Most Important Quality in a Lover

Last edited by cgozun on Thu Jun 22, 2006 6:53 pm; edited 1 time in total

Which do you think is the most important quality in a lover?
+Financial Security
+Personality
+Physical Appearance

Edit:

All of these are important that's why I think they are good poll options. The number one reason for divorce in America is due to financial reasons so you can't say money is not important. We all know personality is important. It's the most popular driving force in attraction. Appearance is kind of like a wild card. Everybody has a minimum standard in terms of attractiveness. Even though you may like the personality but if he/she is not attractive enough, it might be too difficult. Some people are actually ashamed to introduce their ugly partner to families and friends and that's not good either.

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:37 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Personality of course.

What's the point of dating someone who is filthy rich but has a personality of a dead fish? Hahahaha ;p

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:40 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Lover? As in boyfriend/girlfriend? Sorry, lover to me just sounds weird.. Tongue

I voted personality but I think having the others are kind of important too. I mean, for +Financial Security, I not obsessed with money, but would you date/marry someone who hates working and doens't care about that but has a good personality? Or for +Physical Appearance, not to be shallow, but even you have to look for someone you will like to look at in the morning and with a good personality, that'd be perfect.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, they all kind of go hand-in-hand.

[Edit] Good point cub Smile

, but that could also work backwards... good personality but hates working. As I mentioned in my paragraph..

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:41 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Of course, having all 3 of them will be perfecto!

But... is that possible? Hmm...

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:43 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Yep, that will be absulutely pefect but...hmmm I wonder too. I think maybe it is possible. I guess some might be weaker that other. They can try to work to get all 3 of them..

Like, if they have a good job, but no personality, someone can help them with that.. Or something like that..

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:54 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

i'd say physical appearance, i don't want my children to be ugly. Laugh

but seriously, i would opt for personality.

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 12:32 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 6:51 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

All of these are important that's why I think they are good poll options. The number one reason for divorce in America is due to financial reasons so you can't say money is not important. We all know personality is important. It's the most popular driving force in attraction. Appearance is kind of like a wild card. Everybody has a minimum standard in terms of attractiveness. Even though you may like the personality but if he/she is not attractive enough, it might be too difficult. Some people are actually ashamed to introduce their ugly partner to families and friends and that's not good either.

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 7:02 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

I agree everyone does have a minimum attractiveness they look for in someone. I am pretty picky when it comes to women, but I have fell inlove with a girl with a great personality but not so good on the attractive department. She rejected me and I got over that pretty quick I must say LOL. I still think personality outranks the other in my opinion. You can over look the other ones if you try.

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 7:17 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

I do believe reality favors personality, but in our case, why do you think dramas rank personality last? It seems counter intuitive and quite mind boggling to think someone would fall for a jerk who just so happens to be rich and attractive. Yet, we continue to relate to these dramas that otherwise wouldn't be so popular.

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 7:57 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Did anyone mention, trust. Aren't the poll options kind way too limited.

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 8:01 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

I agree Kamui6, but oh well lol.

cgozun, I think because they make good dramas. In the start of Full house Bi was a jerk to her and she probably wouldn't have stuck around if it wasn't for the house and it turns out he did have a good personality. I don't know how much dramas really relate to reality they just make good tv. Personally you couldn't keep me with a women no matter how hot she is if she had a horrible personality. I'd be out that door so quick. I do have a friend that would stay with someone who is hot but has a crappy personality but you can probably guess what his goal is....

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 8:06 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

i would have to say sex. Bad sex is like no sex at all... =)

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 8:21 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 9:10 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Trust and Sex can be categorized under personality as Trustworthy and Good in Bed.

The fact that it's good leads you to wonder where all the facination about jerks and somehow transforming them is coming from. Of course they all turn out nice in the end but the falling in love always occurs during the jerk stage.