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Yunase Joined: 09 Jan 2005 Total posts: 14 Gender: Unknown |
 Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 7:46 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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| raynor wrote: | any advice? on how to approach her and start talking? 
or how to make it less akward? |
Simply avoid one thing : being needy. The biggest turn-off for a girl is to discuss with someone who shows off too much interest to her. She doesn't even know you, why would she act nicely to you after all ? If you had to watch a 3 H movie like Titanic but knew the end already, I bet you would rather do something or prepare yourself to get bored.
That's the same thing going there, you're not the first guy who's going to have a crush on her (unless she's socially inept but you'll be surprised to know that girls are usually more experienced in relations than guys, reason being they can be opened by men quite often anywhere, anytime, especially if they're hot). If she's aware of it, you can be sure that she'll avoid you at all cost or put you into the "best friend zone" (the famous "no, I think it's going too fast, you're a good guy who deserves a better girl than me, let's just be friend") category like the others because she doesn't want to see you as a threat.
Just have one thing in mind : have some good fun with her. That will be your motivation and you'll fly under her radar. Be **** and funny, don't be afraid to tease her, she's a human being who also loves being challenged.
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pwner4onceJoined: 06 Sep 2005 Total posts: 505 Location: Unite States Age: 20 Gender: Male |
| Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 1:19 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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| sometimes i just don't get why girls want to be teased and such. it's so stupid, rude and meaningless. but girls tend to hate and love us for it. something i don't get in life..
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YunaseJoined: 09 Jan 2005 Total posts: 14 Gender: Unknown |
| Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 2:36 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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| pwner4once wrote: | | sometimes i just don't get why girls want to be teased and such. it's so stupid, rude and meaningless. but girls tend to hate and love us for it. something i don't get in life.. |
Well, being teased is not the same of being insulted. You're flirting with her, not being rude or impolite. That's a huge difference. After all, what's the most stupid thing to do in your opinion ? Acting as a common "nice guy" who's going to answer yes to her every single expectation just because you're too afraid of her reaction and having the most boring conversation of your life ? Or simply being yourself, fun and unpredictable ?
When you say that "girls tend to hate and love us for it", it's half right because it clearly depends on your teasing ability. If you met a girl who told you to "get lost" and responded by saying "you're not nice, you're a ****", I doubt there would be love at thy sight, or maybe some kind of painful love made from physical cheek slap. Instead, answering her by a "you struck me as someone more creative at first" is not only funny, but also demonstrates her you're not being needy or frustrated.
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WraethJoined: 08 Sep 2006 Total posts: 2 Age: 31 Gender: Unknown |
| Posted: Sun Nov 26, 2006 7:05 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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| So many post so haven't read it all but, to ladies like Sweetsamurai and Yunase. If I had listened to them years early, I think I would have made so many more friends. Guys, I think our insecurities causes us to not here how simple it is to talk to the girls. Don't let their advice just dribble over your brains MAN!!! If it helps close your eyes every once in awhile when your talking and pretend it's your best friend. I think I might be jumping the gun so gals correct me if I'm wrong but, they want to see a guy that they can count on, whatever it is. When you **** at a rejection or get all clingy like a 5 year old to his mom those are exact opposites to a guy they can count on. That's why Sweetsamurai says not to be nervous and assertive and Yunase says teasing is fun. First of all it breaks the tension and second, it shows that your not cracking under pressure. So if. . . if you are a bf your not gonna go running off and hide when the roof has blown off and the rain is pouring in. Okay maybe not that crazy. "Fighting" hehehe Happy Happy Happy Day Sorry, good things keep rolling my way. Don't, don't slap me though. I'll come to my senses or not HAHAHAHA hehehe hmhmhm oh brother..... whew *sigh*
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SHIN-RAJoined: 07 Oct 2005 Total posts: 92 Location: Indonesia Age: 25 Gender: Male |
| Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 3:54 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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Well, about teasing girls, eh?
You should never be invasive towards the girl, instead, make something funny that both of you can enjoy. Remember that girls are also human beings, and they have their own sense of humor. Don't be too invasive, and I'm sure they will like you.
BUT... hey, girls can do the teasing sometimes..._________________ "Ultimate Excellence Lies Not in Winning Every Battle, but In Defeating The Enemy Without Ever Fighting" - Sun Tzu
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elmoJoined: 09 Jun 2006 Total posts: 4 Gender: Unknown |
| Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 8:30 pm Post subject: How you ask her out? Post Rating: 0 |
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| how you do it?
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blamvitaburstJoined: 20 Oct 2006 Total posts: 34 Location: USA Age: 24 Gender: Female |
| Posted: Fri Dec 08, 2006 5:31 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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*sigh* There was this guy who rode on my bus every other day, and I had a sort-of crush on him, but now I doubt I'll ever see him again since the semester is over and classes will be different. He seemed to look at me a bit longer than is appropriate between strangers this last ride, though.
