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PostPosted: Thu Jun 28, 2007 9:41 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
I tend to fall for very complex and hard to understand women. I love to explore people feelings. Foul or strong temper is actually my weak point too. That's something i find being an endless supply of fun.

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I've been in 2 relationships where I just take what ever it is the girl dished out on me. calling me up in the middle of my sleep to help her out. or just listen to her. listening to her boy problems (after we broke up) even though she knows well i still like her and it pains me to hear it and asking myself why she chose him instead of me when i can be better. lol


that's the story of my life Big Smile
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 28, 2007 9:47 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
Sometimes I'm afraid of guys...actualy of their judgment...Like:Am I pretty enough, funy enough...ANYTHING ENOUGH!?Stupid Q isn't it?! I feel so complexed from time to time....Do guys feel the same about girls they like?
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 28, 2007 10:20 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
Dreamfall wrote:
Sometimes I'm afraid of guys...actualy of their judgment...Like:Am I pretty enough, funy enough...ANYTHING ENOUGH!?Stupid Q isn't it?! I feel so complexed from time to time....Do guys feel the same about girls they like?


Yes. Guys feel exactly the same.

Of course, there are plenty of mentally ill people out there of both genders who do not follow the rules... If you find yourself repeatedly involved with people who react pathologically (acting out violence, drinking to the point of passing out, driving a car agressively) to minor stress, you need to step back and ask yourself what it is about those people that is attracting you, and learn to see it as a warning sign. A very unfortunate friend of mine was attracted to men who were shy... Except when they were angry, when they became EXTREMELY violent. She could pick them out without fail. I pointed out to her that all her boyfriends had back trouble and broken noses at the time she met them, but she didn't get the hint, and kept on seeking out men who would ultimately attack her physically in a violent rage.

Did I just go waaaaayyy off topic?
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 12:16 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
Dreamfall wrote:
So correct me IF I'm wrong..but I should be easy to get along with, with simple personality and....and drunk?! ( just kidding -_-' )
But what about looks...how should girl look like...is it important to be beautiful?
'If it doesn't matter... then I have one cool neighbour that is just 88 years old and she realy has simple personality..... Big Smile Big Smile Big Smile '


i'd say it differs from people to people Tongue on that note if you need them drunk well.... pinch i doubt it's gonna last long Fear

as for physical appearance PERSONALLY i have no particular preference but i won't turn someone down if they're less than stellar *cough i'll have to get back on you for people i find ugly cough*

on that note, i find girl i can get cute angry really fun Tongue

malljclay wrote:
not a guy but

reality check

inner beauty is OVERRATED : )


i disagree on that one... well for my friends at least *rolls eyes* half of them just go for the pretty looking ones whilst i stand back and watch em fall Tongue Tongue Tongue

i think bottom line is it's all personal preference and differs from person to person.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 1:55 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
Yo guys! I am finally back from a week training...Dreamfall you started an interesting but hard to answer topic. Personally (usually same as other guys!) I don't have a specific mindset on girls. If they are pretty it is a bonus, if they have personnality another bonus...but what is pretty? Personality-wise i went 2x for a very fiery, loud girl. It irritates me but i do like it sometimes...so it depends.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 8:44 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
Ok....here is some of my hypocrisy (to myself and to guy I've been with)...1,5 years ago I was in relationship which started like this...he stared at me all tha time in school...I wouldn't even notice him if my classmate didn't tell me about... So...he is very boring person (to be honest ) but I didn't tell him so when I realized it...After 2 months I couldn't resist not to tell him :"Sorry Darlin...I feel relationship is not what I want now...blah,blah....(lie,lie,lie)..." .
Why I wasn't honest and said what I realy think...I didn't love the guy anyway?!?!?!?
Since then....All guys I liked were unreachable or not noticing me...Do I have high criteria... do I choose guys too pretty for me???
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 9:28 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
so.. umm.. whats your number? maybe we can change all that. Tongue Mr. Green

