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How do girls want to be treated by guys?

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 05, 2006 11:37 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

kotaeshiranaihito wrote:
Imagine it this way, if I hypnotized a guy and told him to kill the first person he sees when he hears a bell, and that person turns out to be your father, is it his fault? No, I'm the one who's truly responsible.


Fault? So if someone was to murder his father it is not his fault, but the person who hypnotized him? We could extend it to the person who taught you hypnotism, the person that taught him, and so forth for 'true responsibility' or even the bell!! Blame is a game, the killer may be pardoned for lack of his faculties but your immediate influence will not be overlooked.

The rest of the post I also find false.

kotaeshiranaihito wrote:
The same thing with females, they're not responsible for their poor choices, they're controlled by their DNA (guys are the same way BTW, just our DNA wants different things, like an old friend of mine who dated a girl for seven miserable years, asked her to marry him and found out she was cheating on him.


If one is not responsible for their own actions, who is? DNA? It is generally accepted that you do not fault inanimate objects, ie. he did not suicide, the pavement killed him when he leap off the building of his own accord. Our DNA does not have a mind or will to want anything.

People want things. People have cells. Cells have DNA. Just because people have DNA does not mean DNA wants things or, by that virture, the water in our blood wants other things as well. By the same degrees we seperate the above murderer from the hypnotist's teacher, we seperate the person from DNA. Extending the fault not on the responsible woman- but to her DNA sounds an awful lot like an convenient excuse.

kotaeshiranaihito wrote:
He suffered all 7 years from her bitchiness, but always made excuses for her actions, and only now does he realize what an idiot he was for wasting his time with her). If you really want someone to blame, blame their ancestors for the many many years of mutations and passing of genetics, but I personally don't think blaming a bunch of dead people will get you anywhere.


Ancestor's probably do not know what DNA is.

kotaeshiranaihito wrote:
I could give you a small summary of what women really want (tried out in real life and it worked), but the best way to learn is to either take some social pychology or sociology classes, and try to find a non-biased professor.


Social pyschology or sociology classes do not help DNA like you any better. Maybe pheromones.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 07, 2006 9:35 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

LMFAO!! ...i was seriously waiting for that... but yeah im sorry DNA-man...you got owned. meotsuburu...wow there's nothing known about you...how mysterious...
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 6:23 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

wtf.....of course...girls wanted to be treated as girls....*i'm a girl too* anywys....girls are more sensitive towards words and it can easily hurt a girl....no abusive actions...NO NO NO.....from my perspective....i think a girl don't like to be treated with corny words....well...from me...i honestly can't stand anyone who sweet talk...so treat a girl good without not being yourself BOY....just talk normal.......
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 2:24 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

for me..

respect..
be gentleman..
but don't try too hard..
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PostPosted: Mon May 21, 2007 5:37 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

Q: How do girls want to be treated by guys?
A: Like the sluts they are

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PostPosted: Mon May 21, 2007 10:49 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

pubbie wrote:
Q: How do girls want to be treated by guys?
A: Like the sluts they are

Aww, a Swedish troll. Always wondered if they existed and now I know.
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PostPosted: Mon May 21, 2007 11:08 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

Girls want to be treated nicely by guys, Girls want to be treated cold and bad by guys. Its just jthat you have to be a little nice and little bad to them. Yeah I know, these people don't know what the hell they want. Therefore you have to see how they respond to certain treatments. If you get good response after you treat them good, be good to them, the same goes when you treat them bad, if you get good feedback from being bad to them, be as bad as you wanna be she will not have a problem. yep women are a complicated creature. As a man the rule of thumbs is to go with the flow when it comes to women.
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PostPosted: Tue May 22, 2007 12:20 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

well...as long as you foot the bill and assure them that the thousands of dollars spent on eating out is not making her fat she'll be happy. and that is how girls like to be treated (to dinner)!

the truth is though, girls are a lot more like guys than we give them credit for. people talk about badboys and whatnot, but it takes two. girls are just dudes who are more (openly) sensitive and often more mature. but we all still have the same desires, urges, emotions...

i think you should just learn about the person your interested in...and figure out what makes them happy. you probably won't learn anything here. this thread is mostly teenagers who watch doramas (no offense ladies)!
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 12:58 am    Post subject: hi   Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

caring, understanding , bring them out to movie and dinner.....
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 12:59 am    Post subject: hi   Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

caring, understanding , bring them out to movie and dinner.....
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 2:15 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

this is my 1st time posting here, just snooping around, found this interesting thread.
and i totally disagree with the nice guy thing.

nice guys really do finish last, everyone will just treat such people like buddies and not want to get into a relationship with them.

even if you're outgoing, humourous, family minded, or throw in any "nice" quality in here, people will just go for the so-called bad boy - possesive, abusive, angry, guy.

it has been hypothesized that it's about intimacy, commitment and passion. well it's not as lewd as it seems, but i don't think we need to go into the mechanics of love.

it all boils down to a little bit of chemistry and lots of superficial appearences, even if anyone says he/she doesn't go for looks, you won't even be sufficiently attracted to a person enough to engage in even a conversation for some people. then the chemistry part is the really troubling issue here.. how many people on this forum actually got rejected cuz' of a "lack of chemistry?"
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PostPosted: Sat Jul 14, 2007 5:25 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

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nice guys really do finish last, everyone will just treat such people like buddies and not want to get into a relationship with them.


I don't really agree with you there. I'm sure a lot of girls fall for bad guys, because it's more exciting and it gives them some sort of rush. But such relationships are usually doomed to fail. The passion and excitement doesn't last and then all that's left is the guy's horrible personality. Also, most of us don't like to be treated badly - at least I don't - and such bad guys tend to treat their girlfriends like dirt. rambo
Nah, what I want is a caring guy. Someone I feel comfortable and safe with. He doesn't have to be uberfriendly and good all the time though, because that would be annoying, as long as he does have a soft spot in his heart and is good to me. Whistling Sounds totally cheezy
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 4:18 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

so you do agree with me to an extent huh..
still, i don't get what you mean by him being caring yet just having a soft spot and not being good all the time.
it's like asking the guy to be able to ignore you and yet be nice on demand.

it seems easier to build a TV.
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 4:50 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

What I mean is that he doesn't have to be perfectly friendly and well mannered in front of people all the time. It's okay to have mood swings and be grumpy at times, because that's only natural. I'm not saying he should be nice on demand, but he shouldn't "always" be nice either, because that just comes across fake. Be natural. Be yourself. ^^ But when 'being yourself' means that you're always perfectly nice, then that's just the way it is, and you'll have to find someone who does appreciate something like that.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 10:37 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote

aniwaiz, I do agree on the melting of the hug from behind! I also like guys who treat me well and not just a show off. Actually a guy who knows what he's doing!
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