do you believe love after married?

my friend was very frustrated after being a couple for along time they break.
now she looking for somebody can take care of her for the rest of life.
so base on my story, do you believe love after married?
Whistling

Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 6:27 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

i dont get it... did you mean another love story after a broken marriage?
i dont quite agree about it coz if thats the case:

if you fall in love with someone else,
wouldnt it feel like the love youve been feeling up till
now were all lies?

Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:02 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

no. my friend didn't married anymore. just have bf for many long years.
then they broke up. after that she find a new love but not longer. now i heard her family seek for her future hubby. then she tell me i want to try love after married.
i also agree bout that. bcoz sometimes be a couple too long without any plan its like wasting time.
but not like she was deprate.
hahahha

Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 10:44 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

I think you can learn to love someone after you are married. However, I would try to get to know them somewhat before I do anything. I would at least want to know if they are a good person or not. However, your thread sounds a little confusing. At first, I thought you meant, that she was married, and if it was alright to search for love else where while married. I was thinking, omg, thats pretty much cheating on your husband. I think its possible for your friend, but she should think about it first. If she just got out of a long relationship, she may be making this type of decision off of emotion, but she should think carefully before deciding on something so important.

Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 10:58 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Yes, I think you can love someone after marriage as long as your heart is empty and not fill with love for someone else...

Posted: Tue May 13, 2008 3:26 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

hahah, in this world now is hard to see honest guy or a good girl.
that why my friend accept her family proposal.
but i agree with you bf, we need to be love before we set the comitment.
she now 26 years old. and all her friend has been married.
a girl when she know all her friend married, she will thinking about that too.
not about jealousy, but is more like to be same like her friend.
i also pray for her that she know what she do...

Posted: Tue May 13, 2008 7:42 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Ok rikochan gf, I'm really really thinking thinking really really hard trying to crack da vinci code in you post up above. I mean really gf, are you telling me you no trust an honest guy/girl out there but you trust your parents to pick an (presumably) honest guy for you to marry? But you just say there's hardly an honest guy/girl out in this world? Blink

Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 8:39 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

"In life, you'll love two persons. The first is the one who changes the way you see yourself and the world. And the second one is the one who puts the pieces of your heart back together after you have lost the first one."

Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 3:22 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

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Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 3:36 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

@g-em...like your quote....whos more important 1 or 2..... @zyrene....hope ya not adding your mom to the marriage package deal.....

Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 3:38 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

no personal experience here, but if there were none, why marry in the first place?

I reckon it's realistic to have a great love every few years, although I'd hope for just one Wub

Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 3:49 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

@slowmoe
no not in the marriage package deal.. but in life, if what g.em said was right i think we should include a third person.... Big Smile

Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 9:22 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0