Arranged Marriage thank Goodness!

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 4:03 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

lol owned?

now u're being called a troll....

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 4:51 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:16 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

For those who don't feel like reading through the previous 8 pages, this picture pretty much sums it up

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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 6:09 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 4:59 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

http://www.d-addicts.com/forum/viewtopic_44141.htm

Read this before you give this moron the time of day. I didn't realize it was THIS person, they just got better at trolling - no race baiting this time. They also strike me as being totally fake, i wouldnt be suprised if they are neither asian nor female.

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 6:21 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

thanx 4 that nikochanr3

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 6:51 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

No problem, it kind of annoys me cause some of you are so nice, offering advice and discussion when someone is sitting on the other end giggling cause they are tricking you. its just stupid.

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 7:17 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

okay.... after reading that thread, I understand everyone's reactions..

Perhaps this thread should be locked too? Leave it to rot away. All replies are abuse anyway. And it's not good that this thread keeps being brought up again and again.

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 7:36 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Nono. If the thread is locked the troll might latch onto an existing thread where something important is being discussed. Best to leave the troll and the folks who enjoy being trolled a cozy place to carry on. Natural selection will kick in and do it's job via the name recognition pragma.

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 7:49 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

I just realized Yamcha is the person who said Hyundai's are inferior! Ugh...he/she is now my enemy! I hope her pretend arranged husband is ugly! Uh..or something like that....

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 8:06 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Anyways, Back to the original topic.
Arranged Marrages are OK, however just depends on what you think you wanna do. There is alot of ways to meet somebody.

The good arranged marrages isnt a contract, in some cultures Arranged marrages are contracts, you decide without even dating them to marry them. Those are imo bad, because you dont even know wtf you marrying, could be some skitz for all you know.

However if its a non-binding arranged marrage it wouldnt be too bad to meet them then go out alittle then get married if you 2 decide so. (NOT THE PARENTS DECISION!!! alot of parents love to stick their fingers in and meddle with your decision, and pressure you into saying YES cuz they wanna get rid of ya.)

Just depends on what you like, some people would hate arranged marrages since it would mean you didn't get to choose. Its almost like going to a resturant and the waiter goes "screw asking you what you wanna eat, i will just bring ya some food". Some people might like that cuz they cant be bothered choosing their own food.

Hope everything works out great for ya, if it doesnt then there is always another guy around =) ^^

Love is a long journey, however some people dont make it to the end, because they give up in the looking phase. ^^ Stay in there, Ya will find somebody for you!

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 8:15 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

My student in english class had an arranged marriage kind of. (i taught) This was like 10 years ago. He arranged it himself though. Another student had a sister in china who wanted to get married. This person (not the sister) was fun, really pretty, outgoing, she was awesome, and she swore the sister looked similar. He called the sister, and she was sweet over the phone, and after some talking, it was set up that he would bring her here for marriage.

it wound up ok, she was nice, and they were happy. he was REAL dissapointed at first, she was nowhere close to the sister though.

i think for me the problem with an arranged marriage is, chances are, at some point in your life, you are going to want the WOW I JUST MET THIS PERSON amazing rush, and follow through on it. if you just have this gradual comfort from the arranged thing, i just feel like that may happen anway. it always may happen anyway, but it just strikes me as more likely.

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