!!!A Real-life "Densha Otoko" Daisakusen!!!

Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:06 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

I just dropped in on this topic and being a big fan of the series, I can understand where you are coming from. I was the same way in HS and I had asked about half a dozen ppl to go with me and was rejected each time. The seventh finally said yes. With dating, it is like searching for a job, the more you apply, the more chances you will have. The only lesson here is not to give up. Just like everything that you are not confortable with, it is difficult at first, but with repitition the actions become normal.

Like the guy above, if you want to dance with a girl, just ask and make sure she didnt come with anyone or else that person might not be too happy. If you have to, down a shot of something to calm the fears (Note to all, i dont encourage underage drinking but it helps...)

For the dance part, just slide your feet around and dont I REPEAT DONT STEP ON HER. Ask your mom, sister, or dog if you can practice, thats what they are there for, to help you...and remember to have fun...

Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 3:38 am Post subject: reply Post Rating: 0

thanks for the advice! in regards to the "downing something"....well.....no comment.
but anyway, thanks a bunch for the help! it really means alot=D
only thing left is my tux><aahhh><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><;

Posted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 12:17 am Post subject: Prom in 1 Hour >< Post Rating: 0

aaahhh, prom is in an hour!
the day has finally come..... Goggle eyes

up until now, i've really thought about my life, and how i can make my high school career memorable, and thanks to all of you of who have posted in this thread, i can finally take the first step: going to the prom.

i'm more nervous than anything, but i really really really want to have a good time, despite my exhaustion.

but more than anything, i wanted to thank you all for your contributions. i wish you all nothing but the best in your lives and future endeavors.

thank you, truly.

"densha otoko"

hey everyone,
this will be my last post in the "Real-Life Densha Otoko Daisakusen" thread.
once again i'd like to thank everyone who helped and supported me. thank you!

last night, prom was great!!!! although i didn't dance as much as i wanted to, i'm glad i went nonetheless. in truth, the girl who asked me to sit with her was someome who i had secretly admired in middle school, and up until recently, i have been denying my feelings for her. during middle school, one of our mutual friends asked me if i liked this girl. i wanted to say what was in my heart, but without thinking i denied it. shortly after, we were on an excursion and i remember her coming up to me. she seemed to be waiting for me to say something, but i was to chicken to do anything. but now i know that my feelings for her are still very much in my heart. regardless, now 5 years later, she has a boyfriend, who is someone that i know will take care of her; he is someone who i approve of. but he's graduating this year, so do i have a chance with this girl, who is the same age as me, next year? i really want to try. it hurts just to be around her, but at the same time, idk, i just want to be with her.
but going back to the topic of prom, i really had a nice time, and i plan to go to my senior prom next year, hopefully with this girl.

once again, i thank all of you for your help. i honestly feel that i've grown as a person since i first posted this thread months ago. so i thank you for the last time, truly, thank you so very much! thumright

"prom otoko"

Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:18 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Wait you cant leave...you gotta tell us what happeens with this new girl and how it will lead up to next years prom...and another question, why in the world are there so many proms now??? When i was in HS, we only had one senior prom...

Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 9:00 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 8:21 am Post subject: ........ Post Rating: 0

due to popular request, "prom otoko" will continue to post in this thread=)))))))
The time spent waiting for replies gave me a sense of belonging and dare i say, a sense of family Big Smile

so yes, i will keep you all updated. i have one more year in high school, and i will keep you all updated on my experiences, preferably those involving the girl i talked about in my previous post. Please, continue to support this thread. Although it's small, i believe that it has definitely come a long way! Onegaishimasu thumright

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 8:49 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Good...maybe post some pictures too thumleft

hey everyone,
with prom over, the atmosphere at school is nostalgic to say the least. Its kind of like the magic of prom is over. as quickly as it came, it left.
i was however able to dance one song with "prom chair" (she was the chair of prom)(this will be her code name from now on) but not very welll actually. i suppose the electric slide is easy for some but i can honestly say that it was a disaster. furthermore, her BF was in the same row as us so even more so, it was embarassing. to top it off, i leaned the wrong way and bumped into her ><><<><><><>< pale

i turned quickly to apologize but she was smiling, saying that it was ok. we ended up laughing about it later. aaaaahhh, right now i feel so regretful, so weak, and pathetic. she knew that i liked her in middle school and although i had a chance to portray my feelings, i didn't. from then on it's been really hard to look at her, to talk to her, to see her. and to make it just a smidge worse or better, we're in 5 of the same classes out of 7(in 2 classes, i am fortunate to sit next to her), and we've had to work in group projects. i don't think i'm imagining it, but everytime i talk to her, her eyes meet mine in perfect sync, and i swear, i just want to tell her everything; how i've felt about her for the past five years, how i wanted to talk to her and be the person she could rely on. but i can't. i can't do anything. perhaps in the coming year i'll be able to get closer to her or at least be a better friend to her than i am now. until now, i've held back, wishing that something would just happen on it's own. but i know now that i can't just sit back and wait for nothing to happen. so...idk why i'm rambling on about this but it somehow feels good to get just that much out of my system. i can guarentee that there will be more of these posts in the near future, and i'm sorry that i've bogged you all down with this long post. please forgive me, and thank you for reading.
i do however have one request: please tell me how i can get closer to her and be a better friend to her.

"prom otoko"

Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 1:24 am Post subject: update Post Rating: 0

hey all,
although it's not much, i honestly feel that i'm slowly getting closer to "prom chair".
we had a party for our prom advisor being that it was her birthday, and we all brought food to share. i was able to talk a little with "prom chair" and complemented her on her pasta salad, which was really good btw. but back to topic, i'm starting to realize that just being a good friend and helping her in anyway that i can is the first step to getting closer to her. aaaahhhh, another thing is that i'm only 5'2'' while she's like 5'5'' which makes things a bit complicated. but either way, that kinda of stuff shouldn't matter right???

Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 1:58 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

is she the same girl went with you to the prom.....

Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 3:22 am Post subject: reply Post Rating: 0

well, she was in the group that i went with. the first girl i talked about at the beginning of the thread rejected me.

Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 3:46 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

planning asking her out again....

Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 6:21 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0