Goto page 1, 2, 3 ... 9, 10, 11 Next
| View previous topic :: View next topic |
| Author |
Message |
Littleangel91356 Joined: 22 Apr 2005 Total posts: 104 Location: USA Age: 19 Gender: Female |
Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 12:35 am Post subject: [Discussion] Kekkon Dekinai Otoko Post Rating: 0 |
|
|
I watched it today and it was pretty ok, a bit different from the dramas that I usually watched. Abe Hiroshi san did a good job as always in his role and the actresses were too. Just I never thought it was going to have a idol*tsukamoto Takashi* in this drama.
But well, at least it shows a little bit of uniqueness on this drama. Hope people can say here on how they felt about this drama.
|
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Halko Joined: 10 Dec 2005 Total posts: 40 Location: It's pink here. Age: 19 Gender: Female |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Wolfsbane68 Joined: 06 Jan 2006 Total posts: 61 Gender: Unknown |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Littleangel91356 Joined: 22 Apr 2005 Total posts: 104 Location: USA Age: 19 Gender: Female |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
usagi_on_the_moon Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Total posts: 34 Gender: Unknown |
Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 4:31 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
|
|
| i haven't watched the first ep yet but it looks interesting. I have always enjoyed Abe san's performances.
|
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Crazy PenguinLocation: Antarctica Gender: Unknown |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
goygakgoy Joined: 05 Jun 2005 Total posts: 388 Gender: Unknown |
Posted: Fri Jul 28, 2006 4:22 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
|
|
| HA! This drama is hilarious. This is why I love J-dramas...u can always expect something different. I think the doctor is pretty cute too.
|
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Yukster Joined: 01 Dec 2004 Total posts: 44 Gender: Unknown |
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 7:11 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
|
|
Can anyone relate to this drama? I love how they focus on bachelorhood, and how one doesn't have to be married to be fulfilled. I am not sure if Abe-san's charachter's personality became like that because he is single for a long time, or whether he was always like that, and therefore he is single, but it is quite refreshing to see a charachter that is NOT desperate to get married. Personally, I think women automatically assume that men need women to do the household chores and stuff (esp Japanese women), and take it for granted that men can't function without women. When they see a man that is independent, and is able to take care of himself it drives them crazy. Of course, in episode 5, they show Abe's charachter sort of being over whelmed with work and life.
Being single and 30 years old, I sort of understands how he feels. I take pride in being single, being able to cook for myself, and taking care of household chores. While all of my single friends are living with their parents, and dying to get a GF, I am quite happy being single. Of course, when you get sick, it sucks that you are living by yourself... (which I found out the hard way).
I was just wondering if anyone knows what I am talking about...
|
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Crazy PenguinLocation: Antarctica Gender: Unknown |
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 7:43 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
|
|
| Yukster wrote: | | Can anyone relate to this drama? I love how they focus on bachelorhood, and how one doesn't have to be married to be fulfilled. I am not sure if Abe-san's charachter's personality became like that because he is single for a long time, or whether he was always like that, and therefore he is single, but it is quite refreshing to see a charachter that is NOT desperate to get married. Personally, I think women automatically assume that men need women to do the household chores and stuff (esp Japanese women), and take it for granted that men can't function without women. When they see a man that is independent, and is able to take care of himself it drives them crazy. Of course, in episode 5, they show Abe's charachter sort of being over whelmed with work and life. |
I would take this from a different view. Many men assume that they need women to do the household stuff. This, even today, still gets somewhat emphasized by society (and is a load of bull if you ask me).
Though, if I take my father... Without my mother he'd starve to death and would run out of fresh clothes sooner or later.
| Yukster wrote: | Being single and 30 years old, I sort of understands how he feels. I take pride in being single, being able to cook for myself, and taking care of household chores. While all of my single friends are living with their parents, and dying to get a GF, I am quite happy being single. Of course, when you get sick, it sucks that you are living by yourself... (which I found out the hard way).
I was just wondering if anyone knows what I am talking about... |
I agree, definitely. I'd never get a GF or marry just to have help in the household. Heck, I'd even stay at home and turn into a stay-at-home dad. No problems with that. And, if I remember it correctly, isn't Suzuki Koji (author of Ringu and Dark Water, etc) what we'd call "house husband" (or at least used to be)?_________________ 
|
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
rickt |
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 8:01 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
|
|
| Yukster wrote: | | I was just wondering if anyone knows what I am talking about... |
yes, I can sort of understand what you're saying, although it's more like my brother's experience than mine. he was 30 and single, and when I was still living with him he was the one taking care most of the household chores (and I'd say he did it much better than I do) when he was finally getting married, I guess it's more towards finding the one he wants to spend the rest of his live with, rather than the pressure of having to get married when you've reached your 30s. 'cos from what I heard, he still does most of the chores even now that he's married...
I guess at some point, when you're single and living on your own, people don't really see it as being independent anymore. somehow the society can't differentiate between not wanting to get married and not being able to find someone to get married. most people will assume the latter when they see you're over 30 and not married.
but yeah, it does suck when you're sick and living on your own, especially when you live far from your family. I guess that's where you need a cute neighbour to help you out...
|
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
airskape |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
auroragb Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Total posts: 1356 Gender: Unknown |
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 1:08 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
|
|
I think that pressure to get married comes still from more traditional Asian/Middle Eastern cultures (Chinese, Korean, Indian, Jewish, etc) I thnk it's less for western cultures. Tho i guess in all cultures you'd be seen as odd for being 40 and never married ...
Hmmm... how about a drama about getting married just so that they can get divorced and be single and not be seen as odd? I think I just came up with an j-drama idea for the next season  _________________ Jdrama Chinese fansub index 2006 | 2007
|
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Akiramike Joined: 04 Jan 2004 Total posts: 777 Location: Melbourne Gender: Male |
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 2:07 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
|
|
| Yukster wrote: |
I was just wondering if anyone knows what I am talking about... |
Yeah. That's why I love this dorama. Something for the older ppl. I can so relate to Abe Hiroshi's character. The whole ''m single and I'm going to do what I want whenever I want'. (outside of working hours, of course)
They need to touch on how it sucks to be a third wheel when ur friend invites u 4 dinner.
|
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Wolfsbane68 Joined: 06 Jan 2006 Total posts: 61 Gender: Unknown |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
nak Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Total posts: 497 Gender: Unknown |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
You cannot post new topics in this forum You cannot reply to topics in this forum You cannot edit your posts in this forum You cannot delete your posts in this forum You cannot vote in polls in this forum You cannot attach files in this forum You cannot download files in this forum
|
|
|
|
Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2002 phpBB Group • Forum skin developed by Volize
|
| |
|
|