Most Important Quality in a Lover

Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 8:17 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

What if it's someone you've know for a while and you've come to know their personality. Not everyone hits on complete strangers or choose their partners out of a crowd at random. Most of the time, choices depend on the circumstances.

Something funny when it comes to being chosen by appearance for me; I hate when a short guy hits on my just because he likes tall girls. Laugh

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Okay let say that situation did happend and im sure it does happend often would you tell him you like him or her because of his personality, keep in mind he/she is ugly. Would you be embrass to hang out with he/she. He/she could have the greatest personality ever but in the back of your mind you will have doubts. If it was a guy the chance of him liking her because of her personality is pretty low, looking attracitve does count. People value how they look to other people and its sad but that how our society work.

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 7:55 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

it was really hard to choose between two last options. but then i remembered a crush that i had on a gorgeous guy for about 8 years (yeah, i first saw him when i was 12). the guy is 5 years older, so he was 17 when i fell for him. when i turned 20 i met him by accident and he kinda asked me out. at least i thought it was a date. but we went out with his firends, he got drunk and his intentions became clear to me. i was really shocked and heartbroken. he turned out to be a total jerk looking for easy girls i thought he at least respected me for all those years he was very kind and gentle Crying

after getting to see his really ugly personality i lost interest in him, he was disgusting and even his looks were of no help. Evil or Very Mad

so i vote for personality

Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 8:57 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

personality is important. No woman wants 2 have a bad boy who would only using her! And physical appearance is also imortant, I mean, it´s the first sight of your further lover. Financial security isn´t much important as long as there are no kids! But, if your lover is able 2 buy you flowers every day, he need some full pockets! Smile

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 7:09 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

I choose personality only because I'm a shy person, so I wouldn't approach someone who is hot. Now if the guy has an awesome personality, then that'll help me lower down my wall and make me want to approach him. As for financial situation, well, it's not important until we get married. As long as he can earn money to make himself financial stable then it's fine by me. I'll be working in a healthcare setting soon, so he doesn't have to worry about me financially. Also, if the guy has an awful personality, I don't care if he's rich or handsome, I'll be out the door in a second. This is another reason why I didn't choose money or looks first. For example, if the guy is handsome, he might think, well, I can get any girl I want so I'll treat this girl like crap. Now if the guy's rich, he might think the woman he is with should be at his becking call because he's the bread winner, so he deserves to be treated like a king. Of course all three characteristics are important, it's just that the one that will tie me and the guy together is personality. I also agree with kotaeshiranaihito that if something happens to me, I won't worry if I know he can support himself financially, so he doesn't have to be super rich.

Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 4:40 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Seeing lover as in a sexual/ romantic relationship, Im choosing C. physical appearance.
The person can be rich and have such a great personality, but being (that) ugly... sorry, cant do it... I must be that shallow Suprise

**Or what people would call, young and foolish... Neutral

Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 9:47 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0