Fantasticals' Fantastic tips on dating pt. 1

Posted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 8:18 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

This topic became so somber that my wild, foxy nature really can't stand it so I came to mess around^^

Peggy is right, kids nowadays don't read anything that surpass standard leaflet from a supermarket, no one would appreciate any efforts in composing a beautiful and vague in description poem, that would bring you a Nobel Prize...

Happy enough I'm able to get true Absinthe, mehehe...

Posted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 6:25 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Welcome Ethlenn,

thanks for entering once again and please lift the mood. Don't know if absinthe will be elevating however!!!!! Got to watch that stuff. Who loved that..was it Toulouse Lautrec?? No someone else I think. I'll think on that for awhile.

Now you have folded up the nine tails what is the next journey going to be?? I shall keep a watch just in case it is one of my special joys.

Peg.

Posted: Sun Mar 21, 2010 12:46 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Yes I did remember correctly. Toulouse Lautrec...also Beaudelaire. Van Gogh and Gaugin.

also Picasso....and Oscar Wilde. etc etc etc.

Peg

Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 10:47 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Yup, Toulouse-Lautrec, and all that bunch of Poètes maudits, I guess who else than you would know that^^ Also all that boheme artistique^^
Absinthe is illegal in most countries, but it kicks, that "green fairy".
In the meantime, there is always gin to douse in.

OK, since the topic is on dating, here's my priceless tip on it:

Don't.

Posted: Wed May 26, 2010 5:29 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Dating....my take in this is: go have fun getting knowing that person or them people; depends on how many you are seeing at the time, but don't ever get serious in your dating, it won't be fun if your getting serious....

Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2012 8:42 pm Post subject: Post Rating: 0

Well I wonder where this page went to. Probably off doing something interesting.
Fantastical vanished. I'm still here as the song says. Ethlenn definitely swishing around.

Aren't there any other people who like words with some meaning nowadays.

Even rappers can make life interesting if they have a mind.... full of words.

The thing about rapping that I find difficult , is trying not to slide into poetry with rhyming
sentences.

Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2013 3:14 am Post subject: Post Rating: 0

This is pretty piss poor dating advice... here's that I've learned (short version).

For guys:
Look Healthy - Everyone is attracted to healthy looking people because healthy people produce healthy & strong offspring. If a woman has to spend 30 minutes doing their make up everyday to look good, you can least spend 30 minutes to work out. Girls needs to feel secure and protected around their man and being a little stronger/bigger helps. Looking healthy also means wash your face, do your hair, wear fitted clothes, etc. Look in the mirror, if you would do you then you're good.

Have a Career (Plan) - Women needs to know and their offspring are taken care of. If you're not in school, you should be working. If you love computers, you should become an IT. If you don't have a career, work two jobs until you do. Work on what you love and the women will come. Women love career driven men with goals. Watching every single Kdrama or beating every game is not a career.

Social Skills - You may be the nicest and sweetest person in the world, but no one will know unless you know how to properly show it. You think you're being nice to a girl, but she may think you're a creep because your body language seems uncomfortable, you can't keep eye contact, or you stutter. Work on your social skills and talk to the person in front of you waiting in line, the cashier, the person sitting on the bench, compliment your friend's clothes, etc. Now your that you're not nervous talking to strangers, try asking out that waitress you think is cute or ask that hot chick to study with. Failing is the first step and practicing is the second step towards success.

Confidence: fake it till you make it
Questions: write down and memorize 5 interesting questions for the sake of conversation (ie If you could take a vacation anywhere in the world, where would it be?)
Jokes: write down and memorize 5 jokes (ie what type of food is good for your eyes? SEEfood)
Story telling: write down and practice telling 3 stories well (ie So me and these 4 girls were standing outside the club, some random guy hits up the hottest of the 4, but gets rejected. I know it takes a lot of guts, but I told him that he did good and at least he tried unlike 90% of the guys out here. I told the girl that she should take it as a compliment because it takes a lot of courage, she laugh and decided to give the random guy her number.)
Practice/Fail: How many hours of losing or playing in Starcraft did it take to get where you're at right now. It's the same thing here with women...

Smile, talk about things that the person is interested in, ask questions based off the answer that was given, be excited and interested when that person is talking, pretend that person is your best friend, and stay away from politics and religion.

Approachable- If you're home alone, you probably won't be able to ask anyone or be asked out. This mean, join a club, go study at a tea/coffee place, etc. If you're a girl and you're forming a circle with 3 other girls, guys can't approach you. Approaching people is hard enough, so make it easier by putting yourself in a approachable position. Guys should approach every single girl they are attracted to because she could have been that .00001% chance the girl of your dream. If she's taken, you won't be thinking what if, if she's not suitable for you she could be suitable for your buddy or has friends that are suitable for you.

For girls: Ask a guy out if you're interested in him, he will not think you're a slut for making the first move. If a girl asks me out, I'd probably give her a chance even if I'm only slightly attracted to her because it takes a lot of guts to approach and I just got complimented.

Think that's all I have for now, please feel free to correct or add to this guide.