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groinkLocation: Hawaii Age: 41 Gender: Male |
 Posted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 8:06 pm Post subject: Re: ....wow Post Rating: 0 |
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| angeldaimon wrote: | | Also I don't see a problem with what the writer of this thread said, from what I found |
The problem with the post had nothing to do with marriage, culture or anything of the sort. It is the idea behind posting it in the first place. There's a certain type of person who will walk into a room of people, and then out of the blue start talking about his ailments and the drugs he's taking for it. Or start speaking about how lonely he is, etc.
To come into the Life & Relationships forum and ask questions is one thing. But to just come in and post an announcement about something personal (it isn't even posed as a rhetorical question) is looked upon in the message board circle as strange. Maybe it's just me and that the rest of the Internet has tuned into this Web 2.0 bullsh*t I've yet to conform to. But I still have my inner boundaries regarding:
- what's acceptable on message boards
- what's acceptable on IM and other real-time chat systems
- what's acceptable on blogs
- what's acceptable in email
--- groink
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Puppet Princess Joined: 03 Sep 2006 Total posts: 1379 Location: Hawaii Age: 19 Gender: Female |
| Posted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 8:22 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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Nope, not just you. This thread should have been a blog entry or a personal message to someone the writer knows. Posting in a public forum like this to a bunch of strangers who don't know you and shouldn't care is an obvious attempt at attention.
So, angeldaimon, there really is no point to bring a dead and pointless topic back to life.
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risjennyJoined: 20 Feb 2006 Total posts: 43 Location: Scandinavia Gender: Female |
| Posted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 9:11 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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are you serious??? come on, its the 21st century...!! arranged marriage and stuff belong to 2 generations ago at least...
..you should be able to choose the one you love, not parents to arrange for you.. if you dont love someone from the start, whats the meaning of marrying the someone?
defintion from my side of marriage is to make a bond btw the 2 people, making the love stronger btw people...
well, when you start a discussion about arranged marriage, which is very unsual these days, you can guarantee that someone will critise you..
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ginny_lunallenaJoined: 02 Jul 2007 Total posts: 70 Location: Mekishiko Age: 19 Gender: Female |
| Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 6:17 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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| risjenny wrote: | are you serious??? come on, its the 21st century...!! arranged marriage and stuff belong to 2 generations ago at least...
..you should be able to choose the one you love, not parents to arrange for you.. if you dont love someone from the start, whats the meaning of marrying the someone?
defintion from my side of marriage is to make a bond btw the 2 people, making the love stronger btw people...
well, when you start a discussion about arranged marriage, which is very unsual these days, you can guarantee that someone will critise you.. |
up to her, dontcha think?
but yeah, i'd hate it if my parents chose my bf, that shit isnt their business
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Hitokiri_JohndoesaiJoined: 15 Jul 2007 Total posts: 102 Location: Turkey Age: 28 Gender: Male |
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cutekidJoined: 02 Dec 2006 Total posts: 162 |
| Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 11:55 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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| i thought this thread was long, long, long, long, long, long been dead and was locked by the mod because of some remarks made by the author...
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jholicJoined: 03 Feb 2004 Total posts: 6153 Location: missin' hawaii Gender: Male |
| Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 11:52 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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arranged marriage or not, this thread certainly gave people something to talk about. ten pages worth._________________ Use THUMBS UP/DOWN buttons to KEEP or DELETE posts.
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