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PostPosted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 3:00 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

nikochanr3 wrote:
http://www.d-addicts.com/forum/viewtopic_44141.htm

Read this before you give this moron the time of day. I didn't realize it was THIS person, they just got better at trolling - no race baiting this time. They also strike me as being totally fake, i wouldnt be suprised if they are neither asian nor female.


It baffles me. What do you guys find racist in that thread? It thought it was pretty harmless.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 5:23 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

Nor do I. Its seems as though you can't say anything these days.

"I am asain girl and I prefer to date an asian guy."

"You're a racist!!"


At KFC I prefer the white meat over the dark meat."

"You're a racist!!"


"I am white and I prefer dating asians."

"You're a racist!!"


"I prefer Japanese girls over Chinese girls."

"You're a racist!!"


"I'm not interested in Asian girls. Asian girls are for asian boys. I am European"

"You're a racist!!"

"No no, it's not about discrimination it is about respect. How would you like it if outsiders came in and started taking away your women?"

"You're a racist!!"


"I think black men are sexier than white men."

"You're a racist!!"


"I don't understand what the big deal is. I don't find Hiroko that pretty. She strains to open her eyes so big and I think it's kind of weird."

"You're a racist!!"


"Do you think the reason why the Chinese are so good at ping pong is because of their greater horizontal field of vision? Like they can see the whole length of the net?"

"You're a racist!!"

"No I'm not. I am complimenting them. White people see in regular TV and Chinese see in Letterbox. Everyone knows letterbox is better since you get to see everything."

"You're a racist!!"
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 5:35 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

yamcha wrote:
Nor do I. Its seems as though you can't say anything these days.

Man, I wish that was true... You're still posting.
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 7:04 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

I don't want to get into a discussion with her anymore. As she is not interested in discussions, just tries to get attention.

But i don't think anything in that thread was racist.Disclaimer: I am one of those white boys she does not want to date. It's fine with me. (I'd say 'Lucky me')

Racism is denying a person basic rights based solely on his or her race. If you say: "You have to ride in the back of the bus, black boy". That's racist. But if you are auditioning actors for the part of Othello and you ask only black guys to applyyou are discriminating against Caucasians or women but you are not racist. There are other roles in the play.

The same applies to dating. Dating is not equal opportunity employment. I know white guys with a thing for asian girls, i know chinese guys with a thing for white girls. I know them well and swear they are not racist. Maybe their p*nises are, but that part our body is beyond our control.
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 8:17 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

It is acceptable that you do not wish ot converse with me but what you say is irrelavant. Why would you feel lucky that you are one of those white guys I woudn't date when the fact is I woudn't date a white guy period. It would be the same to me as commiting suicide.

Don't think that I think poorely of the west. I do not, I have great admiration of western insight philoosophy and invention.

The reason why I woudn't date a foreigner is simple, why would I recklessly choose to do something that has no value but instead is harmful to my culture and eventually brings about the extinction of my heritage?

People can call me what they wish. There has always been low culture, and despite how widespread its grasp or efficient its propagation, it is of no great concern, therefore none of those things can injure me, for nobody can implicate me in what is degenerate.
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 1:08 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

Oh will you stop, most likely you are not asian, and a guy, and trying to be funny. You're not racist. You're a troll who wants attention.

Jeez...

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 1:10 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

ad wrote:
nikochanr3 wrote:
http://www.d-addicts.com/forum/viewtopic_44141.htm

Read this before you give this moron the time of day. I didn't realize it was THIS person, they just got better at trolling - no race baiting this time. They also strike me as being totally fake, i wouldnt be suprised if they are neither asian nor female.


It baffles me. What do you guys find racist in that thread? It thought it was pretty harmless.


not racist. she's a troll. she's race baiting, or baiting by being rude. everything is calculated to get a response. its the difference between me posting my response like this, or me saying

WHY DID YOU POST SUCH A STUPID RESPONSE? Tongue jk

obviously one fosters discussion, and one fosters an argument.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 10:25 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

ok...wow.. its been like 2 days since i came here... wow .. this is really popular!!!
ok so to sum up..
that pic was real cool *thumbs up to you for thinking of that*
PLUS :
ad .. man you are good..... uhh.. its cause im amazed how some people can insult other people with a cherry on top without making the people realise it.. i seriously want to learn that ability ..my brother has it .. im damn jealous of him but he wont teach me..(cmon teach me wouldya?? pretty please).....carrying on
hm i read the posts on the locked topic.. doesnt seem racist to me.. but does seem a bit idiotic NAIVE , i guess..
asians are asians also : "INDIANS ARE ASIANS TOO" (since that topic is locked).people who are not asians are people who are orignally from the north/south american ; european ; african ; australian ; antarctic ; russian(i think) , subcontinents ..did i leave any out..?
also:
>i think its alright if she wants to get attenton this way.. its something to pass time over it .. plus she may get bored after making up stuff and go away herself.
>it is also ok for ANYONE to want attention because WE are ALL humans.. forums are also made for that purpose other than sharing tangiable stuff we can also share intagiable things ..i guess
>this is entertainment dont take it personally..even though being a racist and all is considered bad ...we still have freedom of expression till it does not harm others...just regard it as a crazy a** topic and deal with it
>no i am not siding with anyone , i just think if people get pissed here every1's gonna leave and well there's gonna be another trolll topic soon.. and we gonna repeat whole mess again..

