okay, I TOTALLY disagree with some of the guys on this thread. In my personal experience, it's a much better idea to approach a girl you like as a friend first. While you're hanging out with her AS FRIENDS, if you start to feel a mutual connection you can initiate "girlfriend" manuevers. xD I only ...