Then again, I can't tell if people look at me because they're interested in me or because I look funny. I have this suspicion that my wacked-out hair draws stares I wouldn't otherwise receive. White girl with semi-afro, wth? Sorry I don't have straight hair, damn. :'(
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I guess I'll always wonder.
He didn't seem the type you could start up a conversation with out of nowhere, either. Not in a bad way, but there are just those people that you feel you'd need a reason to talk to, you know?
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Le_MuseJoined: 03 Sep 2006 Total posts: 21 Location: California (because we practically are our own country^^) Age: 22 Gender: Female |
| Posted: Fri Dec 15, 2006 9:12 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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| blamvitaburst wrote: | *sigh* There was this guy who rode on my bus every other day, and I had a sort-of crush on him, but now I doubt I'll ever see him again since the semester is over and classes will be different. He seemed to look at me a bit longer than is appropriate between strangers this last ride, though.
Then again, I can't tell if people look at me because they're interested in me or because I look funny. I have this suspicion that my wacked-out hair draws stares I wouldn't otherwise receive. White girl with semi-afro, wth? Sorry I don't have straight hair, damn. :'(
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I guess I'll always wonder.
He didn't seem the type you could start up a conversation with out of nowhere, either. Not in a bad way, but there are just those people that you feel you'd need a reason to talk to, you know?
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Believe it or not, but when a guy stares, it is due to attraction. I have been taking a male/female relationship studies class at my college and I learned that girls have around 46 different methods of flirting behavior while guys have, at most, only 5.
That is why guys are so oblivious to our signals...they actually don't know what to look out for and that is why they openly stare. It is meant to be appreciative and harmless but sometimes it can be seen as an invasion of privacy and girls often feel it is a turn off (so be aware guys when you do this...if the girl looks like she is becoming uncomfortable, stop doing it because she is not interested and you are freaking her out).
So if you ever sense a guy full on staring at you and you feel a crush coming on, look straight back at him and give him an open inviting smile for a few seconds. That is the one green light that most guys are finally able to catch on to. Don't look away shyly and giggle every time you pass....they never catch on to that. How are they supposed to know that it is aimed towards them?
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GilraenJoined: 25 Nov 2006 Total posts: 140 Location: The Netherlands Age: 28 Gender: Female |
| Posted: Fri Dec 15, 2006 9:34 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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I just noticed this thread. I saw the title and was immediately reminded of Densha Otoko so it made me smile. While watching the dorama I felt this strong wish to be a part of a thread like that one so when I just noticed this one I had to post!
So, hi everyone! *waves*
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ryan123Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Total posts: 13 Gender: Unknown |
| Posted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 3:01 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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hey this girl and I have knowing each other for about 2 months, And university is no over during Christmas. During school time, she asked me to go eat dinner with her because I helped her on an assignment. Then she cooked me some lunch (because I payed for her lunch once). She asked me to study with her a lot during school time, but after exams were over I asked her if she wanted to go shopping and eat during christmas (we are both in the same hometown). But she said she mite go somewhere for vacation or visit her old friends.
We are in different Coop times so I wont see her again in unversity until our 4th year.
I guess when i called her the itiming wasnt too good either, because she was still sleeping lol. This was before the nite I gave her her christmas present lol, she really liked it. She told me to go visit her during her coop time. So Im wondering If I should ask her again to go hangout during christmas, and when and how I should ask her this.
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soulrogueJoined: 28 Mar 2006 Total posts: 68 Location: India(<*-*>) Age: 20 Gender: Male |
| Posted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 7:21 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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ahh long time ...havent been here..
hmm ..
ryan ..would like to help ya in asking her out...but well lets say i dont have any bright ideas!...but basing on what u just said... she well made you dinner regardless of what her reason was! so i GUESS she does like you.. but then she refused xmas thingy with you... so you might have screwed up sumwhere.. then again its pretty hard to judge all these things..
ok now to the point she did TELL you to visit her .. so u can just go and visit her and ask her personally hows' life been treating her n all... and i guess things will lead away themselves!..
well best of luck!
uhh request : even though it maybe obvious from the name PLEASE identify your gender!.. yeah i know ... but it IS easier to know the gender of the person ur getting advice from
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ValcunJoined: 25 Jul 2005 Total posts: 130 Location: Hawaii Age: 21 Gender: Male |
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x_XJulesJoined: 18 Jul 2005 Total posts: 948 Location: Seattle, WA Age: 21 Gender: Female |
| Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2007 9:43 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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i never post here anymore ^^;; i actually don't post much on d-addicts either. school and work take up a lot of time i suppose.
but i thought i'd stop by cuz i saw justin posted and thought, man, how rare is that LoL.
i see jing is still here. hi!! is jerry still around this thread?? i know richie doesn't post much, but why should he? LoL, he's off being happy with his adorable girlfriend ^^ i'm so happy for him.
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Mochi?Joined: 05 Feb 2007 Total posts: 87 Age: 22 Gender: Female |
| Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2007 9:46 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0 |
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