back to topic: yamcha ..yam those one liners of yours do NOT earn any1 a title of being a racist .. put some creativity into that.. people who consider these things as being a racist's, themselves are racists or hold grudges against the OTHER race... my point >the accuser is one b**** a** scr**** person
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 10:48 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

this is in another post cause its differnt:

I DO NOT KNOW about other rituals and styles of how arranged marriages are set up.. i ONLY have ideas of about my own county's style and its based on things like something called "janam patrika".. (it some weird stuff made of ancient knowledge passed down to some "Holymen" and that crap.. i personally do not believe in em., but hey whatever works for you.).

if you can find a suitable life partner for yourself on your own who is also compatible with your family... then hey why would any1 have problems..
BUT:
there are also some people who are more ..'reserved' and are ...maybe.. unable to select a life partner for themselves.. or are confused or not confident enough..
in this day and age this is where arranged marriage comes in
before choosing the "players" for the "game of marriage" a whole history and back ground check is frist conducted .. it leaves out cases of say marriage swindling / diseases/ bad future status.

its not that easy to get married through this process.. even this requires biodatas and all that crap a little different from the ones we would send to a company for applicantion.. trust me i know.. i know somewhat about arrange marriage process cause i helped/(well saw) my dad with doing all this crap for "oniichan"(older sis?)

both are equally good ..its like giving a kid a start swimming.. some kids are natural but some just need a push from the back.

AND ; just as a great man once said (actually a comedian named russel peters<this guy is good): no matter how you try to avoid it soon this worlds gonna be a mixed race of the chinese and indians ..look around you they are everywhere
so yam' saying the crap about destroying your heritage and all (its a load of bull)
if you do want to preserve it start wearing them kimonos, bind your feet till they break, and marry a samurai (the last samurai 'tom cruise' is not an option ) Whistling "i wonder what'd he say about it though"
YOU CANNOT define/change/affect your own heritage.. its always gonna be the way it has been, cause every new generation has its own heritage. no race and i mean no race has had any generation in its time that has copied/xeroxed the heritage (values and beliefs) of the last generation.
so if u were thinking of not dating a white guy because of that reason .. well lemme tell a now you have a lot of options for boyfriends who are not screwed as the one your gonna marry ...restautant after completing phd..(wow my dad woulda killed me if id do that) Alcoholic
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 11:19 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

soulrogue wrote:

ad .. man you are good..... uhh.. its cause im amazed how some people can insult other people with a cherry on top without making the people realise it..


I didn't intend to insult anybody. If you call somebody arsehole that's an insult. If you call a woman who sells sex a prostitute it's a fact. Like yourself i hadn't read or posted here for a long while so when i stopped by and saw a thread about an arranged marriage i thought it was an interested topic to discuss. Later i figured out that the starter of the thread was not interested in the discussion at all.

But i was also surprised by the accusations of racism and i thought people here overreacted. In my book she is not a racist, a xenophobe maybe. Nor is she a classical troll. Those will get abusive, aggressively spamming forums trying to prove everybody that they are right. Flamebait is the right word. It's when you start a discussion of sensitive topic that you know will lead to nowhere.

PS It is retarded to argue who is asian because this word is an oxymoron. Like iraqi or afgani. Asia is the word used by the Greeks to call everything East of Greece. Nevermind that there thousands of different nations and cultures there. Basically it was a geographic term. Some people these days put a different meaning for this word. But it is just a question of semantics. Leave to PhDs in linguistics.
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I think that this topic has gone too far. Lots of bashing & people are getting hurt.

May be one of the mods should consider closing this topic.
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 11:51 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

Xi@h wrote:
I think that this topic has gone too far. Lots of bashing & people are getting hurt.

May be one of the mods should consider closing this topic.


Yeah, delete this thread before somebody else post here. Arrange marriage is an important and interesting topic but this discussion went astay.

In conclusion, i recommend everybody to watch the PBS program China from the Inside. The second part is about women in China. You can find it through torrentspy.
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 6:04 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

good for you.........
hope u have a wonderful time togather ؛)
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 2:13 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

I would say that having a girlfriend before is better.. Because in that way the couple knows each other much much better... also this "love" is something I find more romantic. But note that my statements is what I THINK.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 7:46 pm    Post subject: ....wow   Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

I only read the first page and the this one and ...
Anyway
congrats on the engagement (meeting the future husband)
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sincerely hope that everything works out.

Also I don't see a problem with what the writer of this thread said, from what I found (I'm a
white American, by the way, so I don't know how accurate this is.) most Asian parents WANT
there children to marry into the same ethnic backgrounds so *shrug*. Anyway this has gone
way off topic and I agree it should either stop or be shredded (the thread). Big Smile Again congrats!
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