at times i tell myself, i should be more honest with my feelings, then perhaps I might find myself together with her. I used to be like you dreamfall. i still am when i find the girl i am attracted to seem to be out of reach for me. but at times i do meet girls that i tend to connect right away and be comfortable enough to act myself. we do tend to lie and tend to show the person we are attracted to a different us hoping he/she will be attracted to us and later show our true selves or the rest of ourselves.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 10:13 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
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well.... i know this one might be taboo for me but anyways i'm NOT fond of outer looks *shock* may help but when i'm looking for a girl, i'm always thinking in terms of can i live with this person for the rest of my life?


Seem like you're a smart guy.

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Since then....All guys I liked were unreachable or not noticing me...Do I have high criteria... do I choose guys too pretty for me???


Not sure if you mean unreachable guys are "pretty" guys? May be you have not try to get to that friend status with those unreachable guys yet? If you just stay an one place and expect those unreachable guys to look at you, I don't it's possible unless you're those super beautiful gals... Just that I thought, the first step to even get those guys to acknowledge you is you have be friends and talk to them. The case I stated here is general case.. of course there are exceptions...

Many guys claim to consider girl's look and attraction. But in the end, guys will end up with the girls that they can really talk to and be comfortable with. Am I right or wrong???

Anyway, not sure if I'm hitting the right topic here. I have a friend who told me this statement "In general cases, it is the girls who chase the guys NOT the other way round." Tongue So any of you people agree with it?
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 10:19 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
AboutDrama wrote:


Many guys claim to consider girl's look and attraction. But in the end, guys will end up with the girls that they can really talk to and be comfortable with. Am I right or wrong???


My sentiments exactly. its the accessability and experience (memories) you build that keeps you from going back to that person. even despite of the bad memories at times you just try and find ways to get to her/him even if he/she treats you unkindly at times. lol
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 11:08 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
Agree!! I like someone that i can connect, someone that can share feelings, jokes, interest and stuff. I don't say outer look is unimportant, but inner-beauty is still valid. Doesnt matter how cute, and how nice a girl is, at the end, if i dont feel connected, then its nothing.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 1:58 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
AboutDrama wrote:

Seem like you're a smart guy.


well i try Tongue though i think i'm stupid 2/3rds of the time Tongue takes less effort

on the girls chase down guys well.. the few times i tried to chase a girl i got a nice flat refusal Tongue and then i got hunted instead so... personal experience would say yes pinch
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 8:43 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
so it is OK to be refused ...even I'm a girl..?
Not so long ago I asked my friend about one guy...and friend helped me asking 'other side' what thinks about me...There was aproblem...Guy met me (only once)when I was in bad and not so talkable mood ( I was silent whole evening ...darn it!)....And he judged me as very silent girl by seeing me just once...So he actualy refused me... Sad
But I'm not that kind of person...But he made conclusion that fast...and that wrong...
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 9:27 pm    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
do you still see the guy around? why not start a conversation with him whenever you do? relationship needs to be cultivated. it doesnt just grow from one meeting alone. when there's a get together and he's around why not talk to him? show your other self. perhaps he'll know you then and start to like you. ^^

the only problem i have now a days is that i don't get to hang out often enough since i been working. hopefully when i start school this coming semester i can start socializing again and meet some people (mainly girls) and hope to find someone and start a relationship with her.

and yes it is ok to be refused. he is also a person who has the right to choose which one he likes or not.

and dont worry! try to let yourself be known by talking and meeting again!
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 10:10 am    Post subject:    Post Rating: 0 Reply with quote
THANKS PPL....Hope I'll meet guy again...it is a shame to loose him once more.
I wont stop talking until my tongue falls out of my mouth...just kidding... Big Smile
Don't want to make him feel bored eather...
Hey...guys...what does make you feel bored while talking with a girl...Is there any topic that makes you sleep with eyes wide opened? ("I'm only sleeping in my head...." Dawid Bowie...just remembered that song).... Big Smile
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